Is it wrong to leave a girl for someone better?

[Salvijus]

Love both of them

Want nothing from any of them

Let the chips fall where it may

[Tenebroso]

It's not wrong. Women have zero issues with putting their needs and desires first, why shouldn't men do the same.

[Princess Arabia]

On 1/16/2025 at 11:43 AM, Tenebroso said:

It's not wrong. Women have zero issues with putting their needs and desires first, why shouldn't men do the same.

If someone robs a bank for money, why not do the same if you need money. Heck, other's are doing it. Why shouldn't I do the same. I guess that would be wrong and in your mind, in a different category.

[Princess Arabia]

On 1/16/2025 at 10:29 AM, Salvijus said:

Love both of them

Want nothing from any of them

Let the chips fall where it may

Come on in, daddy. Let's have a threesome. Lol

[NoSelfSelf]

On 16. 01. 2025. at 5:43 PM, Tenebroso said:

It's not wrong. Women have zero issues with putting their needs and desires first, why shouldn't men do the same.

You must do it because you are a leader.

[Buck Edwards]

On 16/01/2025 at 10:13 PM, Tenebroso said:

It's not wrong. Women have zero issues with putting their needs and desires first, why shouldn't men do the same.

I think you generalize women. 

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

Whatever you choose to do, the best attitude to have is "bitches aint shit" not in an angry way tho, but in a way that you genuinely don't need them for anything. As long as you think like that you cannot lose

[nerdspeak]

10 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

Whatever you choose to do, the best attitude to have is "bitches aint shit" not in an angry way tho, but in a way that you genuinely don't need them for anything. As long as you think like that you cannot lose

If you’re under 25, sure maybe. 
 

This doesn’t work in adult relationships where you actually rely on each other for maintaining a household, raising children, caring for elderly family members. You need a stable partner you can trust, and the only way you get that is if you’re stable too. 

That doesn’t mean put up with nonsense, but you have to be willing to articulate problems and try to work them out over time — like, at least 3-6 months — before abruptly leaving. Otherwise the woman will be able to tell you’re flaky and disinvest. 

[Salvijus]

17 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Come on in, daddy. Let's have a threesome. Lol

Lol. Win-win for everyone. Simple. 

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

@nerdspeakNah, it's good to have it even then, somewhere in the back of the mind

[Sugarcoat]

What’s the point of dating other than to go for what you WANT. Like if you settle for something lesser than what you want you’re just gonna end up thinking what could’ve should’ve been, and it will be bad not only for you but for the one you’re with. 

[Twentyfirst]

This is why you should always be honest with women. Always. But you gotta be honest with yourself and have the balls to express that

"I don't think me and you are actually that compatible especially for long term relationships but I still think we can have fun in the meantime, you know until you meet your forever person or until I meet my forever person, we can enjoy each others company and it's better than either of us being lonely. I just want to be honest with you so you don't get hurt and so you can have all the information to choose what option you want. But I understand if you don't want to even get involved knowing ahead of time how I feel about us." 

This is what you say at the start and before you even meet the girl you imagine you would want to leave her for. I think it's too late now but for next time keep it in mind.

And if she agrees...next level honesty..."Ya know, I actually made this deal with another woman and she took it as a challenge to try to keep me and by the time we went separate ways she got heartbroken and I don't want that to happen to you. Are you sure you want to go through with this? Because I only want to do it in a safe and loving way."

Before making someone a placeholder. At least give them the chance to choose for themselves. Maybe they chose you over someone else they had options with and now you leave her and she is left with nothing but wasted time 

Rule number one of women. Never purposely waste their time unless they agree to it beforehand. Time works differently for them 

Edited Sunday at 02:44 AM by Twentyfirst

[Buck Edwards]

16 minutes ago, Twentyfirst said:

 

"I don't think me and you are actually that compatible especially for long term relationships but I still think we can have fun in the meantime, you know until you meet your forever person or until I meet my forever person, we can enjoy each others company and it's better than either of us being lonely. I just want to be honest with you so you don't get hurt and so you can have all the information to choose what option you want. But I understand if you don't want to even get involved knowing ahead of time how I feel about us." 

Lmao, this will never work with any woman at all. Women don't want to waste their time no. 1. 

Being honest with a woman is a good thing but also know what to expect. Understand her perspective and needs beforehand. 

 

Edited Sunday at 02:55 AM by Buck Edwards

[Twentyfirst]

1 minute ago, Buck Edwards said:

Lmao, this will never work with any woman at all. Women don't want to waste their time no. 1. 

Being honest with a woman is a good thing but also know what to expect. Understand her perspective and needs beforehand. 

Then you would be surprised. How do you think PIMP psychology works? You think a real old fashioned pimp ever lies to a woman? 

[Buck Edwards]

Just now, Twentyfirst said:

Then you would be surprised. How do you think PIMP psychology works? You think a real old fashioned pimp ever lies to a woman? 

What pimp? What are you talking about? 

[Twentyfirst]

Just now, Buck Edwards said:

What pimp? What are you talking about? 

Im talking about the pimp profession. For a hundred years there have been pimps all over the world. Some real ones and some fake wannabe ones

[Buck Edwards]

9 minutes ago, Twentyfirst said:

Im talking about the pimp profession. For a hundred years there have been pimps all over the world. Some real ones and some fake wannabe ones

But that's not dating. You're talking about something entirely different. Only a minority of women  work as sex workers and most of them are forced to do it, even with that. 

Edited Sunday at 03:07 AM by Buck Edwards

[Twentyfirst]

4 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

But that's not dating. You're talking about something entirely different. Only a minority of women  work as sex workers and most of them are forced to do it, even with that. 

Im talking about the psychology of it. A real true pimp will never tell you to a lie to a woman. They call men who lie to women squares or tricks. 

You can use it for good or evil. But it's always there running in the background.

I only mentioned it to prove my point. A man should be honest simply because he wants to not because it will result in anything 

[Twentyfirst]

18 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

Lmao, this will never work with any woman at all. Women don't want to waste their time no. 1. 

Being honest with a woman is a good thing but also know what to expect. Understand her perspective and needs beforehand. 

 

That photo is her investigation of whether or not she is the first or second choice. But what if you tell her so she doesn't need to investigate at all?

[Buck Edwards]

2 minutes ago, Twentyfirst said:

That photo is her investigation of whether or not she is the first or second choice. But what if you tell her so she doesn't need to investigate at all?

The photo is an implication that she doesn't want to be second choice. If she is told she is second, then she can walk out freely without second thought.