NoSelfSelf

YOUR LEADER IS A CLOWN

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Damn...

@NoSelfSelf went ballistic. 

You know, I honestly never really liked his attitude. He always came off as condescending and tone-deaf.

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This is a good time to thank and appreciate the good work that our Mods do around here most of the time.

Thank you Mods! And even thank you to NoSelfSelf. His work here for years had positive aspects which deserve acknowledgement.

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  On 1/27/2025 at 9:12 AM, Leo Gura said:

No necessarily. Many untruthful and insincere things can be said in a fit of anger. Anger speaks out of hurt and often tries to say anything to hurt another, without any consideration for truth.

Yeah but those things are based on an real observations. Like that "whore" remark, for example.

And what was he hurt about anyway? He's been abusing his mod position for a long fucking time now. Yeah he gave good general advice here and there but it was mostly just good sounding gibberish masking itself as some deep wisdom. And he often accompanied this "advice" with various snarky and smug remarks, questioning your actions, your manhood or whatever. Even questioning your sexuality. Never gave any actual game advice because then it would be obvious he wouldn't know what the fuck he's talking about. Giving people warning points or temporarilly banning them for banal reasons, just to assert his imaginary power and authority. All of that written in a broken south european english. Imagine after knowing all of this about yourself, the fucking ego and lack of self awareness you'd have to have to be pissed off after being demoted. Like, come on man


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  On 1/27/2025 at 9:25 AM, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

And what was he hurt about anyway?

He felt his effort here was unappreciated.

He has a unique worldview and style, and he thought it was an effective way to communicate. Clearly it wasn't but he did not accept that reality. So here we are. It is easy to get blinded by the strength of one's own perspective.

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Oh damn! Really sorry to see this 😑


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  On 1/27/2025 at 9:01 AM, Kairos said:

@Leo Gura 

How do you select mods for the forum ? 

I try to select the most mature and wise people that I see here. But over years their behavior can also change, as was the case with NoSelfSelf. His behavior seemed to devolve over the years, or maybe I just didn't know him well enough from the start. Frankly his case is so rare I've barely had to deal with something like this before. I almost never feel a need to demote a Mod. Usually Mods leave on their own because they have other stuff going on outside the forum that is more important.

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  On 1/27/2025 at 9:52 AM, mr_engineer said:

@Leo Gura What do you think of spiritual bypassing? Is it okay? Is it problematic? 

By definition bypassing is problematic.


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People here take this forum for granted. They post everything it comes to mind without thinking that their replies could actually cause harm to others. Even if someone is a "Pussy" as Noself said you won't make that user be more masculine by talking like a jerk to him. We should try to be more understanding of others. Me personally if I think I can't help somebody I keep my mouth shut. 

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  On 1/27/2025 at 9:53 AM, Leo Gura said:

By definition bypassing is problematic.

Okay. Good to know that this is your stance on it. 

@NoSelfSelf was hugely guilty of it in the dating section. 

  On 1/27/2025 at 9:47 AM, Leo Gura said:

I try to select the most mature and wise people that I see here. But over years their behavior can also change, as was the case with NoSelfSelf. His behavior seemed to devolve over the years, or maybe I just didn't know him well enough from the start. Frankly his case is so rare I've barely had to deal with something like this before. I almost never feel a need to demote a Mod. Usually Mods leave on their own because they have other stuff going on outside the forum that is more important.

My theory is that he was a normal self-actualizer in the beginning, then he had some awakenings, then he went off the deep end and started to bypass practical reality. Very easy to do when you have your first few awakenings. 

I really wouldn't know how to predict who will fall into this trap in the future when you recruit a mod. Maybe you could set higher standards for existing mods relative to bypassing? Because if @NoSelfSelf really was as good as you're saying he was, it's possible that just educating him about this issue of bypassing may have helped him improve as a mod. 

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It's been abundantly clear from long ago that this mod was objectively terrible. There isn't a need to make this any clearer.

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  On 1/27/2025 at 9:58 AM, mr_engineer said:

Okay. Good to know that this is your stance on it. 

@NoSelfSelf was hugely guilty of it in the dating section. 

My theory is that he was a normal self-actualizer in the beginning, then he had some awakenings, then he went off the deep end and started to bypass practical reality. Very easy to do when you have your first few awakenings. 

I really wouldn't know how to predict who will fall into this trap in the future when you recruit a mod. Maybe you could set higher standards for existing mods relative to bypassing? Because if @NoSelfSelf really was as good as you're saying he was, it's possible that just educating him about this issue of bypassing may have helped him improve as a mod. 

People do change over the years, and sometimes for the worse. The mind can gradually become more lost in itself and unhinged, for many reasons.


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I think he has a specific worldview. Anyway thanks for his service. I guess he was the only mod modding the dating section. 

 

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  On 1/27/2025 at 9:11 AM, Candle said:

I had written in that post. See what I have quoted about noselfself in that post. He wrote that in her journal. 

Yea now I saw that. 

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  On 1/27/2025 at 9:47 AM, Leo Gura said:

I try to select the most mature and wise people that I see here.

@Leo Gura Sweet, is there an empty seat at the roundtable of mods now? When's the next audition 😈


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  On 1/27/2025 at 10:13 AM, RendHeaven said:

@Leo Gura Sweet, is there an empty seat at the roundtable of mods now? When's the next audition 😈

There is no limit on seats.

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  On 1/27/2025 at 8:22 AM, Leo Gura said:

It pains me to ban people from here. Especially a Mod. But sometimes there's no other choice.

Did you permanently ban him from the forum? 

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  On 1/27/2025 at 10:26 AM, Sugarcoat said:

Did you permanently ban him from the forum? 

Initially I just removed his Mod status. But then he became verbally abusive so I had to ban him. He was posting abusive things to other members.

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Suleiman the Magnificient is the only game coach I'm taking advice from, without a shred of sarcasm LOL also the best masculinity coach. Doing his duty while having women fight over him, like a boss. Also was always monogamous to a woman he liked the most.

Just be a sultan of the mightiest empire of it's time, bro


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