Know when there is potential for more

[Abe27]

I often experience meeting women I think are both nice, pretty and can hold a nice conversation with, nothing is wrong and so on. But while this is so, I often wait a bit for prince charming, or miss loving in my case to come and say hello.

I can both ask, when do you move on from having friendly interest to something more. Or how do I know if there is potential for something more? The more actual interest doesn't come by itself, it's something that is created together over time

[Buck Edwards]

Try playful teasing. Complimenting. Playful banter. Even teasing. Try getting her attention to make her think a bit more about the conversation. 

In my case most of my past relationships happened with men giving me subtle hints here and there, begging my attention, acting offended, calling me a pig or something similar, negging (look it up), guilting me, teasing me in quirky ways (like one guy said he wants to open my brain and see inside). Things like that. It made me laugh, feel amused, entertained and often I would end up giving my attention to the guy. He wouldn't make his intentions very clear, just keeping it mysterious and flirty, slightly nudging me to think about him. Guys are more attractive and hot and fun when they keep it mysterious and keep the woman guessing. Don't make it so direct like "I love you"..... Don't come across as desperate, needy and or explicit about sex directly. Romantic extroversion is appreciated by most women, but explicit sexual behavior is a big turn off. Most men get turned down in the conversation because they talk or open about sex directly and generally women feel uncomfortable and weirded by that. We want that part to be mysterious and subtle, not explicit. 

And just in general come across as someone who has boundaries, integrity and woman-friendly. Then you're good to go. 

[Abe27]

@Buck Edwards Interessting take. Makes sense with the teasing and such, which country are you from? It sounds over the top rude from my culture to "tease" as you said with calling you a pig, guilting or nagging you.

My question was more so how i find out who i would like to be with, lots of girls seem nice. I don't really want to go around and flirt with almost every girl i get to know, i dislike the idea of men and women can't just be normal and friends with each other.

I somewhat don't want to make it to direct mechanic and just ask "what do you think of phil"

While i know it sounds like i am putting a lot of limitations on myself, and thats why i'm unsure about what to do. The ideal would be to just meet a miss loving, so i would not have to be unsure about any of this. But thats not how it is

[Raze]

https://www.girlschase.com/article/how-test-girls-interest-you-approach-pinging