Met A Famous Only Fans Girl

[Raze]

3 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Most of these men are not single, lonely or unhappy. They are not. Stop believing this lie. Most men in that category are out looking for women and trying to get a gf or just totally gave up. Adult industry is mostly being patronized by married men, men with long time gfs and men who like fantasies, variety or are just simply sex addicts.

 

Many of those men are in sexless relationships because the woman got them to marry on the promise of intimacy then stopped it when they couldn’t leave 

[Hojo]

@Raze When this happens their minds are programmed to be beta.

[Princess Arabia]

3 hours ago, something_else said:

Your argument is essentially that you should blame the men instead of the women because they create the demand and I agree with that. Ultimately they are the ones stupid enough to fall for these scams.

I don’t agree with you that the majority of these guys know what they’re in for though. On that front I think you’re quite sorely mistaken. The majority of guys buying OF are not doing it in a healthy way. It’s done out of loneliness and desperation the majority of the time. If you’re getting regularly laid you’re not gonna waste money on OF.

You also can’t completely absolve responsibility from the girls. It depends on the degree to which they are exploiting guys. Making sexual content online and wanna get paid for it? Maybe you lead a few guys on a bit? Sure, whatever, you do you. But having a team of guys pretending to be you chatting to countless guys just to extract as much money as possible? Yea that’s plainly past some ethical line.

I personally know a guy who goes on OF. He's married, has lots of friends and travels a lot for work. He isn't lonely and desperate. Many guys like him likes this shit. In my 10 yrs of working in this field 80% of the guys I've seen aren't desperate and lonely. They're dodging their wives and telling their buddies. They're guys with long time gfs or married. 10% of the guys I saw were single. Single desperate and lonely guys aren't seeing prostitutes. OF is a bit different as it can be done from the privacy of their homes but it's just like watching porn. Most guys on here aren't doing this simply because they're young, and this is mot their thing. They mostly fit the criteria of what you're talking about. These guys aren't into hookers and pros WHO ARE?? Married men and men who can get women. WHY? Because they can. Go do a survey of desperate, lonely men, they're not mostly out seeing hookers, they just aren't. They're complaining about women. The men seeing these women aren't. Ask THE GOD, he sees hookers and seems to love them. The oldest profession doesn't need lonely and desperate men, just MEN. 

 

[Princess Arabia]

3 hours ago, Raze said:

Many of those men are in sexless relationships because the woman got them to marry on the promise of intimacy then stopped it when they couldn’t leave 

Different reasons. Stop making excuses for the men who patronize the industry. It's in every country, every age, color, race, height. It's everywhere. More clients than workers and for no reason other than they can and love to. 

[Princess Arabia]

4 hours ago, Hojo said:

@Princess Arabia Labelling individual only fans pages as a business is pushing the boundaries of the word. Its selling nudes not a business. And they aren't even whores they are lying. Thats like saying a prostitute has her own individual business when a man sticks it in her. Its a transaction.

Whatever. No men,.no business. It's a business whether you consider.it that or not. It's the men that don't like to face that fact because.it spoils their fantasy. They want the woman to like them that way and not see it as such. Ridiculous. Women need more to like than just a body like men do.

[Hojo]

@Princess ArabiaOnly fans is a business. Only fans pages are tricks to get barely legal young women men to show themselves naked online for chump change. This is something you promote as a genuine business that is ridiculous. I can take a picture or several pictures of my dick and put it on only fans and I have a business if people give me money for it.

The top .000001 percent can make it a business and 80 percent of that is dumb luck.

Edited Friday at 12:40 AM by Hojo

[gambler]

Most of these girls have serious anti-social personality disorders. I was acquainted with a girl who unfortunately went on to do OF. Her personality is so broken. She's a textbook case of a sociopath. Everyone who's around her is able to see this eventually. Many people who are around these girls say the same thing. For the most part, these girls don't care about right and wrong. They take advantage of others. They are self-centered and are prone to lying and manipulating for self gain, including using their charisma. They feel no guilt and have no respect for other people's feelings or are insensitive to it. It's why you'll hear from some of them how having sex with married men is good, because it'll help him in his relationship. These people are problematic and I'm done beating around the bush. I'm also done with sanitizing those who try to do this in an "ethical" manner. The bottom line is these people play with risky behavior, and no amount of sanitizing the consequences will justify their behavior.

