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[Candle]

Note 52. 

Very important video for me. 

Trauma bonds meaning : 

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Trauma bonds refer to strong emotional attachments formed between an individual and an abuser, often in abusive or unhealthy relationships. These bonds develop because of the cycle of intense emotional highs and lows, with moments of affection or care following abusive behavior, which can create a feeling of dependence and confusion. The person being abused may feel a need to "earn" affection or believe that the abuser is the only one who truly understands or cares for them. 

 

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In sex trafficking, a trauma bond can form when a victim develops a strong emotional attachment to their trafficker. This often happens because the trafficker manipulates the victim with intermittent kindness or affection, alternating with abuse or exploitation. The victim may start to feel a false sense of loyalty or dependence on the trafficker due to the intense emotional and psychological manipulation, even though the relationship is abusive. This bond makes it harder for the victim to escape, as they might feel trapped or unable to see the trafficker's harmful behavior clearly. 

 

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Stockholm syndrome is a psychological phenomenon where hostages or victims of kidnapping develop positive feelings, loyalty, or even affection toward their captors. This often happens as a survival mechanism, where the victim starts to identify with or empathize with the captor to reduce the psychological stress and fear. It can be seen in situations like hostage situations, abusive relationships, or even cases like sex trafficking, where the victim begins to see the abuser as someone to trust or rely on, despite the harm being done.

A kidnapped person may develop positive associations with their captors if they have face-to-face contact with them.

If the person has experienced physical abuse from their captor, they may feel gratitude when the abuser treats them humanely or does not physically harm them.

 

Edited January 15 by Candle

[Candle]

Note 53. 

Things to do : 

1. Solve loneliness problem. 
2. Get rid of validation seeking behaviours. 
3. Learn how to deal with attachments. Both online and in real life. Get rid of them. 

I have to solve all the issues that bother me. Including anxiety and all my mental issues. I want freedom and all good things like self esteem, confidence, peace, etc. ♥️

18 hours ago, Buck Edwards said:

(chatgpt was not used while writing this post) 

This is my own opinion based on my own experience. The internet may or may not agree with me. But I'll state my own opinion since it's something I tend to rely on. 

Crush - crush is a feeling of temporary romantic attraction. Mostly happens in schools. You might think about them a lot. You might want to spend time with them. You might feel happy when you're around them. Crush can be non-romantic. But usually most people describe it in a romantic sense. Crushes don't last long. My first crush lasted 3 months. I used to like a guy that my sister had introduced me to at a party. He was her friend. He was quite handsome. Crush is mostly due to physical attraction. Crush is generally light hearted and usually goes away on its own like a fever. 

Limerence - to me limerence sounds stronger than crush. The feeling is constant and the desire is obsessive. It doesn't go away easily. Some people might need psychological intervention. My family had asked me to book a therapist when my attachment to a guy online wasn't going away. I had developed limerence for him. I used to have physical symptoms of discomfort if he wasn't online. Therapy helped me a bit. It went away eventually and gradually with the help of therapy. The therapist told me to develop higher self confidence and practice self love. I still suffer but it's much better than what it used to be. Limerence can sometimes lead to stalking. 

PSR - I think this can be both romantic and non-romantic. It's simply an attachment. It's extremely common. The intensity depends on how obsessed you are with the person. It can last really long. Crushes are usually extremely short. PSR might lead to hero-worshipping, fangirling behaviors. The danger with this is that you might start believing everything that person says. Example - a cult... Sadhguru has that effect on many people. Crush can happen with anyone close or distant, usually someone close, like someone in your classroom and usually romantic dreaming with them. PSR usually happens with cult leaders, celebrities, social media gurus, politicians (example Trump fans) PSR can influence your worldview and opinion if you cannot put a lid on it. That's why Leo often emphasizes on using critical reasoning and thinking rather than blindly believing his thoughts and concepts. He wants to actively reduce the PSR effect and he doesn't want Actualized to be a cult which is honestly a great thing about his integrity. 

