Talking Dirty To A Girl

[ExploringReality]

Anyone with experience having sex, share your favorite things to say when making love to a women, I love dirty talking to a girl and would like to hear what you guys like or things that you feel crosses a fine line between passion and disrespect, to get ideas and perspectives. What are some favorite things you like to say when making love and what do you like your girl or guy telling you? Thank you, let me know if this is to explicit or inappropriate Leo. My apologies in advance If it is with all due respect 🙏🏽

Edited February 3 by ExploringReality

[Sandhu]

Girls love to feel respected, loved and valued in a genuine way. And they can sense it very well when it's genuine and when it's just pretense.

During sex, they love to feel loved and valued. It's like you care about their interests in a genuine way.

[something_else]

4 hours ago, ExploringReality said:

I love dirty talking to a girl and would like to hear what you guys like or things that you feel crosses a fine line between passion and disrespect

You can say really dirty things, bordering on disrespect if said outside of a sexual context, and many women will absolutely love it. Just make sure that you cuddle up afterwards and let her know that she is loved, instead of used.

The contrast between super dirty/passionate/rough sex and soft/warm cuddling afterwards drives women (and a lot of men for that matter) crazy.

Edited February 3 by something_else

[Schizophonia]

What is the purpose of this topic?

[Princess Arabia]

7 hours ago, Sandhu said:

Girls love to feel respected, loved and valued in a genuine way. And they can sense it very well when it's genuine and when it's just pretense.

During sex, they love to feel loved and valued. It's like you care about their interests in a genuine way.

Such a fantasy. You just haven't met the ones that love to be treated like piece of shits. Love their hair pulled and dragged, choked and called a whore and a slut in bed. They get off on that shit and that shit makes them cum and scream like a mouse caught in a mouse trap. Stop thinking all women are all these nice prettied up dolls that are precious and need love and to feel valued. That's a fantasy and needs to be dropped if one wants to see life as it is and not from some airy fairy notion of how you think it is or should be. 

[Princess Arabia]

3 hours ago, something_else said:

You can say really dirty things, bordering on disrespect if said outside of a sexual context, and many women will absolutely love it. Just make sure that you cuddle up afterwards and let her know that she is loved, instead of used.

The contrast between super dirty/passionate/rough sex and soft/warm cuddling afterwards drives women (and a lot of men for that matter) crazy.

Exactly

[Sandhu]

13 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Such a fantasy. You just haven't met the ones that love to be treated like piece of shits. Love their hair pulled and dragged, choked and called a whore and a slut in bed. They get off on that shit and that shit makes them cum and scream like a mouse caught in a mouse trap. Stop thinking all women are all these nice prettied up dolls that are precious and need love and to feel valued. That's a fantasy and needs to be dropped if one wants to see life as it is and not from some airy fairy notion of how you think it is or should be. 

That might be how things are over there but I just shared my observations and anecdote. 

[aurum]

The issue is that any scripted lines are bound to come off as cringe.

The real solution is to get into the right state of mind. Feel, don't think. 

[Princess Arabia]

14 minutes ago, Sandhu said:

That might be how things are over there but I just shared my observations and anecdote. 

That's not how things are over here or over anywhere else in particular. It can be anywhere. Even in your own neighborhood. You don't know what goes on behind closed doors. Just as you have fantasies in your head to do things that isn't the norm in your society and dream of being a certain way other than what's expected of you as your culture expects, there are people actually doing things not expected of them and that's not within the culture's norm - doing it behind closed doors.

[Sandhu]

6 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

That's not how things are over here or over anywhere else in particular. It can be anywhere. Even in your own neighborhood. You don't know what goes on behind closed doors. Just as you have fantasies in your head to do things that isn't the norm in your society and dream of being a certain way other than what's expected of you as your culture expects, there are people actually doing things not expected of them and that's not within the culture's norm - doing it behind closed doors.

Yeah, there are all sorts of characters everywhere. That's part of the beauty of life. I just shared my keen observation especially about feeling valued. That needs to be subtle though. It's not about being women pleaser but something in a more genuine way. U know

[Emerald]

I have some advice. (and this is advice for an actual sexual encounter or the seduction leading up to a sexual encounter... not for phone sex or something like that where there's a long back and forth of sexy talk).

The first bit of advice is to keep it in the moment. Don't come up with lines beforehand. I'm generalizing here, but the thing that turns most women on the most is being desired. So, you want to vocalize your desire in the moment and avoid being too "in the mind" about it.

The second bit of advice is to not try too hard. With dirty talk, less is more.

Just a few words said at the right moment will strike the right chord. If you want to maximize sexual tension, say only a little and only rarely and unpredictably. It creates mystery and anticipation.

The third bit of advice is to make statements of desire.... or statements of desire mixed with a dirty/sweet compliment... or just a dirty/sweet compliment.

