Sex mastery

[AriSujan]

Is there any good books on getting good at sex?

[something_else]

This is kind of like looking for a book on how to get good at Basketball. Like, you can learn theory all day long but realistically the best way to learn is through practice. It's pretty hard to get good at sex through having lots of different partners, mostly you'll learn to get good at it when you are with someone longer term and you can try out lots of different things.

[Sugarcoat]

Just have more sex?

[Recursoinominado]

Reading books won't help you much but it can help you understand what women really like in sex.

Sex God Method is a good book I read years ago that gave me good insights that led me to try things in bed that worked.

Principles like: dominance, variety, immersion and emotion. Read it.

BUT, to really master sex, you have to have intentional practice, find a partner who is willing to explore sexuality and test things out, find out what works and what doesn't.

For me, what gave me the best "gains" in sex skills was three things:

1. Learning how to dance with a partner and built state together, specially slow and intimate music.

2. Learn how to give great massage. I actually worked as a massotherapist so I developed this skill to a pretty high level, I know how to touch a woman's body, lets say.

3. Learn about tantra, go to some course, retreat, workshops also learn about tantric massage, this made me learn to embrace intimacy and sexuality like nothing else, also helped me with the massages. 

On a last note: forget porn, what you see in there is the lowest form of sex, the most common and superficial part of it and rarely will give your girl mind-blowing orgasms, although there is a special place in sex for some aggression (dominance).

Women love men who make them let go completely and let her animal, primal side flourish during sex.

[Hojo]

This is who young men in canada had to learn sex about. What the fuck did they do to us.

 

[Dauntment]

@something_else right on the money, OP. Books are going to take you into theory (the exact OPPOSITE of what you want/need).

If you want to get good at sex, my 2 cents, based on what works .....You are going to want to develop yourself within: Charisma, Social-calibration, emotional-intelligence, Relativity, and Physical/Body presence (spell the alphabet with your tongue, develop strength and precision with your fingers, etc.) to extraordinary levels. 

[MoonLanding]

On 1/6/2025 at 6:20 AM, Hojo said:

This is who young men in canada had to learn sex about. What the fuck did they do to us.

 

I will listen only if she used to be a porn star.

Edited yesterday at 12:22 AM by MoonLanding