Crush, limerence, PSR are just different forms of attachments and dependencies and usually have overlapping features and similarities. 

 

Edited January 17 by Candle

[Candle]

Note 54. 

I edit my posts 50 times due to my neurotic self doubt. I'm fed up with this behaviour. I'll see a therapist later. For all my mental issues. 

What to do? Write posts with proper thinking and once u have posted it, leave it as it is. Don't be neurotic about it. It's not good for your brain 🧠. 

Edit only when needed. 

I got to learn a lot of things today. (related to online attachments, etc.) 

Attachment is 99% pain and 1% pleasure. 

I have saved some videos to my watch later. I've to watch them. 

Edit : 

Watch this too :

 

Edited January 16 by Candle

[Candle]

11 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

People cannot even being to comprehend what horrors reality has in store for you.

Whatever happiness you have, cherish it, because it can be gone in a flash.

I do not teach unconditional happiness any more because it is a fantasy.

Loved these posts. ♥️ 

4 hours ago, Xonas Pitfall said:

Basically, ask yourself: Is my mental sanity, self-esteem, goals, dreams, love, and aspirations worth sacrificing for these superficial idealizations? Most likely not—in fact, definitely not. You will die someday, do you want your life to revolve around unrequited love, or do you want it to be about actual, genuine, realized connections? The more you dwell on it, the more it becomes the former, and less the latter. Mental habits, especially patterns of thought, are incredibly difficult to rewire the longer we indulge in them. Good luck, Candle! Truly wish the best to you. 💛

 

Thank you so much Xonas. It's very helpful for me. It's life changing. ♥️

 

4 hours ago, Xonas Pitfall said:

Hey! Yeah, no - limerence can really be a bitch haha.

First, I’d say evaluate what type of limerence it is. If it’s just something that easily passes, don’t feed into it too much, and you’ll be fine. Think of all the crushes or people you’ve obsessed about—now they’re probably just a pleasant or silly memory that doesn’t even come to mind. However, if you see yourself getting more and more attached, then I’d say ideally initiate some contact and see if it’s reciprocated. Limerence doesn’t have to be bad at all; it can also be a potential for friendship, relationships, etc.

However, if you feel like your chances of being rejected are high or you simply can’t put the time or effort into it, then realize that. Use it as fuel to improve yourself (a lot of self-improvement comes from unrequited love, by the way, teehee), or realize that you’re deliberately choosing not to engage with them because of some reason: whether it’s needing time, work, or something else. That way, you still gain some sense of consciousness and control over the situation. You can even reach out to them again when you’re ready. This approach, I’ve found, helps me not think about them as much because I’ve kind of outsourced it to “some other time.”

Also, many people who experience limerence find that once they meet or properly talk to the person, they realize the connection or idol worship they built up in their head was meaningless, and it fades away on its own. You can read Reddit stories or watch videos/shorts about people sharing similar experiences. Here’s a good one: https://youtu.be/h7eev7RgIzw?si=DDDoAsqD3YnmyIlc&t=739.

Now… if it’s 100% parasocial and unrequited, then I’d say carefully evaluate what actually draws you to them. With limerence, there’s this strange kind of ego that develops -- putting them on a pedestal, feeling worthless, or thinking you “need” them for whatever reason. If you carefully examine which parts of them you’re drawn to or need, and begin to integrate those traits into yourself, that can help. Not only will it help you improve yourself (since you were attracted to those traits for a reason, meaning you likely desire them in yourself), but it will also make you more aware of the qualities you prefer and enjoy in others. Then, the next time you spot those traits in someone, that person might reciprocate your feelings.

 

I’ve had periods of strange limerence where I would mirror or indulge in their traits through whatever means, and once I’d “exhausted” it or felt like I’d integrated enough, my limerence lessened significantly or disappeared completely. Basically, ask yourself: Is it how attractive they are? Do I need to work on my own looks? Do they have a certain type of aesthetic? Maybe I enjoy that aesthetic or I’m inspired by how well-refined they are, so I want to embody that too in my own way. You need to ask yourself: What kind of person would I have to be so that I don’t need them anymore? What traits do I need to integrate into myself to stop feeling inferior and putting them on a pedestal? What actual experiences, impacts, or reactions do I need to have to feel satisfied?

