Rishabh R

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Women are very attracted to me. They stare me so much that I feel nervous. But I can't get into a relationship easily because of my culture. 


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7 hours ago, Something Funny said:

Your response sounded unreasonably aggressive so I am wondering if you are reacting like this because of some trauma of your own.

 

Where was the aggression? Give me a remark or response I said that was unreasonably aggressive or maybe I wasn't catering to the OP's expectations of the world loving him. Oohh, no one loves me. Jesus. Trauma is probably hiding in you too if you can't see the whining in that. Still waiting on the unreasonable aggressive response. Maybe you consider this unreasonably aggressive too. I kinda know your history so I wouldn't be surprised if you felt the same way as OP. 


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We all have trauma. Working 9-5 everyday and punching a clock is traumatizing. A break-up can be traumatizing, a rejection, a whipping from ya momma or poppa, someone telling you you're fat if you can't handle it can be traumatizing, a divorce, death of a friend, witnessing a stabbing, being cheated on, rejected from a college, can't pass grades. Posts have been made on these very topics right here on this forum from people looking to cope. Don't think you're immune. Look deeply and you'll find it, you just don't know it's trauma because you're used to it.

It's not normal to congratulate someone because someone stares at them and then telling them that means we are loved. That's coming from a traumatized mind. 


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3 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Maybe you consider this unreasonably aggressive too.

Yeah, I do. You are clearly butthurt.

So much so, that I don't think you even read OPs post carefully enough to understand it.

Kind of like with that post which you said was racist when it really wasn't.


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Yep, most of these psychos that come out of nowhere were you-know-what as kids.

Adding that person to my block list now since there is only so much second-hand embarrassment I can take.

To OP: women don't have a sex drive. Men are attracted to them but they don't desire men at all, don't love them at all, don't have sexual feelings at all. ARe fully cold and calculating. Normies could eventually wake up to this optimistically.

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1 hour ago, numbersinarow said:

To OP: women don't have a sex drive. Men are attracted to them but they don't desire men at all, don't love them at all, don't have sexual feelings at all. ARe fully cold and calculating. Normies could eventually wake up to this optimistically.

What in the fuck did I just read

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1 hour ago, numbersinarow said:

To OP: women don't have a sex drive. Men are attracted to them but they don't desire men at all, don't love them at all, don't have sexual feelings at all. ARe fully cold and calculating. Normies could eventually wake up to this optimistically.

Then, why did I spend so much time in the shower when I was a teenager? :D 


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5 hours ago, Rishabh R said:

@Princess Arabia Then what's normal please tell me and elaborate.

Why is there a congratulations to a guy just because he's attractive and get stares and saying great that means we are loved. Do you know how many people feel loved who aren't attractive and getting stares or how many are hated and attractive or get stared at because they're ugly or whatever. What does loved have to do with any of these happenings coming from strangers. If you don't feel loved, you don't feel loved. That's fine. But an attractive guy tells you he gets stares and now we are loved. 


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This is turning into an incel thread. Now, its women don't have sex drive and women aren't attracted to men, are cold and calculating and whatever else hate speech towards women. I'm so sick of this, I'm out.


What you know leaves what you don't know and what you don't know is all there is. 

 

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Women definitely have a sex drive but only a small percentage of men will ever get to experience true female lust. The issue is men or centuries were mostly unaware of how undesired they were by women, although clues existed in literature e.g Anna Karina, Madam Bovary etc Now with the internet, men share notes and now understand a small percentage basically exist in a different reality when it comes to love and dating.

There are only two ways to win as a man, completely retreat from the whole dating and romance thing, detach yourself from women and sex, basically bee come a monk or throw everything at becoming a desirable, leave no stone unturned in becoming an attractive man. The only issues is, are women even actually worth it?

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2 hours ago, Tenebroso said:

There are only two ways to win as a man, completely retreat from the whole dating and romance thing, detach yourself from women and sex, basically bee come a monk or throw everything at becoming a desirable, leave no stone unturned in becoming an attractive man. The only issues is, are women even actually worth it?

Like 80-90% of the men I’ve met in my life haven’t gone to either of these extremes and are doing just fine 

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@something_else This is the way for mentally ill men. 60-70 percent of men. We fked our minds up time to turtle and repair but this time not for women, for us and God. They need to swear them off because they see the idea they have of them in their mind is wrong and need to stop thinking about the concept.

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17 minutes ago, Hojo said:

@something_else This is the way for mentally ill men. 60-70 percent of men. We fked our minds up time to turtle and repair but this time not for women, for us and God. They need to swear them off because they see the idea they have of them in their mind is wrong and need to stop thinking about the concept.

60-70 percent of men are not mentally ill. You get a distorted idea of statistics like this if you only look at online forums and social media. Out in the real world most men are doing just fine

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@something_else You can be mentally ill and do well. Homeless drug addicts are just the tip of the iceberg. Society deems most mental illness 'normal'. Its not normal.

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2 minutes ago, Hojo said:

@something_else You can be mentally ill and do well. Homeless drug addicts are just the tip of the iceberg. Society deems most mental illness 'normal'. Its not normal.

What mental illnesses are deemed normal by society?

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@something_else https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/servicesandsupport/types-of-mental-health-issues-and-illnesses

Pick one. You will get 0 help with any of these and they will just pop you on pills. They have no idea that all of these are word games someone plays with them self. Probably 1/3 people you meet will have one of these. This society is breeding mental illness cause it forces you to be something you are not.

We only see the end result and call it that mental illness but its not that you get the mental illness when you are young and it grows and the extreme cases are the outcome if one does not remain conscious. Pretty much every voice in your head that relates to you is a mental illness cause you don't even exist.

 

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To everyone it's a request to not to turn it into an incel thread. I have a different intention of spreading a positive and empowering message to everyone including struggling males.

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