Met A Famous Only Fans Girl

[BlessedLion]

I was out the other weekend, partying, and ended up talking to a girl who was apparently a pretty famous OnlyFans star. People she didn’t know at the club actually recognized her. I’d rather not say her name. 
 

But I got to asking her about her job and had a ton of questions. We spoke for maybe 2 hours and I came to the following realizations;

 

-OnlyFans stars literally see their followers as cash symbols and that’s all. For the most part they couldn’t care less about the men that follow them, their mental health, or financial situations 

-Typically they actually have their life together, with a stable partnership, money (from the losers they exploit), and supportive family. Compare that to the men who get addicted to their content causing strain in relationships and self worth, financial issues, and addiction. 
 

-They almost get off on how much attention they get and that they can make money off the guys following them. Especially the couple OnlyFans

 

-I had a deep insight around porn and the whole industry in general. It’s not the women who are being exploited, it’s the men! They see you as a loser, and the whole relationship that seems to be happening is simply an act. They don’t care at all about the men who follow them, and even get off on exploiting your sexuality and weakness. 
 

Anyway. The whole thing made me sick. Obviously she said none of this directly but I picked up on it. It turned me off permanently from the whole industry as it’s in actually quite immasculating, cuck-y and pathetic to give your time energy and money to these exploitative whores. 
 

Just my take, I’m sure some of you will disagree. But really, at some level they have to know that what they are doing is not a NET positive to the world. 

[Sugarcoat]

As long as there is a demand for such content or sex in general from men there will always be supply. In the most severe cases men will even force women to fulfill this demand, for example what some pimps do. We live in hypersexual culture here in the west in general, in combination with how our modern world works in terms of easy access to pleasure and “dopamine” so I can’t fully blame men for falling for such things, because our society is built for it to easily happen. It can take a lot of work for someone to un wean themselves from this hypersexual culture and stop consuming such things. It’s possible though and I think it’s a good idea to strive for it as a man (and woman too if you happen to fall for it too). As with a lot of other forms of pleasure seeking. It’s on the individual themselves to work on this, but a societal level change would help too, like more equality for example 

Edited February 13 by Sugarcoat

[Princess Arabia]

Your analysis sounds personal. Such hypocrisy and stupidity on your part. Does Walmart or any other retail company personally care about their consumers. They're in business and we don't care if they care about us on a personal level, just give us good service. Why the heck do you expect a stranger to care about you on a personal level. Shoot, not even doctors care about their patients that much. They're just doing their job for the most part. 

Calling them exploitative whores is just you whining and bitching because these strange beautiful women don't care about your feelings and couldn't care less about your personal life and rightfully so. Imagine giving that much personal attention to so many whiny men who don't give a shit about you either. 

 

I thought you left the forum to pursue enlightenment, how's that going. 

 

 

Edited February 13 by Princess Arabia

[Princess Arabia]

Do you think this famous only fans girl is writing a novel about meeting you. Youre the one making a big deal out of the encounter. She's just a regular female doing a job to try and support herself and her family, while the guys that patronize are there because they cant keep their dcks in their pants,.but she's the exploitative whore.

You took the time to interview her and then come on here bashing her like she did something wrong. What did you expect.....for her to change your mind. Make you feel differently about these honest workers. I call them honest workers because they aren't advertising love and marriage and to magically fix.your low self esteem problems. Only fans is obviously a business and one chooses.or not to patronize. 

Stop expecting these women to really personally care beyond the normal humane expectations. YOU FUCKING DONT EITHER.

 

Edited February 13 by Princess Arabia

[Tenebroso]

While I agree that spending money on Only Fans is a bit pathetic I don't agree with calling them exploitative whores. At the end of the day nobody forces a man to use only fans. I also feel we need less taboos around sex, not more.

I find it funny how you are one of those supposedly enlightened, love and light men who thinks the answer to everything is meditations and inner growth but you are so triggered by human sexuality and the reality of supply and demand. 

[Raze]

It is a double standard. When a man wants to get laid or ghosts a girl he gets accused of “using her”. But if a woman is directly seeking lonely men or men in unhappy marriages to pay her we are supposed to applaud her.

It’s a toxic business model. The women doing it become desensitized and develop contempt for men which damages their future relationships, and the men get exploited for their resources and don’t pursue healthier avenues of connection.

