New Mod Davino

[Sugarcoat]

3 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

You're just talking in hypotheticals. It's not an efficient use of time at all, which I could use to get to know women outside and not trought some cringe back and forth posting or video calls. Its unnatural

It’s only efficient if it can lead to real dating , but yea it’s true it’s very unlikely because of the difference in locations of the members here. But you could gain enough of an impression of someone online I think

[Schizophonia]

8 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

He probably thinks the average guy (although men here can be above average in my opinion) are losers in some way anyways so it still doesn’t meet his standard

He's not the president of Croatia either lol he was on the forum all the time.

I believe that everything is projection, and i believe that projection maintains the limits, the framework constituting the concept of self; it is the language as Lacan would say.

It is because i accept to be a shit, to be castrated that finally i can settle down and say to myself "well ok, let's create a seminal retention journal, and then start x activity "  and thus begin to improve myself and "paradoxically" obtain power, the symbolic phallus.

If I refuse castration (all that will be in my future topic ) well I refuse myself the conclusion that I lack phallus, and therefore the possibility of progressing, of "building his empire" as he himself said; And this denial of the lack of phallus refused will therefore be projected again in the form of "losers" or whatever. People who refuse to have their head put in their shit.

8 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

I was actually surprised he mentioned me I didn’t think he had particular respect for me haha😹

He didn't understand that i'm the only one who has the right to simp you now 🦍Too late. 

take out the crossbow*

[Schizophonia]

2 hours ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

Idk I saw you mentioning you taking hormones somewhere. Also you kinda giving those kinda vibes, but it might be just that ur swedish

No that's me who tried hormones.

21 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

If even such a thought as trying to bag women here ever crossed your mind, then you'd have to be in a pretty desperate position

Of course you dont want to come here for this specific purpose, it would be weird.

Everything is about self love, that's why you don't even want to go on Tinder if you want success because it tacitly signals a lack of self-esteem, in the very need to go on a dating site

Edited 13 hours ago by Schizophonia

[Princess Arabia]

24 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

I was actually surprised he mentioned me I didn’t think he had particular respect for me haha😹

You only stood out to him because you never talked back to him and either agreed with what he said or had no relevant opinion about what he said about anything. You're not controversial or dramatic and don't give anyone here any shit and you basically are emotionless (according to you), so that works for his storyline and the construction he was building for himself. Anyone that stood in the way of that, was an enemy and a threat. Why do you think he acted the way he did upon leaving. His construction was tearing apart and crumbling, and it was a desperate attempt at trying to not care, but that attempt only showed a desperate cry for help. 

Edited 13 hours ago by Princess Arabia

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

2 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

But you could gain enough of an impression of someone online I think

Well I don't think so AT ALL. It is a strange and twisted world we're living in. Fakery and masks everywhere

2 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

He's not the president of Croatia either lol he was on the forum all the time.

Yes exactly. All he had to do to be liked is to just act normally and not being so smug, thinking he's the authority. And to not abuse his mod status. That's literaly it

[Sugarcoat]

4 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

You only stood out to him because you never talked back to him and either agreed with what he said or had no relevant opinion about what he said about anything. You're not controversial or dramatic and don't give anyone here any shit and you basically are emotionless (according to you), so that works for his storyline and the construction he was building for himself. Anyone that stood on the way of that, was an enemy and a threat. Why do you think he acted the way he did upon leaving. His construction was tearing apart and crumbling and it was a desperate attempt at trying to not care, but that attempt only showed a desperate cry for help. 

We talked privately for a short while that’s probably where he got most of the impression from not from the forum interactions. Also I’m naturally very self focused myself so that’s why I tended to agree with him and find his answers solid. It’s not like I’m the only one who didn’t talk back to him or didn’t have an opinion about his replies. But I’d say I agree with you for the rest of what you just wrote

Edited 13 hours ago by Sugarcoat

[Sugarcoat]

4 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

Well I don't think so AT ALL. It is a strange and twisted world we're living in. Fakery and masks everywhere

One could be deceived but it could as well be accurate. So both 

[Princess Arabia]

Just now, Sugarcoat said:

It’s not like I’m the only one who didn’t talk back to him or had an opinion about his replies.

Yes, but he doesn't notice those who just ignores him or never replies to him or had nothing to say, he noticed you apart from those people because you at least responded, spoke with or paid his posts any attention but without rebuttals and was always cordial and kind and without resistance. Perfect for the role he was playing. Your "no opinions" were still verbally expressed, so he noticed that. Those who just ignored, went unnoticed.

[Miguel1]

Welcome to the team! 

[Sugarcoat]

9 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

He's not the president of Croatia either lol he was on the forum all the time.

I believe that everything is projection, and i believe that projection maintains the limits, the framework constituting the concept of self; it is the language as Lacan would say.

It is because i accept to be a shit, to be castrated that finally i can settle down and say to myself "well ok, let's create a seminal retention journal, and then start x activity "  and thus begin to improve myself and "paradoxically" obtain power, the symbolic phallus.