Alternatively, limerence can also be disrupted by developing limerence for another person. I’d say 9/10 of these experiences mostly come from a lack of experience with people or not meeting enough of them. When you meet one slightly more put-together human, they stand out to you. But there are plenty of beautiful, amazing people out there, and some will actually reciprocate your interest—you just need to get out there. A big chunk of my own “limerencing” experiences got canceled out when I met other people, hopping from one to the next. At this point, I almost look forward to it because it gives me more motivation, self-understanding, and personal growth. But you need to get to the point where you realize this for yourself. You’ll get there by simply meeting more people. When you’ve only met one “10/10” person by your standards, it’s so much easier to get hyper-attached, whereas if you’ve met 100 of them, it’s a completely different experience.

Another way to address it is by looking deeper into yourself and your goals. The very fact that you can afford to think about someone else in such a prolonged manner shows that you’re not focusing enough on yourself and what you can do. That’s why it’s easier to engage with someone else’s beauty than to build your own. This is probably the most practical thing to do because when you improve yourself, you’ll gain more confidence to approach others, and you’ll feel more assured that your interest will be reciprocated. Plus, you’ll spend more time thinking about your own projects, health, and care, leaving less space for limerence and idolizing others. On top of that, the brain pattern of putting others on a pedestal will fade more and more as you upgrade your confidence.

Finally, if all else feels exhausting, consider therapy or simply find ways to give yourself more love however you can. You will never be able to escape yourself, so you might as well love yourself instead of spending all your fascination on someone who will never properly receive it. Think of people who perhaps loved you, but you didn’t care much for—no matter how much they gave you, it probably didn’t have the impact they wanted.

I really hope this helps in some way. These things truly do pass over time, but they can feel miserable and take a while. The best way forward is to seek genuine, reciprocated connections, which you can only find by upgrading yourself, knowing who you are and what you want, and then putting yourself out there to find those people. It really is a numbers game: expose yourself to as many experiences and people as possible, and you’ll find meaningful connections. This will keep you grounded even if you experience limerence again. It’s ultimately about self-confidence and self-love, and while those things aren’t simple to fix or build immediately, they are worth working on.

♥️♥️

Edited January 16 by Candle

[youngonce]

@Candle

Interesting that you’re talking about limerence. She has a great channel, by the way! I also really enjoy Patrick & Lisa’s insights, as well as Heidi’s channel and the information they share on this subject.

As someone who struggles with relationship and love addiction, I’ve realized how easily I can develop intense and loving feelings toward people who give me compliments and attention. It’s something I’m actively working on correcting because this harmful and dangerous habit has led to far too much trouble in my past, including cheating, lying, and even stealing. Growth and accountability are key, and I’m determined to break this cycle—and I know you can too.

Edited January 16 by youngonce

[Candle]

@youngonce It was Xonas Pitfall's post, not mine. Hehe. I quoted that here. 

Thanks for the comment. 

10 minutes ago, youngonce said:

I’ve realized how easily I can develop intense and loving feelings toward people who give me compliments and attention. It’s something I’m actively working on correcting because this harmful and dangerous habit has led to far too much trouble in my past, including cheating, lying, and even stealing.

Yes, do something about it. There are videos and therapists that you can see. You'll definitely overcome this. Best wishes !! 

[Candle]

Note 55. 

IMPORTANT THOUGHTS. 

❤️

Bad news : I ruined my great conversations. Someone was writing good things to me, being helpful and I ruined it with my wierd comment. 

Good news : I got to know some truth about the other person's mind and my own flaws. Came out of my illusion that "everything is okay". 

 

❤️

I react impulsively. My vibes may not be that good or harmonious. I have to learn from my past experiences, forget that past, and make myself better. I need to recognize and remove all my flaws and I have to be very good in my personality, behaviours, conversations, vibes, and everything. 

