Truth about every male if I'm not wrong.

[Rishabh R]

@Princess Arabia Ok I am wrong but isn't it a ground reality that I am loved cause that beleif is healing. @Leo Gura , @integral , @Davino , @UnbornTao what is your all opinion on it.

[Princess Arabia]

2 minutes ago, Rishabh R said:

Ok I am wrong

No one said you were wrong. I wasn't trying to prove you wrong about anything. Just showing how we tend to project unto the world our personal experiences and thinking the whole world is like that or feels the same pain we feel. It's personal for us.

Maybe you'll hear other perspectives on this. I'll chime out for now.

 

[Sugarcoat]

Thinking no woman will love you is likely due to low self esteem. The reality is there is probably someone for everyone, there’s people of both genders at all walks of life. It can be a comforting thought for someone who needs to feel loved by women for his self esteem. Wanting to feel loved is natural but it’s not always sustainable and will lead to eventual heartbreak. But that’s the melody of life that few escape, the impermanence.

[Schizophonia]

That's just obvious lol.

Or i didn't understand something.

[Sugarcoat]

5 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

That's just obvious lol.

Or i didn't understand something.

Sometimes the seemingly obvious things can be deep insights. But it seems to me it’s just a way to comfort oneself of the need to feel loved 

[Rishabh R]

16 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

The reality is there is probably someone for everyone, there’s people of both genders at all walks of life.

Yeah you are right. Thanks.

[Schizophonia]

23 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Sometimes the seemingly obvious things can be deep insights.

I'm agree but here i really don't understand where is the problematic.

 

 

[Sugarcoat]

48 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

I'm agree but here i really don't understand where is the problematic.

 

 

Me neither

[Schizophonia]

29 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Me neither

You are all answering wrongly actually. 😂

Nevermind.

Edited Wednesday at 09:38 PM by Schizophonia

[Emerald]

15 hours ago, Rishabh R said:

We assume that women don't love or like us but it's a lie. Both thoughts- I am loved by everyone and I am loved by no one are delusional lies. The truth as I have experienced by living more than 24 years is that some women do like us and will like us in the future. This isn't a wishful thinking but a ground reality which we all men need to face.

From my perspective, this seems like an obvious statement. Of course there will be women out there who will love you.

What gives you the impression that women won't love you?

Edited Wednesday at 09:46 PM by Emerald

[Something Funny]

3 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Trauma

Projection?

 

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

@Princess Arabia How can your advice be so beyond useless? It genuinely baffles me. I couldn't be saying stuff that is so useless even if I tried. It just feels like you're here to be condescending and appear as wiser than you actually are, all while wrapping it into some psycho spiritual word salad

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

@Princess Arabia How can your advice be so beyond useless? It genuinely baffles me. I couldn't be saying stuff that is so useless even if I tried. It just feels like you're here to be condescending and appear as wiser than you actually are, all while wrapping it into some psycho spiritual word salad

Ok. Lets break this down. Give me an example of what I said why you feel that way. Instead of just criticizing me, which I could have just ignored, I'd like to see through myself here to see my own shit. So tell me one at a time where is the discrepancy here that you see. I'm doing this with an open mind so let me hear it please. Also where was I being condescending. I hope its not where I said his comments seemed to be coming from a place of trauma. That's not condescending. Anyway, I'll give it a shot that you'll address my concerns here and allow me to see where I'm so off.

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, Something Funny said:

Projection?

 

No. He has had traumatizing experiences. I was not projecting. 

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

It just feels like you're here to be condescending and appear as wiser than you actually are,

Why do people say this to people is beyond me. How can someone appear wiser than they actually are. I'm just speaking and saying things from the heart and giving my two cents and opinions and what not. Maybe you're the one that thinks I'm wise because I never once said that about or to myself. If my comments seemed so stupid and unwise why would someone say I'm here to appear wise. Makes no sense. 

[Princess Arabia]

Just so you guys are aware, OP did make adjustments to his original post and has deleted some remarks in his post after we originally spoke. It is not the exact same post word for word that I initially responded to.

[Rishabh R]

6 hours ago, Emerald said:

From my perspective, this seems like an obvious statement. Of course there will be women out there who will love you.

What gives you the impression that women won't love you?

I had this long held beleif that no girl loves me but I questioned it via a worksheet. 

I had this belief because of past rejections, bullying,abuse from girls.

[Emerald]

21 minutes ago, Rishabh R said:

I had this long held beleif that no girl loves me but I questioned it via a worksheet. 

I had this belief because of past rejections, bullying,abuse from girls.

I see. These types of fears can come up in cases where we deal with negative experiences with dating... or even just in general.

I just wanted to emphasize that, even if it feels true that women won't love you, that it's not true.

And as a woman, I'm 100% sure that there are zero men in existence who would be romantically rejected by every woman.

[Rishabh R]

1 hour ago, Emerald said:

And as a woman, I'm 100% sure that there are zero men in existence who would be romantically rejected by every woman.

Absolutely.

[Something Funny]

7 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

No. He has had traumatizing experiences. I was not projecting. 

Your response sounded unreasonably aggressive so I am wondering if you are reacting like this because of some trauma of your own.