This is a top tier tinder profile of a guy

[Jannes]

I feel weird posting pictures of his profile, even if I make them anonymous so I rather describe them: 1) Normal selfie, 2) Another selfie, 3) picture of himself in underwear from a distance with his meat quite pronounced, 4) picture in a bathtub with naked upper body, 5) picture of him sitting with shorts and a shirt and visible (through the shorts) boner.

So normally on tinder the top picks are exclusively girl. This guy was apparently liked so much that he managed to get a place at the top picks in my city. His face is handsome but not quite model material. I live in Germany btw. I saw this profile maybe a year ago and I still cant get over this. There are so many fantasies in my mind about what women want and which mind games have to be played and this fucking guy just shows off his dick and gets massive likes. The shock will never end.. But when I think about it does make sense. He is has the balls and strategy to pull off this straightforward presentation and (some who are up for casual sex) women want exactly that. And while he is very clear about what he wants (he also uses the 👻 emoji in his bio btw.) he isnt super pushy about it, like he doesnt do a sex pose or writes in his bio that he wants sex and his photos do look chill and somewhat classy. He is like the Mr.Beast of tinder - figured out how this works (for sex) perfectly. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Edited February 12 by Jannes

[Paradoxed]

Smart man. He clearly has an attractive physique and is aware of it. Nothing wrong with showing yourself off. Being bold can go a long way in the dating world.

[Raze]

Where do you see what the top picks are?

[Jannes]

@Raze The button in the middle of the tinder apps makes two things visible, who likes you and what the top picks are. 

[Jannes]

1 hour ago, Paradoxed said:

Smart man. He clearly has an attractive physique and is aware of it. Nothing wrong with showing yourself off. Being bold can go a long way in the dating world.

Yes but it's against everything you have been told. Like it's usually about being charming and funny and when that goes right girls become emotionally open for sex. He just straight up shows off his meat wtf. But I am no attracting doctor btw. I see this as a learning opportunity. Maybe I am too uptight. 

[Paradoxed]

1 minute ago, Jannes said:

Yes but it's against everything you have been told. Like it's usually about being charming and funny and when that goes right girls become emotionally open for sex. He just straight up shows off his meat wtf. But I am no attracting doctor btw. I see this as a learning opportunity. Maybe I am too uptight. 

Tinder is a tool for hook-ups. The same way you swipe right on an attractive woman in a bathing suit, women swipe right on an attractive guy in his underwear. It's really not too complicated. This doesn't even mean he has success with women or gets laid, just that he gets a lot of matches on tinder.

[Jannes]

3 minutes ago, Paradoxed said:

Tinder is a tool for hook-ups. The same way you swipe right on an attractive woman in a bathing suit, women swipe right on an attractive guy in his underwear. It's really not too complicated.

I abandoned the belief that girls are physically attracted to guys in a significant way. 

Maybe it's different on tinder because looks are all there is. 

3 minutes ago, Paradoxed said:

This doesn't even mean he has success with women or gets laid, just that he gets a lot of matches on tinder.

Well it takes a match to make a date. I dont think women would swipe right if they weren't interested, the guy can show off his matches to other people so the girls invest status.

[Hojo]

@JannesWe were all lied too and gaslit really badly and its making us mentally ill and unable to communicate properly because we hold back so much.

Edited February 12 by Hojo

[Princess Arabia]

Women will scream at the Chippendale guys. Doesn't mean they'll sleep with them. Women will admire from afar especially if it's safe to do so.

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, Jannes said:

Yes but it's against everything you have been told. Like it's usually about being charming and funny and when that goes right girls become emotionally open for sex. He just straight up shows off his meat wtf. But I am no attracting doctor btw. I see this as a learning opportunity. Maybe I am too uptight. 

It's hard to show charm and wit on a dating app. It's a different ballgame. 

[Infinite Tsukuyomi]

As a gay man, I have told my straight male friends to show more dick print on there. Looks like someone does, and it works well. It simultaneously has a rebellious air to it, which I think works well. 

[Jannes]

@Infinite Tsukuyomi I would be too afraid to show pictures of me in underwear. It feels like a certain status commitment, in the end I care more about relationship then much sex. And I have a regular package, I dont know if this is something you can market. I asked chatgpt for more subtle ways to show of your meat, its hilarious:

 

Yes, there are ways to subtly highlight your physique and hint at what you’re bringing to the table without being as overt as posing in underwear. Here are some more reserved but still effective ways to showcase yourself on Tinder:

 

1. Well-Fitted Pants or Shorts

    •    A good pair of grey sweatpants (the classic) or well-fitted jeans can subtly showcase your shape without being over-the-top.

    •    Athletic shorts with a slight bulge in a natural pose (like sitting casually) can also do the trick.

 

2. Swimwear Shots

    •    A beach or pool pic in swim trunks is a socially acceptable way to show some skin.

    •    The key is to look natural—walking, standing confidently, or coming out of the water.

 

3. Gym or Sports Pics

    •    A post-workout mirror selfie in fitted shorts can showcase both physique and a natural outline.

    •    Playing a sport (e.g., basketball, running) in compression shorts or fitted joggers works too.

 

4. Sitting Poses

    •    A relaxed seated pose with legs spread slightly apart (not exaggerated) can naturally emphasize your package.

    •    Something like sitting on a ledge or steps in casual wear.

 

5. Slight Shadow or Lighting Tricks

    •    Soft lighting or shadow placement can enhance certain features without making it seem staged.

    •    A photo where the light hits from the side can subtly create a shape.

 

6. A Towel Shot (Post-Shower, But Classy)

    •    A post-shower mirror selfie wrapped in a towel can be suggestive while leaving a bit to the imagination.

    •    Keeping it casual (e.g., brushing teeth or looking at your phone) makes it feel effortless.

 

7. Low-Key Bedroom Shot

    •    Sitting or lying in bed with sheets draped over your lower body can give a relaxed, intimate vibe without going full thirst-trap.

    •    Boxers peeking out from under sheets can work too.

 

[Jannes]

This becomes a new science.