I have to achieve mastery in the social domain. (Reminder!!) 📌

 

❤️

I'm in panic due to my exams. I'm afraid something horrible might happen in my family or life. I allow myself to fully feel the fear and anxiety. And I overcome this with immense self love. If I love myself deeply and have high self esteem, i feel very good and complete, and not lonely at all. 

Whatever has messed up (in academics), let it go. I have to focus on things that are still in my control. I have to focus on my work with self love. 

 

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Real life vs Online : 

Real life is sooo amazing !!! I want some real life friends and experiences, rather than online. I crave real life things like travel, business, friendships, networking, events, filmmaking, shopping malls, etc. I'm waiting for such good things to come. I crave freedom.

I'm sort of confined in my home for a long time. It's painful. That's why I get so attached to so many people and things online. I'm getting fed up with "online" stuff. 

I saw a girl writing about her extreme online attachment with a guy (so much that she had physical symptoms of discomfort and needed therapy), and I feel relieved cz it's very relatable and I feel like I am not alone in this. 

❤️

Remember this : 

On 1/16/2025 at 0:59 PM, Leo Gura said:

People cannot even being to comprehend what horrors reality has in store for you.

Whatever happiness you have, cherish it, because it can be gone in a flash.

Cherish the small beautiful moments because your life is uncertain and short. 

❤️ 

Also this : 

On 1/16/2025 at 7:20 PM, Xonas Pitfall said:

Basically, ask yourself: Is my mental sanity, self-esteem, goals, dreams, love, and aspirations worth sacrificing for these superficial idealizations? Most likely not—in fact, definitely not.

You will die someday, do you want your life to revolve around unrequited love, or do you want it to be about actual, genuine, realized connections? The more you dwell on it, the more it becomes the former, and less the latter. Mental habits, especially patterns of thought, are incredibly difficult to rewire the longer we indulge in them. Good luck, Candle! Truly wish the best to you.

❤️

On 1/13/2025 at 11:01 PM, Atb210201 said:

The strongest mindset there is out there is having faith in God and His Absolute Wisdom in all the adversities He sends to you to make you stronger and wiser; And having faith that every adversity is for your own benefit not against you, and you grow from them; And because God is Absolute Goodness there is no evil in him and in what he does.

In the end all the adversities and challenges you go through are gonna pay off for you and are kept recorded somewhere in the universe and will be compensated for; Nothing will ever be lost; You're gonna be rewarded much more than you are able to think for the difficulties you go through.

Nobody can claim a stronger mindset than this which guarantees you your peace and strength in difficult times even if you cry all the way through it with this faith you're unshakable in the end everytime.

 

Edited January 18 by Candle

[Candle]

Note 56. 

Limerence is a bitch. 

My name is Ranveer. I want only real and meaningful things in my life. No superficial or pointless things, that cause only wastage of mental resources. 

Try to meet strangers with a sense of detachment. You don't know them. They don't know you. Everything is anonymous. So no need to take anything personally. 

Attachment with an online person isn't the problem. Attachment "in general" is the problem. When I get attached to the forum or Instagram or YouTube, it creates the same type of problem. (fomo, wastage of mental resources). 

Edited Sunday at 06:03 AM by Candle

[Candle]

On 1/12/2025 at 11:14 PM, Leo Gura said:

In the end you ain't doing shit. God runs you. And if God deems you to be bitter you will be bitter over a glass of spilled milk.

Hahaha. 😄 Exactly !!!! 

On 1/17/2025 at 9:53 AM, Candle said:

🖤 I am full of shit that I gave too much importance to trivial things. 

 

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Maybe I should focus on real life things so much that I don't have time for trivial online stuff. 

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I am glad I had some lesson from that, plus everything was anonymous.

 

Edited Sunday at 06:04 AM by Candle

[Candle]

I want to laugh like this. 

 

[Candle]

Note 57. 

Make a list of all the real problems and matters of your life. 

Then figure out what to do about them. Do it very well. Then start taking actions. You will definitely solve everything. 

