Attracting MILFs

[AION]

And I’m not even into MILF’s. It is just effortless for me to attract them. I just have to be and they give me signals of interests or just come up to me. 

I prefer 18-21 though or early 20’ies and I don’t know why these don’t come up or show signals of interests. I heard they like a little bit older but I think this age bracket doesn’t approach at all? 

Last weekend I was kind of not feeling ok and there was a proper blonde MILF of 41. It was really the archetype that guys are into that are in this age bracket. So I was in the nightclub with her dancing with her, stroking her hair and doing stuff and I saw some girls winking at me and giggling at me because I was with her. 

Perhaps I should just play with the toys god is giving me and not make a fuss about it. Probably the truth is that I still have a boy psychology and it shouldn’t be that big of a deal but it is. I’m kind of annoyed at this situation. 

[integration journey]

I’m the opposite, Milfs are my favorite lol

[AION]

@integration journey why

[something_else]

16 hours ago, AION said:

I prefer 18-21 though or early 20’ies and I don’t know why these don’t come up or show signals of interests. I heard they like a little bit older but I think this age bracket doesn’t approach at all? 

Lol, these women don't need to come up to you. Guys come up to them.

Regarding older women, guys will approach older women less. Plus, as people get older they typically get more self-assured and confident. A combination of these things mean they'll start doing the approaching themselves a bit more.

[AION]

@something_else they do drop hints or do social games

[something_else]

56 minutes ago, AION said:

@something_else they do drop hints or do social games

Sure, but ultimately you are still going to need to be the one who approaches first in most cases.

I've been approached by girls a handful of times while out, and it's nice when it happens but it's not something worth relying on for most guys.

[Sugarcoat]

This is how it is for most women. Being approached my men they have no interest in

[AION]

50 minutes ago, something_else said:

Sure, but ultimately you are still going to need to be the one who approaches first in most cases.

I've been approached by girls a handful of times while out, and it's nice when it happens but it's not something worth relying on for most guys.

Girls never direct approach. Milfs don’t do that either. They always do some indirect stuff. 

 

22 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

This is how it is for most women. Being approached my men they have no interest in

That is only because women need more time to warm up. They need to experience their personality. 

[Sugarcoat]

42 minutes ago, AION said:

That is only because women need more time to warm up. They need to experience their personality

You have a point, although the first approach can still show something significant enough of how the personality is. And women judge on the looks too

Edited January 14 by Sugarcoat

[Sucuk Ekmek]

Who says MILFs don’t make direct approaches? When they see something—or someone—they want, they’ll take the initiative without hesitation. Often, it’s not just about the pursuit; it’s also about stirring envy among other married or divorced women in their circle. This boldness is part of their power play, a way of asserting dominance and confidence.

[AION]

Women tend to feel it out. So for example I’m not into MILF’s so they make conversation and find that out and don’t escalate further. Women are very emotionally and socially savvy. Men tend to just barrage and go for a hard rejection. That is what I meant. 

[AION]

29 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

You have a point, although the first approach can still show something significant enough of how the personality is. And women judge on the looks too

How much does personality weigh in and how much looks for you? Like 40/60?

[Sugarcoat]

1 minute ago, AION said:

How much does personality weigh in and how much looks for you? Like 40/60?

40 for looks and 60 for personality is reasonable yes. 

Edited January 14 by Sugarcoat

[integration journey]

10 hours ago, AION said:

@integration journey why

More mature, more experience. It depends also, not all milfs are the same. 

[AION]

MILF´s mindset in a 20 year old. Pff, that would be something.

[Butters]

On 1/14/2025 at 6:58 PM, AION said:

MILF´s mindset in a 20 year old. Pff, that would be something.

Try dating a girl who works in a hospital.