Edited Friday at 01:14 AM by gambler

[gambler]

Btw I have Princess Arabia ignored, most of you will benefit if you do the same. I recommend it.

[Lyubov]

It's exploitative for sure. The only way out is to uplift men so they don't spend money on this. They are willingly giving money away to these leeches. 

[BlessedLion]

12 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Your analysis sounds personal. Such hypocrisy and stupidity on your part. Does Walmart or any other retail company personally care about their consumers. They're in business and we don't care if they care about us on a personal level, just give us good service. Why the heck do you expect a stranger to care about you on a personal level. Shoot, not even doctors care about their patients that much. They're just doing their job for the most part. 

Calling them exploitative whores is just you whining and bitching because these strange beautiful women don't care about your feelings and couldn't care less about your personal life and rightfully so. Imagine giving that much personal attention to so many whiny men who don't give a shit about you either. 

 

I thought you left the forum to pursue enlightenment, how's that going. 

 

 

You’ve clearly got some issues so I’m not going to engage. You’ve always been super ungrounded, reactive and defensive. Honestly I stopped reading anything you wrote a while ago 

[BlessedLion]

2 hours ago, Lyubov said:

It's exploitative for sure. The only way out is to uplift men so they don't spend money on this. They are willingly giving money away to these leeches. 

Yeah man that’s my goal. It’s a form of fighting back. 

[BlessedLion]

11 hours ago, Tenebroso said:

While I agree that spending money on Only Fans is a bit pathetic I don't agree with calling them exploitative whores. At the end of the day nobody forces a man to use only fans. I also feel we need less taboos around sex, not more.

I find it funny how you are one of those supposedly enlightened, love and light men who thinks the answer to everything is meditations and inner growth but you are so triggered by human sexuality and the reality of supply and demand. 

Sure. Maybe exploitative whore was a bit much. I was trying to add some emphasis. 
 

Yeah, I’m not triggered by human sexuality. I actually love it and think it’s beautiful. I’m triggered by men ruining their lives over porn addiction and handing over their masculine power to a screen. I’m triggered by the lack of education and restriction on porn availability causing men to get addicted as early as age 8 because they have a natural curiosity which turns into addiction. 
 

This isn’t uncommon. Just today I met a woman who divorced her husband because of his porn addiction. 
 

im very pro-sex, i think sexual energy is one of the most powerful things on earth and should be exercised. 
 

Calling them whores was not very conscious though, I’ll admit that.

 

And yes love & light all the way ❤️☀️

[BlessedLion]

11 hours ago, Hojo said:

Walmart is a service. A picture to jerk off too is not really a service. Baiting fans into thinking you like them while shit talking them to take their money is as devilrous as rug pulls and is like selling crack.

Yes, and they use their eyes in a hypnotic way to exploit men even further. It’s beyond just porno mags, it’s an illusory relationship and it’s ruining the souls of many men. 
 

I knew people would disagree with me on this, but it’s cool to see some people see what I’m pointing to. 

[BlessedLion]

9 hours ago, AION said:

Very good observation about the porn industry. Everybody is a loser. Especially the consumers. And although the workers earn money, they destroy their soul in the process. They become an empty shell of themselves.

Yeah. I could feel it a bit from her. I don’t think she fully understands the scope of what she’s doing but I could see it was wearing on her a bit. She said she wanted to get out of the industry as soon as possible. Probably feels pretty dirty. 
 

Most adult actresses end up coming to this realization. You can see their podcasts and stuff now. 
 

Truly, nobody wins. 

[BlessedLion]

3 hours ago, gambler said:

Btw I have Princess Arabia ignored, most of you will benefit if you do the same. I recommend it.

