Is there a potential girlfriend/boyfriend for everyone?

[Never_give_up]

I think I will never be with a girlfriend

Is it a number's game? 

 

If I meet new people everyday for a long time, will I be able to meet friends and a girlfriend? 

Like will I have 1 or 2 friends and one girlfriend every 1000 people I meet and try to connect? 

[NoSelfSelf]

You want girlfriend and people more than yourself so even if you win you lost.

[Atb210201]

There is a potential girlfriend or boyfriend for everyone.

Trust your destiny.

If you want it there is someone out there for you who is also looking for you.

[AION]

If your parents were able to shag it is likely you are too. 
 

But personally I don’t think all guys are destined to reproduce.
 

Historically most of the guys were not able to pass their bad genes and that is a good thing. 

[Raze]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v2KBJnLfGRM

 

[Tenebroso]

No. There is someone for every woman but not for all men. I was just watching a podcast where a woman admitted to having sex with Chris Brown, then the podcast host admitted she and all her friends had also had sex with him despite his long history with domestic violence. Some men will literally attract millions of women, more than they could deal with while others attract zero. It has nothing to do with how good or kind of a man you are. Morality means nothing.

[Leo Gura]

There are 1000+ boyfriends and girlfriends for everyone. The only problem is that you don't want to put in the work it takes actualize them.

If you keep being lazy and irresponsible you might end up with zero.

[Jayson G]

14 hours ago, Tenebroso said:

No. There is someone for every woman but not for all men. I was just watching a podcast where a woman admitted to having sex with Chris Brown, then the podcast host admitted she and all her friends had also had sex with him despite his long history with domestic violence. Some men will literally attract millions of women, more than they could deal with while others attract zero. It has nothing to do with how good or kind of a man you are. Morality means nothing.

I literally saw a small disabled guy curled up into a ball, paralyzed like 80%, and he has a pretty hot girlfriend. Sure maybe there isn't someone for everyone, but I think most people don't realize how much potential they have. 

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

2 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

There are 1000+ boyfriends and girlfriends for everyone.

No they're not. And you wouldn't be able to prove that claim anyway LOL

2 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

If you keep being lazy and irresponsible you might end up with zero.

What does being irresponsible have to do with it LOL nothing at all. Women don't care about that

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

1 hour ago, Jayson G said:

I literally saw a small disabled guy curled up into a ball, paralyzed like 80%, and he has a pretty hot girlfriend. Sure maybe there isn't someone for everyone, but I think most people don't realize how much potential they have. 

Let me guess... you saw him on some viral Youtube video? LOL

[Leo Gura]

26 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

No they're not. And you wouldn't be able to prove that claim anyway LOL

You can prove it if you go out and socialize a lot.

Quote

What does being irresponsible have to do with it LOL nothing at all. Women don't care about that

You need to be responsible for socializing regularly.

Every day you sit on the internet whining about women and not out talking to them, you are being irresponsible.

Edited 5 hours ago by Leo Gura

[Something Funny]

23 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

No they're not.

What makes you think so? It only makes sense considering how many people there are on the planet and how many different weird things people can be into.

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

36 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

You can prove it if you go out and socialize a lot.

Yeah that's obviously important to some degree but you're not gonna have thousands of options if you're a average dude unless you're paying for it (emphasis on average). You're going to have few at most

39 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

You need to be responsible for socializing regularly.

Every day you sit on the internet whining about women and not out talking to them, you are being irresponsible.

Oh ok, so you meant it in that way. Ok, I can see validity in that point now

23 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

What makes you think so? It only makes sense considering how many people there are on the planet and how many different weird things people can be into.

Not everybody can have a lot of options or even options, period. It's just basic math. Not even taking into consideration selection process of women etc., it doesn't make sense even on a surface level

[Buck Edwards]

32 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

Not everybody can have a lot of options or even options,

It's not about math. It's about social skills. Most social people have many options. In fact options also exist for those who never step out of their bedroom, all they have to do is step up their game a bit. 

[Something Funny]

37 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

Not everybody can have a lot of options or even options, period

Wdym, how can you not have a lot ofboptions with 8 billions people on the planet?

[PsychedelicEagle]

On 1/16/2025 at 5:26 AM, Never_give_up said:

will I have 1 or 2 friends and one girlfriend every 1000 people I meet and try to connect?

100%, as long you can be completely authentic in conveying your true values and desires during those interactions and relationships.

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

38 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

In fact options also exist for those who never step out of their bedroom

Hardly dissagree on that one. The only hope you have as a man is if you actually socialize. Your strange "relationships" just can't count as something valid. No offense.

37 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

Wdym, how can you not have a lot ofboptions with 8 billions people on the planet?

You mean 4 billion right? I hope so at least LOL

Look, positive mindset is important. I'm not going to spoil that here, since I myself want to develop that and also the "go getter" attitude. So yeah, why not believe that you're THE shit (in a positive sense), I'm all for it

[Something Funny]

3 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

So yeah, why not believe that you're THE shit (in a positive sense), I'm all for it

That's my point, you don't have to be the shit. You can be a random bum.

There are people who are into all kinds of weird and disgusting things, so surely there are some people who will be into you, no matter who you are.

Edited 3 hours ago by Something Funny

[LastThursday]

On 1/16/2025 at 8:26 AM, Never_give_up said:

I think I will never be with a girlfriend

Of course you will.

On 1/16/2025 at 8:26 AM, Never_give_up said:

Is it a number's game? 

It is if you've got no charisma or personality or nothing going for you. It's more a game of being in the right place at the right time. Increase your chances by being more social, going out, and improving yourself overall. Most importantly seizing the opportunity when it arises, most times you only get one chance to strike! You'll be friendzoned if you don't take the initiative quickly.

On 1/16/2025 at 8:26 AM, Never_give_up said:

If I meet new people everyday for a long time, will I be able to meet friends and a girlfriend? 

Like will I have 1 or 2 friends and one girlfriend every 1000 people I meet and try to connect? 

Yes.

 

Is there someone for everyone? No. The pool of potentials can be too small for many many reasons. In my case, I find most women lacklustre, fickle, dumb and they hurt my head, and I also don't put in the effort. But, they're still fun. (Boy if the women in my life heard me say this they'd crucify me, long live anonymity.)

Edited 2 hours ago by LastThursday

[Buck Edwards]

25 minutes ago, LastThursday said:

I find most women lacklustre, fickle, dumb and they hurt my head, and I also don't put in the effort. But, they're still fun. (Boy if the women in my life heard me say this they'd crucify me, long live anonymity.)