Truth about every male if I'm not wrong.

[Princess Arabia]

Just now, Rishabh R said:

@Princess Arabia  So you mean that anyone who disagree to you or is hurt by your response has a trauma. Other people commented too on the post but I wasn't hurt by their responses even though I disagree with them a bit.

They aren't female. They don't represent to you what your trauma is about. 

[Rishabh R]

@Princess Arabia Haha but I was trying to help/give message to males from my post. 

[Princess Arabia]

@Rishabh RYou've had traumatic experiences with women in the past. Your posts have said so yourself. Don't make me go dig them up. I can.

[Princess Arabia]

Just now, Rishabh R said:

@Princess Arabia Haha but I was trying to help/give message to males from my post. 

Yes, about women. 

[Rishabh R]

@Princess Arabia I know as I have been abused , bullied women and men alike. Rejected by women, ignored by them. Yeah you are right. I have lost my mother at the age of 22. Few years ago. But this post is different.

[Princess Arabia]

Here's one, and that's just the beginning. Don't make me, Rishabh.

[Princess Arabia]

1 minute ago, Rishabh R said:

@Princess Arabia I know as I have been abused , bullied women and men alike. Rejected by women, ignored by them. Yeah you are right. I have lost my mother at the age of 22. Few years ago. But this post is different.

Every post is different, but it's still insinuating hurt, hurt from women. You haven't healed and i suggest you not give men advice on the topic until you do because it will be coming from a hurt place. Your post screams of being hurt not giving healthy advice.

[Rishabh R]

@Princess Arabia  But I have been on years of antidepressants, antipsychotics. While others around me who face symptoms of mental health smoke and drink. Why can't I give advice to men if my advice is positive and based on ground reality. 

Edited Wednesday at 06:59 PM by Rishabh R

[Princess Arabia]

"Some women do like us and will like us in the future", screams of hurt and resentment. No one says these things out of nowhere. These kinds of statements are borne out of a hurt and traumatized person. Trauma doesn't just express itself in aggressive obvious way, it can be subtle and unsuspecting. Life has traumatized me too, so don't think I'm pointing a finger and singling you out. It's just in different ways and I've internalized it, but I know it's there. Certain fears arise as an effect.

[Rishabh R]

First of all thanks for clarifying.Some women do like us and will like us in the future - I have made this statement based on the reality of very few events during which some girls( I mean very few) kept a continuous eye contact with me and were smiling. They repeatedly touched me in a funny manner. Laughed at my humor.

[Princess Arabia]

Do you see how quickly I was able to bring up your past post. All I had to do was type in certain key words and walla. Trauma works the same way. All I had to do was say some key words to you to bring up the memory. They also hit worse because I'm a female. Your memory bank is infested with these images. I suggest you start to try and see things differently instead of seeing them how you're used to. That's a start, but depending on how deep the wounds are, it might take more than that.

[Rishabh R]

1 minute ago, Princess Arabia said:

I suggest you start to try and see things differently instead of seeing them how you're used to.

Yeah I am trying to . Maybe there is a misunderstanding between us. This whole post was defeating of a long held beleif of mine that nobody loves or likes me. I just generalised that beleif by putting all men instead of me.

[Princess Arabia]

5 minutes ago, Rishabh R said:

First of all thanks for clarifying.Some women do like us and will like us in the future - I have made this statement based on the reality of very few events during which some girls( I mean very few) kept a continuous eye contact with me and were smiling. They repeatedly touched me in a funny manner. Laughed at my humor.

Yes, this is just you and your experiences. Your feelings and reactions. Lots of men out there can't get rid of some women fast enough and are having women begging to be with them. This is you and yours, not all men go through this, not even the majority. Women go through these things too, you know.

Edited Wednesday at 07:10 PM by Princess Arabia

[Rishabh R]

4 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Yes, this is just you and your experiences. Your feelings and reactions. Lots of men out there can't get rid of some women fast enough and are having women begging to be with them. This is you and yours, not all men go through this, not even the majority. Women go through these things too, you know.

Yeah thing are also tough for women was well. However , you misunderstood me. I was not trying to get rid of these women but rather I was very little focused on them. Most importantly , I was focused on wrong women.

[Princess Arabia]

14 minutes ago, Rishabh R said:

@Princess Arabia  But I have been on years of antidepressants, antipsychotics. While others around me who face symptoms of mental health smoke and drink. Why can't I give advice to men if my advice is positive and based on ground reality. 

Yes, you're right there if it is based on grounded reality, as you put it. I retract suggesting not giving out advice in general, as advice can even be sound coming from a hurt individual. It can't be measured ahead of time. So forget that and i retract that statement. 

[Princess Arabia]

4 minutes ago, Rishabh R said:

Yeah thing are also tough for women was well. However , you misunderstood me. I was not trying to get rid of these women but rather I was very little focused on them. Most importantly , I was focused on wrong women.

Reminds me of something you've also said in the past about not even liking those women who rejected you. You were approaching and trying to hit on females you didn't even like and got ticked off when they rejected you. You don't see how dysfunctional that is because you can't see it from those lenses.

Edited Wednesday at 07:20 PM by Princess Arabia

[Rishabh R]

@Princess Arabia Thanks. By the way that advice which I am trying to give is based on a well evidence based beleif.

7 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

 

 

[Rishabh R]

1 minute ago, Princess Arabia said:

Reminds me of something you've also said in the past about not even liking those women who rejected you. You were approaching and trying to hit on females you didn't even like and got ticked off when they rejected you. You don't see how dysfunctional that is because you can't see it from those lenses.

Yeah it took me some time to realize that I don't like them when I questioned myself through self questioning and using the worksheet.

[Princess Arabia]

15 minutes ago, Rishabh R said:

Yeah I am trying to . Maybe there is a misunderstanding between us. This whole post was defeating of a long held beleif of mine that nobody loves or likes me. I just generalised that beleif by putting all men instead of me.

Yes, and that changed the whole trajectory of the post. If you were just speaking about you or maybe even only mentioned other hurt men like yourself this post would have went into another direction. It seems you were referring to all men.

Edited Wednesday at 07:25 PM by Princess Arabia

[Princess Arabia]

2 minutes ago, Rishabh R said:

Yeah it took me some time to realize that I don't like them when I questioned myself through self questioning and using the worksheet.

Don't you see something dysfunctional in that. Hitting on, approaching and trying to get the attention of females you don't like. Then get angry at them for rejecting you. That's not normal behavior. It's not the women you need to be concerned with, it's your own imbalance.