[Princess Arabia]

You said your interview with her made you sick, this post made me sick. The worst of the worst because you were in her face asking her private questions just to fucking exploit her afterwards by betraying her trust. You think you're doing anything here by saying what you're saying but i can tell you that there are some pretty happy clients of hers who are probably happy to have her service and even well aware it's just a fantasy. It's guys like you who can't tell the difference who are annoyed with these girls because you expect for some strange woman you don't know to love and cherish you from afar. 

I'm a bit ticked because I've had it up to here with guys getting away with being and doing whatever they want while females.are always getting the brunt end of the stick. They can go whore down the town and fuck Sue,.Jane.and.Mary and get a pat on the back, but when women are looking to get paid for their services, they get chewed.up and spit out. ENOUGH ALREADY.

 

[Princess Arabia]

5 minutes ago, Raze said:

It is a double standard. When a man wants to get laid or ghosts a girl he gets accused of “using her”. But if a woman is directly seeking lonely men or men in unhappy marriages to pay her we are supposed to applaud her.

It’s a toxic business model. The women doing it become desensitized and develop contempt for men which damages their future relationships, and the men get exploited for their resources and don’t pursue healthier avenues of connection.

Most of these men are not single, lonely or unhappy. They are not. Stop believing this lie. Most men in that category are out looking for women and trying to get a gf or just totally gave up. Adult industry is mostly being patronized by married men, men with long time gfs and men who like fantasies, variety or are just simply sex addicts.

 

[Hojo]

Walmart is a service. A picture to jerk off too is not really a service. Baiting fans into thinking you like them while shit talking them to take their money is as devilrous as rug pulls and is like selling crack.

Edited February 13 by Hojo

[something_else]

1 hour ago, Princess Arabia said:

They're in business and we don't care if they care about us on a personal level, just give us good service.

The ethical issue here is that many of them pretend to care about the guys. If they can convince these men that they do care, they'll give them more money.

Even worse, a lot of the big OnlyFans accounts have teams of guys pretending to be the OF girl. They chat to men and try to lure them into a parasocial relationship to extract even more money from them.

Most of the money making in OF happens through whale contacts, essentially guys who they have identified as the perfect combination of rich and gullible. These guys are lured into spending more and more money.

This is why a lot of OF girls will post everything on Reddit/Twitter. You might see that you can get anything you'd want to see from the girl on Reddit/Twitter and think "well what dumbass would buy her OF then?". The answer is guys who are gullible enough to think that if they give her money, she'll actually like them. And the girls know this and target those guys, which is quite exploitative in nature.

 

[Princess Arabia]

51 minutes ago, something_else said:

The ethical issue here is that many of them pretend to care about the guys. If they can convince these men that they do care, they'll give them more money.

Even worse, a lot of the big OnlyFans accounts have teams of guys pretending to be the OF girl. They chat to men and try to lure them into a parasocial relationship to extract even more money from them.

Most of the money making in OF happens through whale contacts, essentially guys who they have identified as the perfect combination of rich and gullible. These guys are lured into spending more and more money.

This is why a lot of OF girls will post everything on Reddit/Twitter. You might see that you can get anything you'd want to see from the girl on Reddit/Twitter and think "well what dumbass would buy her OF then?". The answer is guys who are gullible enough to think that if they give her money, she'll actually like them. And the girls know this and target those guys, which is quite exploitative in nature.

 

Listen, this business has been around for a long time. It's nothing new. Same for the sob stories. Nothing new. Take it from me, these guys want to be exploited or used or whatever phrase you guys use. THEY DO. Think about it before you rebut that statement. Most of these guys are adults and not teenagers who are naive or new to the business. These guys know what they want, the type of girl they want, the fantasies they enjoy and couldn't really care less if these girls really like them or not, they only act like they do TILL THEY MOVE UNTO THE NEXT GIRL. 

It's an act for these guys too. The girls are objects just as the guys are objects just like you're only a consumer in your country with a number. Everything is being put on these girls to be the one who cares and who must be in love and treat these guys like husband's. These guys know exactly what they're in for and wouldn't do it if it were any other way because it's part of the allure. NO STRINGS ATTACHED. Go on dating sites and you'll see how many put that in their profile NSA. These guys don't really want you to care, they only act like they do so as not to seem like they're objectifying these women too. 

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, Hojo said:

Walmart is a service. A picture to jerk off too is not really a service. Baiting fans into thinking you like them while shit talking them to take their money is as devilrous as rug pulls and is like selling crack.

Lol. Baiting???? I'm done. Only men that see pussy as a weakness will call it baiting. Its like the alcoholic blaming the liquor stores. What about saying no, thank you. Pathetic to call it Baiting. No one is forced.

