This self development teacher has 7 mil subs.

[integral]

The pretty privilege is strong with this one.

All her videos are low effort, no editing she casually posts whenever.

And gets millions of views. 

Edited Saturday at 12:22 AM by integral

[Princess Arabia]

15 minutes ago, hyruga said:

There's some changes to her face.

If you noticed her face from 2 years ago compared to right now, her lips has increased in size and she also mentioned botox/plastic surgery (not sure if she did them) and her face shape seem to have changed.

Doesn't matter. I'm not loving how she looks because it is natural and without surgery or botox or whatever. I'm simply just loving her look. That's it. I don't care about what she did or didn't do to look like that. I'm just loving her look as it is now; not the story behind it. Don't care. Irrelevant.

Edited Friday at 10:57 PM by Princess Arabia

[hyruga]

Forgot to count self help teachers from Indians or Muslims countries. Some of them have 10 mil or more subscribers. But she's still the Queen of self help at the moment.

[The Renaissance Man]

@integral Exactly, you got her strat!

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

On 15. 1. 2025 at 8:00 PM, integral said:

Nope. Men love watching attractive women talk on YouTube.

That's facts. But it's still tailored towards women. The advice she gives wouldn't do jack shit for any man watching her LOL

18 hours ago, integral said:

The pretty privilege is strong with this one.

All her videos are low effort, no editing she casually posts whenever.

And gets millions of views. 

That's a female pivilege not a pretty privilege. If you are a woman, actually showing your face to the camera and just speaking anything. It could be anything. You are guaranteed a baseline of at least couple of thousands of subscribers. And I'm talking about any woman here.

Can't think of a single example where that isn't the case. Actually, I challenge you guys to find me a single example where this wouldn't be the case. I'm curious

Edited Saturday at 05:18 PM by NewKidOnTheBlock

[NoSelfSelf]

3 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

That's facts. But it's still tailored towards women. The advice she gives wouldn't do jack shit for any man watching her LOL

That's a female pivilege not a pretty privilege. If you are a woman, actually showing your face to the camera and just speaking anything. It could be anything. You are guaranteed a baseline of at least couple of thousands of subscribers. And I'm talking about any woman here.

Can't think of a single example where that isn't the case. Actually, I challenge you guys to find me a single example where this wouldn't be the case. I'm curious

This is your problem ,you wish to be like a woman that everything comes easy ,that's why you become bitter...

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

22 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

This is your problem ,you wish to be like a woman that everything comes easy ,that's why you become bitter...

Everyone wants an easy life. Hypocrite

Maybe you should take your own advice every once in a while and worry about yourself. LOL

[The Renaissance Man]

28 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

Can't think of a single example where that isn't the case.

The selection bias is strong with this one.

28 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

just speaking anything

Make your mom or your sister try, let's see how many subs she gets.

Edited Saturday at 05:46 PM by The Renaissance Man

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

@The Renaissance Man I am not saying it would happen instantly, it would take a couple of months or years maybe, but they'd eventually get that ammount. Couple of houndreds or couple of thousands. Most channels can try for years and years and they'll get nothing LOL

Especially vlogs. There has to be something very interesting about you otherwise your vids will get no views. Noone cares about average person's boring existence and thoughts LOL

Edited Saturday at 06:08 PM by NewKidOnTheBlock

[NoSelfSelf]

39 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

Everyone wants an easy life. Hypocrite

Maybe you should take your own advice every once in a while and worry about yourself. LOL

Im a moderator, so one point is to see what is your reason to be one here,if you are dismissing everything someone says?

[Sugarcoat]

I remember long time ago watching some of her content and it was pretty solid. On top of that her being charismatic. Plus the good looks definitely helps her. People like to look at a beautiful face, even if they’re comparing themselves to it and feeling bad about themselves. It’s kinda toxic how it works. People pedestalize the f out of a gorgeous woman’s face. It’s seen as success to be pretty 

 

Edited Saturday at 06:33 PM by Sugarcoat

[integral]

37 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

I remember long time ago watching some of her content and it was pretty solid. On top of that her being charismatic. Plus the good looks definitely helps her. People like to look at a beautiful face, even if they’re comparing themselves to it and feeling bad about themselves. It’s kinda toxic how it works. People pedestalize the f out of a gorgeous woman’s face. It’s seen as success to be pretty 

 

That’s true her success is a combination of many factor, her personality is fantastic and the advice is fairly good.

1 hour ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

That's facts. But it's still tailored towards women. The advice she gives wouldn't do jack shit for any man watching her LOL

That's a female pivilege not a pretty privilege. If you are a woman, actually showing your face to the camera and just speaking anything. It could be anything. You are guaranteed a baseline of at least couple of thousands of subscribers. And I'm talking about any woman here.

Can't think of a single example where that isn't the case. Actually, I challenge you guys to find me a single example where this wouldn't be the case. I'm curious

I think if you’re pretty woman you get like a 5X boost buff to anything social media related.

But I spent years studying all of the top channels trying to figure out what was the magic formula. And by far it was having a fantastic personality And the ability to tell a story.

