Talking Dirty To A Girl

[ExploringReality]

@Emerald Your very articulate, thanks for sharing.

[ExploringReality]

@Consept   that was hilarious, I was laughing too hard. 

[Princess Arabia]

17 minutes ago, Consept said:

Main thing, whatever you say, say it with confidence 

 

 

Age restricted alright. Too x-rated even for this thread. I was cracking up. Especially with the middle kinda girl. 

[Emerald]

46 minutes ago, ExploringReality said:

@Emerald Your very articulate, thanks for sharing.

You're welcome!

[AION]

@Emerald good stuff. It is all about sub communication and pushing primal buttons. The milkshake thing actually works with younger women. With older women it doesn’t work. 

[Consept]

7 hours ago, Emerald said:

You're welcome!

What about this one because its worked a couple times for me, you're vibing with each other and you can tell she's attracted to you and you are to her, then you whisper in her ear something like 'I want you now', can even be more explicit. This I can't stress enough takes a lot of being able to read cues, but basically it's a leap forward of the sexual tension because now the unspoken has been spoken but also it's like you and hers little secret. 

 

 

 

[ExploringReality]

@Consept   I can definitely see how that can work, and it's smooth too. I can feel your energy through my screen btw. I'm gonna check you out brother 

[Consept]

1 hour ago, ExploringReality said:

@Consept   I can definitely see how that can work, and it's smooth too. I can feel your energy through my screen btw. I'm gonna check you out brother 

Lol ill take that compliment bro, thank you, add me up on insta https://www.instagram.com/biyid?igsh=MWwzdzB2MmZsejVlbw==

 

 

[Recursoinominado]

13 hours ago, Consept said:

Haha I literally haven't slept with a girl that didn't like getting choked or having their hair pulled, it's usually just the degree of forcefulness 

 

 

Exactly, most women are into kinky stuff and some are VERY into VERY kinky stuff.

This "romantic" view of sex is nonsense. Women like to be dominated by a masculine man that leads in bed. 

Of course, there are exceptions but those only prove the principle. Lots of women are stifled in bed due to past traumas, unable to let go fully but I guarantee that deep down those women would love to do just that. 

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, Recursoinominado said:

Lots of women are stifled in bed due to past traumas, unable to let go fully but I guarantee that deep down those women would love to do just that. 

No, it's the trauma and whatever else on those levels, maybe abuse, low esteem, insecurities, don't feel deserving of love etcetc that makes them love the choking, extreme pulling of hair, want to be dominated in bed and all those extreme kinky stuff. Imbalance of some kind. The wilder the kink, the greater the imbalance. Most people are, so it's not a big deal but that's where it stems from. Nothing wrong with it - just saying. Lots release those tensions in the bedroom.

[Consept]

18 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

No, it's the trauma and whatever else on those levels, maybe abuse, low esteem, insecurities, don't feel deserving of love etcetc that makes them love the choking, extreme pulling of hair, want to be dominated in bed and all those extreme kinky stuff. Imbalance of some kind. The wilder the kink, the greater the imbalance. Most people are, so it's not a big deal but that's where it stems from. Nothing wrong with it - just saying. Lots release those tensions in the bedroom.

What do you think 'healthy sex' without all the trauma and low self esteem looks like?

[Princess Arabia]

19 minutes ago, Consept said:

What do you think 'healthy sex' without all the trauma and low self esteem looks like?

I wouldn't call it healthy VS unhealthy. Just a different kind. Different expressions. Communication. Just as we're exchanging words and communicating here in a way that's considered normal, respectful, not filled fill explosive language or makes us feel imbalanced or threatening. If you were mad and outraged, your words would come out differently and carry another type of tone with them and I'd be able to feel that.

Same thing, maybe more loving, passionate kisses to make one feel loved. Touching and rubbing each other passionately, communicating physically in ways that expresses deep loving affection towards each other. Looking in each other's eyes while emitting loving signals and exchanging signals of mutual respect, loving feelings and a feeling of really enjoying each other. 

The male can still be a bit aggressive in style and the female could receive him entirely but because it's one acting out of respect and love, he'd be able to feel that and she would receive him no problem. So I'm not saying it's all softness and passion, but the roughness would still have an undertow of passion and love and not feel like aggression and self-hate. 

Edited Wednesday at 04:23 PM by Princess Arabia

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

On 3. 2. 2025 at 8:07 PM, Tenebroso said:

@Sandhu Cookies, milk and a gold star for you. Everyone look at me I am a good man.

 

22 hours ago, Recursoinominado said:

Sr., have you ever had sex? 

She aint no sir😂 come on

[Emerald]

11 hours ago, Consept said:

What about this one because its worked a couple times for me, you're vibing with each other and you can tell she's attracted to you and you are to her, then you whisper in her ear something like 'I want you now', can even be more explicit. This I can't stress enough takes a lot of being able to read cues, but basically it's a leap forward of the sexual tension because now the unspoken has been spoken but also it's like you and hers little secret. 

That definitely works too... in similar ways to the double entendre because it's a sudden piercing revelation of sexual intention.

With the double entendre, it reveals it in ways that have plausible deniability but still sends a clear message.

But with something more direct, it's like building up a bunch of sexual tension first... and then just making one straightforward statement of desire that shifts the entire dynamic to something more erotic.

The way that the woman experiences both of these dynamics (when they're well-done) is like being struck suddenly by intense excitement (like shot of adrenaline) followed a moment later by a swooning feeling that leads to deeper levels of relaxation.

But the sexual tension has to be built up the right way and the statement of desire or double entendre said at the right time to create that sudden shift.

[ExploringReality]

I've dated mainly Latina and Mexican girls which are my type, me being half black and half Mexican myself. They loved to get called names in bed that would be disrespectful outside sex, especially within sexual rapture when she is about to cum I will say things like, your my sexy Mexican b***h, ect... It's quite toxic but they like that stuff lol.