How to make her obsessed

[Hojo]

You have to be emotional manipulative if you are conciously playing the game of life. We don't know how social interactions work so we are learning. By learning you are being manipulative thats why you learn. Please get out of head that being aware and going towards a certain path is manipulation as a bad thing. The only reason you learn anything is to manipulate. Its part of life.

Edited January 28 by Hojo

[Letho]

 

On 27/01/2025 at 8:46 PM, AION said:

 

Most solid advice if you are into fast and short term results. This kind of advice RSD would give when they were unhinged. 

 

@AION Manipulation is for immature people. I do not approve perceptions of some of the members here. Immaturity is simply the measure of either ignorance or the amount of knowledge someone has that is not paired with their actions in the physical world. Immature people often justify their manipulation by citing examples of it or aspects of the environment that force their announcement that it must therefore be a necessity. All they are revealing is their lack of authority on their personal growth; slavery to the environment in deciding the kind of character they will have in the future. The only defence manipulative people have in this and other respects is their indoctrination into manipulation, while at the same time, they still make their own conscious decisions in either its reinforcement or negation towards greater growth. 

Balance. 

 

[Moon]

Thankful to be a woman so I don’t need to exert effort to get a man obsessed with me 🤔

Fr though having someone obsessed regardless of gender will get boring quickly. Especially when you have psychos after you 😂

[AION]

46 minutes ago, Moon said:

Thankful to be a woman so I don’t need to exert effort to get a man obsessed with me 🤔

Fr though having someone obsessed regardless of gender will get boring quickly. Especially when you have psychos after you 😂

What do you have to do to make them obsessed? 🤔 

[Schizophonia]

Cringe. 

[Moon]

15 minutes ago, AION said:

What do you have to do to make them obsessed? 🤔 

That’s the thing lol. I don’t really do anything except live a joyful life for myself first, feeling and looking good and pursuing my passions. I am currently content with being single, I don’t try hard to impress men and I don’t sleep with them.

I do want to get married in the future but I hardly put effort in with men and when asked only occasionally go on dates. Yet I always have men who want a relationship but most of them are not what I’m looking for. Some examples of obsession include men sending me money without having met me in person, continued excessive contact after I’m rude af or proposing to me 2 weeks after meeting and so on. 

This is coming from a girl who years ago used to be desperate about being in relationships and would try to impress men I liked by cooking for them, gifting and all sorts of things. But I have more success now without trying. 

I know this forum is focused on brute forcing and action to achieve your desires which is the masculine approach but also harder and less efficient imo

The approach that I live by is focusing on source and altering my self-concept, reprogramming the subconscious or any other alternative name for it. It results in inspired action and the outer reality shifting confirming to your inner beliefs. 

 

[AION]

7 minutes ago, Moon said:

That’s the thing lol. I don’t really do anything except live a joyful life for myself first, feeling and looking good and pursuing my passions. I am currently content with being single, I don’t try hard to impress men and I don’t sleep with them.

I do want to get married in the future but I hardly put effort in with men and when asked only occasionally go on dates. Yet I always have men who want a relationship but most of them are not what I’m looking for. Some examples of obsession include men sending me money without having met me in person, continued excessive contact after I’m rude af or proposing to me 2 weeks after meeting and so on. 

This is coming from a girl who years ago used to be desperate about being in relationships and would try to impress men I liked by cooking for them, gifting and all sorts of things. But I have more success now without trying. 

I know this forum is focused on brute forcing and action to achieve your desires which is the masculine approach but also harder and less efficient imo

The approach that I live by is focusing on source and altering my self-concept, reprogramming the subconscious or any other alternative name for it. It results in inspired action and the outer reality shifting confirming to your inner beliefs. 

 

I know what you mean. The best is the middle of the masculine and feminine approach. 
 

You don’t have to do anything because you are a female. If you were male, the thing you are doing wouldn’t work. Guys don’t get approached in malls. Or girls sending money to our bank accounts. Lmao. 
 

I think there are still aspects that guys can integrate like not being desperate, having life purpose and just being happy and thus attracting. That is actually the masculine way of not pinging for being liked, being grounded, and just standing tall like a you know what. It is usually guys with feminine energy who run after girls. 
 

Nowadays it is also hard for some guys to get in relationships because the dynamics are changing. Girls can be more demanding and guys who can step up their game will get lucky and the guys who stay desperate and needy will be left out. 

Edited February 10 by AION

[Moon]

@AION I see you have a link to Neville Goddard. Read more Neville! Release your limiting stories  

I could have millions of limiting stories because of outside influences which I refuse to experience, e.g:

• So many men are predators and assault women
• I am growing older and men don’t like older women
• All men are just looking to have sex and use me, we live in a culture of redpill and fuckboys
• I live in the west where no men will have interest in me if I don’t sleep with them
• etccc

But I’m not a fucking victim, I’m a princess and that’s what my reality shows me cos I believe it 🤣

 

Edited February 10 by Moon

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

Yep! Step your game up, servants! Women expect more from us!😄

In all honesty, this is why self improvement for a man and self improvement for a woman are 2 totally different universes, and why this section specifically should be for men only. Because we're the ones in need of advice. Women just come here out of morbid curiousity and/or to silently laugh at our faces

[Moon]

30 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

Yep! Step your game up, servants! Women expect more from us!😄

In all honesty, this is why self improvement for a man and self improvement for a woman are 2 totally different universes, and why this section specifically should be for men only. Because we're the ones in need of advice. Women just come here out of morbid curiousity and/or to silently laugh at our faces

Lol. There are women all over the internet and real life I see that have terrible dating lives. Even very beautiful women.

Women in relationships with men who will never marry them and let themselves be strung along, abusive men, only being used for sex and countless other issues.

This forum is more catered to helping men but women experience A LOT of issues that differ slightly to men but still need the help! 

I have experienced countless pain and heartbreak in the past but I’ve done the inner work to stop repeating the same patterns. This is something men can learn from too 😉✨

 

Edited February 10 by Moon

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

Well, that's another category of problems that yeah, can be more general and more common for both men and women. But the fact that they get strung along is honestly their problem. They just don't realize how good they're really got it and thus aren't able to exploit the fact that they are women. You could say the same of some men (perhaps including me) that we don't realize our full potential, but I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be able to exploit women the way women exploit men, even if I tried my best. Not even a little bit

Its just a bit annoying how women come here and talk mindset and this and that, as if we are the same or are dealing with the same issue. This subsection should be banned for women imo

Moreover, only successfull fuckboys and men in successfull long term relationships should be able to give advice here, the rest should just listen until they become one of the above

Edited February 10 by NewKidOnTheBlock

[Sugarcoat]

I don’t think it’s particularly healthy to be obsessed with someone. Either you’re exceptional and have exceptional impact or she just has an immature /insecure mind