If I refuse castration (all that will be in my future topic ) well I refuse myself the conclusion that I lack phallus, and therefore the possibility of progressing, of "building his empire" as he himself said; And this denial of the lack of phallus refused will therefore be projected again in the form of "losers" or whatever. People who refuse to have their head put in their shit.

 

I don’t really understand you as usual. 
 

11 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

He didn't understand that i'm the only one who has the right to simp you now 🦍Too late. 

take out the crossbow*

Lol

[Sugarcoat]

1 minute ago, Princess Arabia said:

Yes, but he doesn't notice those who just ignores him or never replies to him or had nothing to say, he noticed you apart from those people because you at least responded, spoke with or paid his posts any attention but without rebuttals and was always cordial and kind and without resistance. Perfect for the role he was playing. Your "no opinions" were still verbally expressed, so he noticed that. Those who just ignored, went 

You may or may not have a point. I don’t know. Only he would know

[Sugarcoat]

@Princess Arabia I must say one thing I’m a bit impressed about how you often have so much to say. My mind is pretty blank a lot of the time and it can take some effort to squeeze a response out of it

[Princess Arabia]

1 minute ago, Sugarcoat said:

You may or may not have a point. I don’t know. Only he would know

Well, you're making my point. This response is in line with not being challenging, controversial and is pretty neutral. This is attractive to narcissists and people who like to control others. All i'm saying is your online forum personality to him was/is perfect, you never back talk or challenge or put up a fight. To him that's a win/win - for him. Me on the other hand is the opposite at times, even though it's respectful and doesn't condescend, he didn't like that. Once he actually told me so in a rude way. I never responded back because, I didn't keep it alive, I stopped the conversation right there. Talking to me....not.

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

14 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Everything is about self love, that's why you don't even want to go on Tinder if you want success because it tacitly signals a lack of self-esteem, in the very need to go on a dating site

Well the thing is that there is no way to genuinely not want it. You can tell it to others and fool them but you can't fool yourself, you will always want it, it's just that you are either blocking yourself from getting it or you're just not really wanted by others (which is the most likely scenario on Tinder as a man). Life is just somewhat of a pain in the ass for men in this particuliar area

[Sugarcoat]

Just now, Princess Arabia said:

Well, you're making my point. This response is in line with not being challenging, controversial and is pretty neutral. This is attractive to narcissists and people who like to control others. All i'm saying is your online forum personality to him was/is perfect, you never back talk or challenge or put up a fight. To him that's a win/win - for him. Me on the other hand is the opposite at times, even though it's respectful and doesn't condescend, he didn't like that. Once he actually told me so in a rude way. I never responded back because, I didn't keep it alive, I stopped the conversation right there. Talking to me....not.

Hahahahha you’re funny. Yea I did kind of add to your point there. I can definitely see how my responses are very neutral I write things like “kind of” etc😹😹😹😹😹 silly me. 
Im very friendly and chill and open minded it’s one of my strongest qualities and im glad I am that way so maybe that makes me likeable. You see, once again I write “maybe” 😹😹I can see your point it’s a valid perspective. 

[Princess Arabia]

3 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

@Princess Arabia I must say one thing I’m a bit impressed about how you often have so much to say. My mind is pretty blank a lot of the time and it can take some effort to squeeze a response out of it

It's just a different kind of online personality that's all. People appear different in different occasions; and for me, I speak from the heart without holding back too much and being too self-conscious, so my energy just flows naturally that way. In another circumstance it might not happen that way or I may respond differently.

[Sugarcoat]

Just now, Princess Arabia said:

It's just a different kind of online personality that's all. People appear different in different occasions; and for me, I speak from the heart without holding back too much and being too self-conscious, so my energy just flows naturally that way. In another circumstance it might not happen that way or I may respond differently.

You seem to have a very vibrant bubbly personality that I see positively for the most part. I also don’t hold back  , I used to in the past when I was insecure. Although I can sometimes take some effort to make my response seem substantial , not gonna lie sometimes I try to sound “wise” 😹so it doesn’t always flow so easily. 

[Princess Arabia]

3 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Im very friendly and chill and open minded it’s one of my strongest qualities and im glad I am that way so maybe that makes me likeable.

Yes. Most will like that type of online forum presence. It's like having a loving house pet that never talks back and only gives unconditional love. Like a dog. Hehe See, I'm so comfortable joking like that with you and comparing your presence to a pet dog, I know you won't take offense. 

[Sugarcoat]

Just now, Princess Arabia said:

Yes. Most will like that type of online forum presence. It's like having a loving house pet that never talks back and only gives unconditional love. Like a dog. Hehe See, I'm so comfortable joking like that with you and comparing your presence to a pet dog, I know you won't take offense. 

I can see that. Yea I don’t take offense. 

[Princess Arabia]

5 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

You seem to have a very vibrant bubbly personality

In person, I'm more chill. Both are 'authentic', just that different environments brings out different energetical patterns in people. In person, I'm very easy going, laid back and chill. Out drinking, I'm different than when I'm home or doing normal mundane things. I can be very funny and hilarious and quite a character when I'm pretty tipsy. People laugh and say I'm pretty funny on those occasions. So it all depends on the circumstances.