None of these girls say, oh BTW, I really like you, please believe me, I really love you. Being nice and friendly is part of the service. It's not a plot to bait. Are the stores you patronize mean to you and do you say they're baiting you in to come buy their canned sardines just because they smile and say welcome. Give me a break.

Edited February 13 by Princess Arabia

[Hojo]

@Princess Arabia They do that all the time. They have big doners that they put bread crumbs in front of to get the most cash possible.

I know you are done you say that every single conversation you have with someone. You dont have to say it anymore.

Edited February 13 by Hojo

[Princess Arabia]

I'm so through with you men always hating on these girls but have nothing to say about pick up artists trying to bait women all day long to get in their pants. One in here even recently said how he's nice to them until he gets them in bed then he treats them like shit. None of you men commented on that and I could rake up a few more women hating comments on here that has nothing to do with men trying to make a living but strictly just trying to get laid. Hating on women just because they cant easily get in their pants. None of you guys says nothing but are always calling these men lonely, exploited and taken advantage of.

Don't fucking turn a blind eye on men trying to exploit and use women for sex all the time. It's disgusting how none of you guys speak up on that. Only a minute few I've seen. Other than that none of you care. Well, these men are grown.

Edited February 13 by Princess Arabia

[Hojo]

@Princess Arabia next time a pick up artists charges for womens attention that desperately need attention then you can make that comparison.

A pick up artist is looking for pussy and making it blatantly clear. An only fans model is looking for money while pretending to be a slut. They don't want sex with their doners cause their doners are pathetic and being taken advantage of. Alot probably don't even like sex.

Edited February 13 by Hojo

[Princess Arabia]

4 minutes ago, Hojo said:

@Princess Arabia next time a pick up artists charges for womens attention that desperately need attention then you can make that comparison.

It is a  vomparison I can make because both have to do with sex. Matter of fact, atleast OF girls aren't trying to make dangerous physical contact where diseases are a risk. PUA's are. Truly pathetic how a business isn't free to be a true business. Everyone is trying to make it personal. It's a fucking business for Christ's sake. 

Edited February 13 by Princess Arabia

[Hojo]

@Princess Arabia Labelling individual only fans pages as a business is pushing the boundaries of the word. Its selling nudes not a business. And they aren't even whores they are lying. Thats like saying a prostitute has her own individual business when a man sticks it in her. Its a transaction.

Edited February 13 by Hojo

[AION]

Very good observation about the porn industry. Everybody is a loser. Especially the consumers. And although the workers earn money, they destroy their soul in the process. They become an empty shell of themselves.

[Hojo]

@AION The people jerking off do too. Its Akin to selling crack to crack heads. The people buying it are on the same level of self deprivation as a crack head wanting crack. Only its attention they want cause they don't get any.

Edited February 13 by Hojo

[something_else]

1 hour ago, Princess Arabia said:

Listen, this business has been around for a long time. It's nothing new. Same for the sob stories. Nothing new. Take it from me, these guys want to be exploited or used or whatever phrase you guys use. THEY DO. Think about it before you rebut that statement. Most of these guys are adults and not teenagers who are naive or new to the business. These guys know what they want, the type of girl they want, the fantasies they enjoy and couldn't really care less if these girls really like them or not, they only act like they do TILL THEY MOVE UNTO THE NEXT GIRL. 

It's an act for these guys too. The girls are objects just as the guys are objects just like you're only a consumer in your country with a number. Everything is being put on these girls to be the one who cares and who must be in love and treat these guys like husband's. These guys know exactly what they're in for and wouldn't do it if it were any other way because it's part of the allure. NO STRINGS ATTACHED. Go on dating sites and you'll see how many put that in their profile NSA. These guys don't really want you to care, they only act like they do so as not to seem like they're objectifying these women too. 

Your argument is essentially that you should blame the men instead of the women because they create the demand and I agree with that. Ultimately they are the ones stupid enough to fall for these scams.

I don’t agree with you that the majority of these guys know what they’re in for though. On that front I think you’re quite sorely mistaken. The majority of guys buying OF are not doing it in a healthy way. It’s done out of loneliness and desperation the majority of the time. If you’re getting regularly laid you’re not gonna waste money on OF.

You also can’t completely absolve responsibility from the girls. It depends on the degree to which they are exploiting guys. Making sexual content online and wanna get paid for it? Maybe you lead a few guys on a bit? Sure, whatever, you do you. But having a team of guys pretending to be you chatting to countless guys just to extract as much money as possible? Yea that’s plainly past some ethical line.

Edited Thursday at 08:36 PM by something_else