It could be something as simple as "Your body is so soft" or "You're so beautiful, you make me wanna _____" or "Just looking at your body makes me wanna ____". or even a simple command like "C'mere."

As long as it comes through as an authentic read of the desire you're feeling in the moment, it will strike a chord and create an intense peak of emotional excitement for her.

So, the best thing you can do in this situation is to make your feelings of desire show in your words (here and there) but even moreso in your facial expressions and body language.

And the more you seem like you're fighting a losing battle with your desire, the better.

[Schizophonia]

1 hour ago, Princess Arabia said:

Such a fantasy. You just haven't met the ones that love to be treated like piece of shits. Love their hair pulled and dragged, choked and called a whore and a slut in bed. They get off on that shit and that shit makes them cum and scream like a mouse caught in a mouse trap. Stop thinking all women are all these nice prettied up dolls that are precious and need love and to feel valued. That's a fantasy and needs to be dropped if one wants to see life as it is and not from some airy fairy notion of how you think it is or should be. 

Lol.

It's a bit vulgar and all women are different, but i know a guy who is a seduction coach who said on his college telegram "Deep inside every woman, there is someone who wants to be fucked like a dog"  😂

Something like that.

[ExploringReality]

@Emerald .   

Thanks for sharing. Yeah making her feel desired without being contristced within ones body when conveying that, being authentic, spontaneous and in the moment feels really good to her and the guy. I really have an intense aggressive desire within sex to speak premeditative my desire for her in a very dirty, vulgar but respectful manner. Like how she is my ect ... I can see the shift from how I use to have sex and now. Now I'm out of my head, try weird things and this masculine energy just pours out of me devouring this women who is completely surrendered. Anyways I noticed women love to be treated like they are your only slut and whore, and treated dominantly and safely aggressively to their strong safe man. 

[ExploringReality]

@Princess Arabia that's the sorts things I love to do to a women, maybe add some toys and whips 😆 I haven't done that yet, let me know if that's something you feel women secretly desire, to be spanked with handcuffs while being choked haha

Edited February 3 by ExploringReality

[Hojo]

Society told boys to be nice and now they feel weird about being vocal. They need to be quiet when they have sex cause its taboo and become beta and wont release what they actually want to release their desire.

What they dont know is that God made it so women want what men want to release, and its actually a turn off to hold back. Not only that God can see it and it will make it feel weird and you will make it feel uncomfortable when you should just do what you want.

Edited February 3 by Hojo

[Princess Arabia]

54 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Lol.

It's a bit vulgar and all women are different, but i know a guy who is a seduction coach who said on his college telegram "Deep inside every woman, there is someone who wants to be fucked like a dog"  😂

Something like that.

I never said that was all women and, of course, all women are different. It's only vulgar to you because of how you view women and your ideas about how you think women should be. If that was a man that liked that, it wouldn't be deemed as vulgar just male fantasy. Mind you, I'm not like that and i don't personally find those things appealing or a turn on, but some females do, enough to go searching for that lifestyle from men who are willing to give it to them and treat them that way in bed. 

I try to open people's minds up about certain things in life, that's all. I see so many assumptions being made and close-mindedness about people and the world and sometimes I just feel like opening them up a bit. I'm gladly receptive for when I'm being shown more than what my mind can conceive of and other ways of seeing the world so I don't get caught off guard or hit with too many surprises about life.

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, ExploringReality said:

@Princess Arabia that's the sorts things I love to do to a women, maybe add some toys and whips 😆 I haven't done that yet, let me know if that's something you feel women secretly desire, to be spanked with handcuffs while being choked haha

You have to get the women who are into this stuff and it varies. I think the men more secretly desire (whatever that may be), but women will usually tell you upfront or let it be known as long as they feel comfortable enough with the person to. The choking is a bit extreme even though it's a desire for some, mildly of course and within limits. As far as cuffing, whips and chains and spanking, that's on a personal bases and can only be known to be what someone likes by getting to know them and communicated. Most people probably don't mind a little bit of dirty talk and doing freaky things as in what Emerald described, but the harsher stuff would come in after getting to know and to see if that's what they're into. You have to get to know the person on a personal level or join some kind of club; something like that that only caters to those things and that kind of lifestyle.

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, Schizophonia said:

i know a guy who is a seduction coach who said on his college telegram "Deep inside every woman, there is someone who wants to be fucked like a dog"  😂

What most people forget to add when talking about what women like is that it all depends on whose doing the what. She might want to be fucked like a whatever with Harry but not by Tom. Ya dig.

[Hojo]

@Princess Arabia If I was having sex with a woman and I turned her around to do doggy and she said I am sorry I only have doggystyle sex with Thomas I would stop immediately and ban them from my home.

Edited February 3 by Hojo

[ExploringReality]

Balance between giving insights that are "counter intuitive" and just talking explicitly for the sake of it.