I see woman as object.

[jacknine119]

As if they are diferrent creatures. I see beautiful woman as something poweful and fearful. Idk why is that but i want to change it... I want to see women as normal people...

[LastThursday]

I think you already know that women are not objects, because they often talk back. I suspect - I could be wrong - that you don't talk to or know many women in your life. To start you need to put yourself into lots of situations where you get the chance to talk to women. I'm sure there are many ideas about how to do that that people can give on here. Talk out of curiosity and enjoyment, rather than anything else. Talk to beautiful women, talk to ugly women, be relaxed and enjoy the process.

[Sugarcoat]

Because society puts beauty on a pedestal so you've been conditioned to do so, and maybe because you lack experience with women that would demystify them for you

[Recursoinominado]

Have some female friends that you cannot ever have sex. Bonus point if they are beautiful. 

[Schizophonia]

You are just afraid of rejection.

Women are objects, just like men; You go to each other to enjoy different things.

[1337]

You need to have some female friends. This is the absolute solution. Do not try to flirt with them.

But the problem is that having female friends is impossible when you see women as a object.

Fake till you gonna make it.

If you are watching too much porn, you should consider quitting porn for a while.

 

[Basman]

How many women do you talk with in general? Family, work, etc.? Its obvious that they are just people when you interact with them in my experience. Like, is the nurse that is just doing her job when she helps you at the doctors just an object? genuinely? Or when your mom is talking about how exhausted she is from work? perfectly normal interactions.

It seems to me that seeing women purely as objects might have a practical element of not having to consider their thoughts and feelings as significant. It could protect you from feeling vulnerable and help justify exploitation (manipulation, rape, violence, etc.)

[Basman]

I guess I shouldn't feel happy when my mom tells me she is proud of me. Its like accepting a compliment from a cardboard box.

[Emerald]

The number one thing you can do is to interact with many women platonically just like you do with men. This will remove the mystique.

But you may benefit from looking into integrating your own Feminine side.

The more a man pushes away his Feminine side, the more he will project negative powerful images onto women as a group. 

And it leads to this love/hate pedestalization of women, where there is a disgust towards women but also this intense craving and feeling of women having power over you.

Look into Anima possession.

Here's a video about how to integrate your Feminine side...

 

Edited Thursday at 01:26 AM by Emerald

[Raze]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ny1QP-bZN60

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yi2k2nvlLwI

[LordFall]

Women and females are a part of your spirit and it's a powerful energy to understand and integrate. Enjoy! 

[Hojo]

How do you change your relationships with objects? Throw it away and stop looking at it then. Stop checking women out. Stop looking at them stop begging for attention with your eyes.

Kick woman out of your mind for 1 month. 

Edited Friday at 12:19 AM by Hojo

[jacknine119]

@Recursoinominado I have one very beautiful friend. And I have a lot of sexual fantasies on her. I wish she will not realize that I want to fuck her hard😁🙃

[jacknine119]

@Emerald Thank you I ll see. I really don't know my feminine side!

[jacknine119]

@1337 Nope I am not addicted but i was

[jacknine119]

@LordFall yep yep after I posted this I have so fucking many progress and I am trying to enjoy the process..