Thank you Lord! Didn’t know you could “Ignore” people, 100% doing that 

[Vynce]

On 13/02/2025 at 5:22 AM, BlessedLion said:

I was out the other weekend, partying, and ended up talking to a girl who was apparently a pretty famous OnlyFans star. People she didn’t know at the club actually recognized her. I’d rather not say her name. 
 

But I got to asking her about her job and had a ton of questions. We spoke for maybe 2 hours and I came to the following realizations;

 

-OnlyFans stars literally see their followers as cash symbols and that’s all. For the most part they couldn’t care less about the men that follow them, their mental health, or financial situations 

-Typically they actually have their life together, with a stable partnership, money (from the losers they exploit), and supportive family. Compare that to the men who get addicted to their content causing strain in relationships and self worth, financial issues, and addiction. 
 

-They almost get off on how much attention they get and that they can make money off the guys following them. Especially the couple OnlyFans

 

-I had a deep insight around porn and the whole industry in general. It’s not the women who are being exploited, it’s the men! They see you as a loser, and the whole relationship that seems to be happening is simply an act. They don’t care at all about the men who follow them, and even get off on exploiting your sexuality and weakness. 
 

Anyway. The whole thing made me sick. Obviously she said none of this directly but I picked up on it. It turned me off permanently from the whole industry as it’s in actually quite immasculating, cuck-y and pathetic to give your time energy and money to these exploitative whores. 
 

Just my take, I’m sure some of you will disagree. But really, at some level they have to know that what they are doing is not a NET positive to the world. 

You cannot imagine how little a man, consuming porn content, cares about the model once he released his semen. The same goes for hookers: men are extremely ignorant and selfish after they got what they wanted. 

So why would any model "care" about her followers. Go deep into her perspective and ask what consequential experiences she would had. 

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

Lol she really is bending over backwards to defend her profession, isn't she? It's kinda funny to observe

[Consept]

@BlessedLion I think its kind of like how humans are attracted to sugar, it tastes so good to us because we would get it in very limited quantities in nomadic, tribal days. Now its abundant and capitalism has used it to sell us more and more, manipulating our natural attraction for it but of course leading to numerous health problems. 

This is the same with sex, previously it would only be members of our tribe that we ever see or maybe a few outsiders, now we can see any type of girl we want naked at anytime and we're programmed for this to be extremely exciting for us, essentially for the purpose of procreating. This is and always has been exploited by the sex industry. The difference now is the delivery method is easy to make and very easy to consume. Capitalism is ruthless, it doesnt care about the well being of the consumers. I think its potentially a step up from pimps or porn studios exploiting women but yes men are being fully manipulated. Theres even a funnel of having a little scroll on instagram, you maybe hover over an incredibly beautiful latina girls picture, you then get bombarded with that girl and other similar in increasingly more revealing images. You look at one of their profiles, you see they have an only fans thats only $5 for the first month, you sign up and start engaging and get addicted to seeing her new image and videos everyday. Its basically a one sided relationship that you pay for. But you can see the tactics to lure guys in. 

@Princess Arabia can defend it as she does but in my mind theres no doubt its a manipulation, there are many businesses that are manipulations btw. But with this i think men lose a lot more than just the money. I think women also lose a bit of humanity as well, they basically become con artists in a way, theres a lot of pretending going on. I also think theres a quite toxic thing people do where they blame people that get scammed, its like with Tate where his fans blame the girls that he got to do sex work, or blame the guys that he convinced were gonna meet the girls and gave him 10s of 1000s. The whole point of a scam is to fool you into doing something, it doesnt mean youre not responsible as you have to take responsibility and learn from it but you were fooled into doing it, usually by big promises or selling a dream. 

[gettoefl]

Everyone wants every other at the same level of pain and sickness as they are at

and will exert sweat and proffer money to actualize that.

It's only fair, right!

Let's trade honey for money.

None of us are effed up, we're just having fun.

 

[gettoefl]

If she walks innocently down the street and he offers her a sum for sex and she agrees, he has brought her to the same level of sickness he is at

If he walks innocently down the street and she provides him her OF details and he subs, she has brought him to the same level of sickness she is at.