 

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

On 18. 1. 2025 at 7:26 PM, NoSelfSelf said:

Im a moderator, so one point is to see what is your reason to be one here,if you are dismissing everything someone says?

Yeah, so? I don't care abput that. And I don't have to take any advice anyone gives me here, nor do I need any psycho analysis or whatever. I am here mostly due to a certain need for intelectual entertainment, if I had to label it somehow. Also to observe interesting new perspectives and opinions. And to troll here and there.

I honestly don't think anyone can actually help me with my life's circumstances that much (maybe a little bit), as I'm the only person actually qualified to do so, since I literaly know the most about it.

On 18. 1. 2025 at 8:11 PM, integral said:

But I spent years studying all of the top channels trying to figure out what was the magic formula. And by far it was having a fantastic personality And the ability to tell a story.

Yeah most definitely. But to sumarize it, we can just conclude that it's about invoking and triggering people's emotions. Would you say that, for example, Adin Ross would fit your describtion? Maybe a little bit, but not much. I don't think you can necessarilly call his personality "great"

@cetus show me an example of how you live your life, hm? How about that? I bet most of you guys aren't any better than me in actual tangible metrics. Yet you want to give me all sorts of abstract advice, like that NoSelfSelf guy, assumming a position of superiority over me.

And this @NoSelfSelf guy, the way he's giving advice is just so annoying. He always tries to question someone elses manhood or whatever, like boi get a grip. Who even are you LOL seriously

Evidently being a mod =/= having superior knowledge or better life, clearly I can see that. Ban me if you want to, but you do know that I can still use like 90% of this forum's functionality just by, you know... being a spectator? Right? LOL

Edited yesterday at 08:04 AM by NewKidOnTheBlock

[NoSelfSelf]

@NewKidOnTheBlock You should start caring ,because closemindedness / not hear to learn is an offence.

Edited Saturday at 08:01 PM by NoSelfSelf

[Raze]

Forget her looks. She is a narcissist.

[integral]

@Raze how did you come to this conclusion?

[Leo Gura]

I thought her advice was useful.

Most people need very basic advice. Not alien fucking God consciousness.

Edited Sunday at 04:54 AM by Leo Gura

[theleelajoker]

5 hours ago, Raze said:

Forget her looks. She is a narcissist.

@integral @Raze

• I cannot say that she's a narcissist for sure - but I listened to 3/4 of her video and there were some moments that got my attention. She's a lot "I am great, I learned this, I am that interesting, I am that good of a communicator". For me, these are at least yellow flags. If you are that great, just be and do your thing you don't need to tell everybody how great you are. Combined with her tone of voice and how she presents herself I got a feeling of in-authenticity
• It's one thing that also put me off with your videos, Leo. I remember one where you talked about integrity and other personal values and then continued to give an example. That you made the "how to get laid videos", offered them for free. Then you continued to tell how someone contacted you and offered you money for those videos but you declined. For me, that's storytelling to make you look a certain way (here e.g. rich, popular, generous). There are a million other stories to give examples for integrity, no need to tell exactly that story. The reason this story was picked is to appear in a certain way. And IMO the same applies to the lady in the video. It's important to her to appear in a certain way
• I am VERY careful about people communicating this way. I met many people in private and business that act this way and their mask looks incredible competent, strong, confident. And typically they have some real skills in their expertise + skills in communication - they learned what to say and how to say to create a certain impression. But videos are not real interaction, they are staged. And once you get to know them in the right situations that goes beyond their comfort zone,  the mask drops and reveals very dark character traits (arrogance, aggression, manipulation, 100% "me me me")
• Some - maybe most - people are attracted to those kind of people either for work reasons or even in a romantic way.  It's OK and especially at work those people can be great for certain roles over a short-to (max) midterm. In the long run, I observed how everything went toxic and turned to dust. What helps is to not fully trust, not to get emotional  attachment and to always keep a certain distance
• There is some good in the video advice, yes. But in my experience with coaching, teaching, working with people just "saying things" has little to no effect. Often it's the opposite, people desperately  try to follow a method and create mental blockages. Worst case, what you get is a person that follows a method to APPEAR a certain way (attractive, confident) but not authentic self-expression and deep inner calmness. Or you get a person that feels shitty because he/she can't apply the method yet. Of course some methods can help but my experience it that it's more important to work with people based on their individuality and then develop methods together with them based on that

Edited Sunday at 09:53 AM by theleelajoker

[MsNobody]

I watched some of her videos, its good stuff. Then I started following her on IG and saw that she takes her cats out in a stroller. That is where I draw the line lol 

Also she posted a video once of her feeding street cats, little weird, juts feed the damn cats why would you post it? I mean its her thing, she loves herself a lot and also loves cats, cause its easier to love cats than it is to love humans. 

Another detail that makes me think: people who have a lot of procedures in their face talking about self help/ self esteem is kind of fishy. 

 

Edited Sunday at 02:26 PM by MsNobody

[How to be wise]

@MsNobody How can you tell that she has procedures in her face?