Is Happiness Conditional Or Unconditional?

[UnbornTao]

Isn't wanting to be happy an assessment of unhappiness that precludes you from being happy? 

If suffering is derived from you, so is happiness. It is based on your experience of things, that's "where" both occur, your "mind". 

Edited yesterday at 12:23 AM by UnbornTao

[Letho]

@Nito Temporal synchronization with the sustenance's of life.

Heart attunes to gut attunes with the rest of the nervous system for the formation of the equilibrium of mind ego either sides with supporting more for happiness or otherwise. As for whether happiness is unconditional/conditional really just depends on the alignment of the habits of being across the intersection of what forms mind and the level of mind they produce therein. Synchronisation is order among the chaos where that synchronization is pointed in the right direction, the more atemporality the less synchronisation and the less internally stable conditions which in return produce states of unhappiness from depression to apathy to regret to anger, there's various kinds and different areas responsible for the particular kind of unhappiness that requires greater internal order.

Chaos isn't bad in itself, only in as much as it is an internal that cannot be stabilized by something external to it, a human mind is an example of this. External chaos can bring you happiness because of the higher order brought about within to meet the challenge, at best all internal chaos is going to bring you is either more of it or a stable condition that is just akin to an equilibrium akin to 'happiness', so internal chaos is never something you should work towards where it is an equilibrium unto itself, however if it behaves like something where you are bringing higher internal order to it, like working towards a higher level of consciousness, then this is different, as you're reaching higher order synchronisation.

In the absence of self-understanding, we have 'experience' in the form of challenges to define the path our intelligence walks down to generate the corresponding self-knowledge that leads to insight on those unconditional conditions. Take on a big ambition and continually rise to the occasion and you will grow what's now being popularized simplistically as the AMCC, anterior medial cingulate cortex and along with it the concert of chemicals that support that growth relative to the rest of the changes that follow unique to the ambition. The AMCC is being touted as the seat of our will power, and therefore, the will power to be happy, however not at great cost when we don't have the self-knowledge on what facilitates that. No, sitting on a mat simply meditating isn't going to achieve said happiness. However, a meditation practice that's perfected on the basis of bioelectrical attunement between heart, mind and gut as well as the rest of our being is going to breed entirely different more profound results. You don't have this knowledge though, so you are best simply setting an ambition across the indices of human experience from love, relationships, career, exercise and other forms of personal growth and then growing your intelligence in a much more natural way through those challenges that gets you deep in touch with the happiness that you draw from those experiences so you can tap into that on command after you deepen your resolve on the switches that create it. 

Many people on this forum are unhappy as they are unknowingly complementing each others lower order synchronisation in exchange for a brief dopamine spike of illusory belonging, a form of happiness; most don't form truly meaningful bonds between one another that share an indescribable intelligence to them that's significant to their long term happiness, I would love it if people actively engaged in said depth towards one another however. They do not understand the conditions that create a balanced ordered condition within their being and so they use the social as a mirror for compensatory happiness, just as TikTok and YouTube do this as the authors of those do their best to align with the evolutionary buttons of watchers, providing temporary happiness the user cannot tranpose onto providing them the desired unconditional happiness. 

You are wasting your time seeking happiness either on this forum from people that are struggling just as much as you or answers that are outside my own that I have described here. Social is exceptionally important for us but maturity especially as a man supersedes social as he matures his leadership over the material while simultaneously making himself deeper inside the spiritual, aka his metaphysical.

 

Edited yesterday at 06:07 AM by Letho