Simple as that. 

Edited Sunday at 03:51 AM by Candle

[Candle]

Note 58. 

Peace. 

Instead of focusing on real problems of my life and instead of focusing on things that matter, I focused on very trivial things. 

Looking at the level of stupidity, I'm not feeling angry. I'm just peaceful. That "what I have done with my life", "how many seeds I have planted for regrets". 

This is so sad that I have now surrendered. I can't change myself with anger now. I will change myself with calmness. 

 

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hey this is Leo for actualized.org and in this video I want to talk about a classic adage which goes whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger now is that true or is that false all right so let's talk about that is it true or false that whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger before we dig into that just to let you know I'm standing here in the centre of Toronto downtown Toronto I've got the CN tower behind me but in front of it I've got this giant locomotive which is part of this railroad museum that they have right in the downtown area kind of cool so I thought I'd shoot a video here but I've been thinking lately about this issue of you know what doesn't kill you makes you stronger I want to believe that right and I tend to tell that to people as advice you know when they're going through something difficult and just I just have to say you know use it as as fuel for the road you just fuel to keep you moving keep it going even if so the bad happens to you there's always a silver lining to it etc etc well here in Toronto even go through a pretty bag a pretty bad legal trial and that's been triggering me emotionally quite a bit more so than I've been triggered in a long long long time in fact just the other day I might say I had one of my most brutal days of my life spending eight hours in the courtroom so going through that and some of the emotions that came up for me I've really started to think about this is this situation gonna make me stronger or is it actually gonna make me weaker it's impossible to have a situation that's so bad that you still live through it but in the end you come out crippled maybe not physically crippled but I'm talking about emotionally crippled and what about that is it possible for situations to emotionally crippled you and if it is and it's possible to actually get yourself involved in a mess that will leave you worse off in life than you were before you got into it then does that mean we should be more concerned with the kinds of decisions that we make in life the kind of things that we undertake the kind of projects that we start the kind of businesses maybe we get ourselves involved with or the kind of relationships we go into or anything else like that maybe relationships marriages divorces so here's here's my opinion on this I think in the in the short term in the short term you can definitely get yourself involved in a in a in a pickle and you can definitely kind of paint yourself into a corner and maybe it's with a business or with a relationship that turns into a marriage or something else you can do Something So Stupid With Your Life or with your finances that it's gonna take you a long time to recover from it so this can be a very catastrophic mistake and yet even in the short run and even in the medium run if that mistake is very bad it will certainly hinder your performance and it might get you to doubt start down in yourself it might make you fearful it might make you cowardly it might make you retreat into your shell so you don't go out there and you don't live life to the fullest the way that you wanted to so in that sense you know you got to be careful about about some of the stuff you get yourself involved with because it can it can really your life on the other hand I'm also also comes to mind all the scenarios where people have made really really stupid decisions have really f up their lives whether through drugs or getting themselves involved with a marriage that then breaks up and then they lose a large chunk of their money or you know getting scanned and some sort of Ponzi scheme or maybe getting getting fraud it out of some money because of some business transaction didn't go their way or just some bad luck maybe a death in the family a death of someone that's really close to you a child a spouse a loved one a parent yeah so so those those really tough cases what's going to happen is that basically in the short and medium term they're gonna feel very very bad you can feel very painful and you're just kind of like give yourself some breathing to kind of grieve through it work your way through it and kind of have the fears come out and play that whole game and so that's gonna that's gonna have to happen and in that time as that's happening to you is starting to snow here is as that's happening to you you are going to feel like this is something that's very miserable and you're gonna feel like this is something that should not be in your life and that you are cursed with misfortune for having this now certainly how I felt the last few days about this trial is I felt like I would give anything to not do it I would give anything to just like pull myself out so I don't have to deal with it I wish it's never happened I wish I may have just different decisions in the past so that I would have gotten into this trial in the first place okay fair enough but I did but even today I'm feeling much better about it I think that it's it's it's the tough you know you might you might make the case and say well what about like a rape what about a near-death experience