Talking Dirty To A Girl

[Hojo]

@ExploringReality The intuitive aspect of sex is to talk as dirty as whatever your mind is saying. The counter intuitive is to silence yourself when doing these things.

[Tenebroso]

@Sandhu Cookies, milk and a gold star for you. Everyone look at me I am a good man.

[Princess Arabia]

21 minutes ago, Hojo said:

@Princess Arabia If I was having sex with a woman and I turned her around to do doggy and she said I am sorry I only have doggystyle sex with Thomas I would stop immediately and ban them from my home.

Yeah, I would too. You missed the whole point. Suzie can do anything with whomever, does she secretly love it or desire it or not, is the question. I said nothing about a woman telling a man anything. 

Edited February 3 by Princess Arabia

[Schizophonia]

1 hour ago, Princess Arabia said:

I never said that was all women and, of course, all women are different. It's only vulgar to you because of how you view women and your ideas about how you think women should be. If that was a man that liked that, it wouldn't be deemed as vulgar just male fantasy. Mind you, I'm not like that and i don't personally find those things appealing or a turn on, but some females do, enough to go searching for that lifestyle from men who are willing to give it to them and treat them that way in bed. 

I try to open people's minds up about certain things in life, that's all. I see so many assumptions being made and close-mindedness about people and the world and sometimes I just feel like opening them up a bit. I'm gladly receptive for when I'm being shown more than what my mind can conceive of and other ways of seeing the world so I don't get caught off guard or hit with too many surprises about life.

I was kidding.

Edited February 3 by Schizophonia

[ExploringReality]

It's getting freaky on planet 3

[Zen LaCroix]

21 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

What most people forget to add when talking about what women like is that it all depends on whose doing the what. She might want to be fucked like a whatever with Harry but not by Tom. Ya dig.

Why not Tom?

[Princess Arabia]

13 minutes ago, Zen LaCroix said:

Why not Tom?

Because Tom doesn't make her feel like Harry does in those moments. She might want a Tom when she feels like feeling something else.

[ExploringReality]

@Princess Arabia it ain't the same with everyone, have y'all read the book "Way of a superior man" by David dieda? It's a good book.

Edited February 4 by ExploringReality

[Recursoinominado]

On 2/3/2025 at 5:33 AM, Sandhu said:

Girls love to feel respected, loved and valued in a genuine way. And they can sense it very well when it's genuine and when it's just pretense.

During sex, they love to feel loved and valued. It's like you care about their interests in a genuine way.

Sr., have you ever had sex? 

[AION]

Flirting is basically double speak with credible deniability. Like telling her you would give her a facial or something. And when she is in your home just giving an actual Korean facial, and she would be like “I expected something else”. 

Edited February 4 by AION

[Schizophonia]

1 hour ago, AION said:

Flirting is basically double speak with credible deniability. Like telling her you would give her a facial or something. And when she is in your home just giving an actual Korean facial, and she would be like “I expected something else”. 

No.

[Emerald]

1 hour ago, AION said:

Flirting is basically double speak with credible deniability. Like telling her you would give her a facial or something. And when she is in your home just giving an actual Korean facial, and she would be like “I expected something else”. 

Double entendres are good. But only if they're not super explicit as it kills the mystery.

The facial one was too much and just cheesy, and feels too contrived. So, it's doesn't have the kind of plausible deniability that creates the tension.

[AION]

12 minutes ago, Emerald said:

Double entendres are good. But only if they're not super explicit as it kills the mystery.

The facial one was too much and just cheesy, and feels too contrived. So, it's doesn't have the kind of plausible deniability that creates the tension.

It is all about the delivery and the context. The facial one I never tested out but I made jokes about milkshakes and about her protein intake for today and such. And that one worked really well. It is about selling the joke too, not just the joke.

[ExploringReality]

When there's too much pretense on flirting with double meaning it can come off as insecure and forced. It reeks. Jokes like that are cool when it's not scripted and in the moment and doesn't need to be put on some pick-up pedestal. My curiosity is hearing what you like to hear and say to your partner when having sex and what you have to say about dirty talking. Iknow Leo in the past hinted at a future video discussing this topic.

[AION]

Nothing will work out good if it has pretense. 

Flirting is just for play but in the verbal phase. 

Good flirting is like good sex. You shouldn’t be making this smart ass thread in the first place and just figure it out on the go to avoid pretense. 

It is like this friend who asked me how to have good sex. I was like how do you expect me to explain it. Do it with this torque and 45 degree angle and shit? No. You just learn on the fly. It is same with flirting. You shouldn’t ask specifically what to say. I gave you the key. 

Edited February 4 by AION

[ExploringReality]

You@AION I started this topic so all can share what they think about dirty talking in bed. You wouldn't talk to me like this in person so stop being a keyboard warrior. I'm not asking you to explain anything, I'm allowing people to share what works for them and what insights you have to share smarty. I'm not asking you what to say. Stop making yourself the center of this topic, it's not about you.

Edited February 4 by ExploringReality

[AION]

24 minutes ago, ExploringReality said:

You@AION I started this topic so all can share what they think about dirty talking in bed. You wouldn't talk to me like this in person so stop being a keyboard warrior. I'm not asking you to explain anything, I'm allowing people to share what works for them and what insights you have to share smarty. I'm not asking you what to say. Stop making yourself the center of this topic, it's not about you.

@ExploringReality 
I only addressed your point about pretense… so calm your tits. No phun intended. 

[Emerald]

1 hour ago, AION said:

It is all about the delivery and the context. The facial one I never tested out but I made jokes about milkshakes and about her protein intake for today and such. And that one worked really well. It is about selling the joke too, not just the joke.

To me personally, it only really has the desired effect if double entendres are very subtle and not too explicitly sexual... but that communicate a very deep sexual urge.

Otherwise it just feels like corny neutral sexy banter that can happen in longterm relationships and doesn't quite hit the same emotional chord.

Like the milkshakes and protein thing are kind of corny and reminds me of what my high school boyfriend would say when he was in the mood.

He used to refer to certain sexual acts as having some cake (before cake was used as synonymous with sexual things). So, it didn't really have that emotional impact.

It was just neutral corny sexual banter.... which is fine.

But it doesn't really create any sexual tension. That requires some mystery and subtlety.

It's hard to give an example because it's very in the moment and context-dependent.

But I'll try. Let's say that there's a man and a woman who are out on a date. And the woman is showing signs that she's feeling him and that she's making some hints about wanting to go to his place.

And then the guy says something like "Sure, I wouldn't mind taking you home." or "Sure, I'd love to take you home." in a way where his body language and voice clearly but subtly communicate a sexual intention.

It communicates something sexual but it leaves a lot to the imagination. And it gives the woman that sharp sudden emotional reminder about his animalistic side that's hidden behind the gentlemanly politeness of the statement.

But that takes a lot of skill. It's a bit like comedic timing. You can tell corny jokes and never get a laugh. But the right words spoken at the right time can produce an intense amount of delight.

The main thing is being able to strike the right emotional chord at the right time.

[Consept]

Main thing, whatever you say, say it with confidence 

 

 

[Consept]

4 hours ago, Recursoinominado said:

Sr., have you ever had sex? 

Haha I literally haven't slept with a girl that didn't like getting choked or having their hair pulled, it's usually just the degree of forcefulness