Is there a potential girlfriend/boyfriend for everyone?

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

2 hours ago, Something Funny said:

That's my point, you don't have to be the shit. You can be a random bum.

There are people who are into all kinds of weird and disgusting things, so surely there are some people who will be into you, no matter who you are.

Yeah there's some truth to that, but only to a certain degree

[Sugarcoat]

If you walk around with that mindset “I’ll never find someone” then you could manifest it because you come off as negative bitter and potentially needy. 

[Someone here]

You might be surprised but it's easy to have sex with a hooker In my country than to have a long term girlfriend.  I fucked a bunch of girls and had phone sex with foreigners but having a girl to dedicated your life to is not easy and requires maturity and "manhood ".

So my advice to you Is before thinking about getting chicks you should focus on getting in touch with your masculine energy.  If you are not already..then become independent ..secure..confident..strong (both mentally and physically) and you will become a guy that women are attracted to. And they will chase after you .✌ 

[Leo Gura]

9 hours ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

but you're not gonna have thousands of options if you're a average dude

Of course you will.

There are literally thousands of girls out there who would sleep with you if only you bothered to meet them. Of course you don't have the time to meet them all.

Edited 3 hours ago by Leo Gura

[Princess Arabia]

On 1/16/2025 at 4:13 AM, AION said:

If your parents were able to shag it is likely you are too. 
 

But personally I don’t think all guys are destined to reproduce.
 

Historically most of the guys were not able to pass their bad genes and that is a good thing. 

He didn't ask about reproducing. I guess that's your only reason to have a gf. 

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

Of course you will.

There are literally thousands of girls out there who would sleep with you if only you bothered to meet them. Of course you don't have the time to meet them all.

Well yes, I know that is a reality, for me. I don't know about other people tho

But who cares anyway

[AION]

1 hour ago, Princess Arabia said:

He didn't ask about reproducing. I guess that's your only reason to have a gf. 

That is the purpose for most people. But you are right. He might not have that purpose.

[Princess Arabia]

25 minutes ago, AION said:

That is the purpose for most people.

You are speculating and assuming here. Men are more likely to fit into this category, I think, but it's still speculation to say "for most people".

[Basman]

On 16/01/2025 at 9:33 AM, NoSelfSelf said:

You want girlfriend and people more than yourself so even if you win you lost.

I find your English subpar but your advice is great. It doesn't always connect but when it does I find it rings true.

[Yimpa]

14 minutes ago, Basman said:

I find your English subpar but your advice is great. It doesn't always connect but when it does I find it rings true.

Just like my dad.

For the record, I do not have daddy issues. I used to, but then once I resolved them I was able to get into a commited relationship. 

Edited 55 minutes ago by Yimpa

[NoSelfSelf]

28 minutes ago, Basman said:

I find your English subpar but your advice is great. It doesn't always connect but when it does I find it rings true.

You are first to notice both 👏