what about if someone like kidnapped you and starts torturing you like in that kind of scenario is a better for that to not have happened isn't that better I mean doesn't that make sense wouldn't it be nicer to just like cut out all that traumatic or like if you lose someone close to you isn't it better that you didn't lose that person you know I don't know I think ultimately actually I think there is a deep core truth and I think this is Annie she's Nietzsche Frederick Nietzsche said this is that whatever doesn't kill you truly makes you stronger and and that's because yeah that doesn't mean that it's gonna feel good in the moment that doesn't mean it's gonna feel good a week or a month afterwards but ultimately what it does is to build a certain psychological resilience within you and especially those really trying times those can be times that really define your character those can be times that then create new sources of motivation that you can use to go out there and take on big projects that you wouldn't have otherwise done those can be that's gonna be really powerful life shaping events and those kind of catastrophic failures whether you lose a business or a loved one or something like that you know it makes you so much more so much more appreciative of what you have so much more appreciative of what you had and then in the future when you go out and you still become successful you still you know you're still gonna take action and do new things and find you people to love and get into relationships have new marriages what its gonna do is it's gonna make you much more grounded and stable that's my feeling right now because I went through this trial the other day and how I feel like it's like it's so easy I was bitching and moaning about how to come out here and like shoot and it is really cold out here so my fingers are really nam in fact a video I was shooting on the seashore here in Toronto you got so cold I was literally worried that I would have frostbite because I was shooting a video and I my fingers were I'm gonna feel my fingers and I was out there solo Nicole to get the right shot and it feels like this is head this is heaven compared to what I went through yesterday so to me this is like oh this is so nice this is so nice it makes everything else so much easier and I think that that's that's literally what is going on here is that you know your psychology because more robust it's kind of like like skin right we've got when you've got sensitive skin and you keep puncturing it and you keep you keep putting wear and tear on it what happens is it starts to build up a callus and the skin starts a hard enough and tough enough and extra layers of skin grow and it builds up a palace so then in the future when you're poking and prodding at that skin it doesn't bleed it doesn't rip quite as easily it's very resilient and that's what's that's what's literally also happening with your technology as you're going through life and experiencing tough events if your life is just all smooth sailing and you have good luck and money just comes your way and you happen to get into awesome relationships and everything just happens to be working out in your business if that's your life I mean wow that's first of all congratulations you're extremely lucky you're very rare to have that but also you better pray every single day that that luck continues because you know what if one day it runs out man you're going to be in a world of because that skate basically have said that the in layers can than anything can puncture it they basically would have to be literally doing is praying for a bit luck so that nothing comes along it punctures it because if it does it's gonna rip apart very easily and you're gonna basically point out by the other hand if you're kind of life where you have horrible luck bad relationships you get involved with the wrong people that business you're losing money everywhere just all this stuff that keeps happening to you I mean yes that's tough and sure I would not want to trade places with you but on the other hand you're building up you're building up a lot of psychological resiliency that tough skin that calluses building up in your mind and that's actually making you very very resourceful maker making you very powerful from that place you can actually accomplish amazing things and many people many celebrities many politicians many many big movers and shakers and life entrepreneurs people that have really influence deciding in a positive way they've come from exactly these kinds of places and the reason that is is because once they go through that trauma once they go through all the trials and tribulations they come out with a very thick skin very robust mentality a psychology that will let them handle the worst of what the world can throw out you and sometimes the world where throat will throw a really hard punch and if you're not ready for it if you've never been hit by a hard punch in your life then that's gonna that's gonna really sting you and a lot of times it will totally derail you no pun intended it will derail you off your tracks and off your course in life whereas if you're if you're suffering a little bit here and there that's actually good that's actually how it should be so ultimately I think that you have to you have to just kind of like push through push through push through stay on your track stay on course and yes you're gonna have tough times you have times where you think you're gonna you have to quit you're gonna have tough tough times that you think you wouldn't have ever wanted on yourself and that you just wish could have been taken back but you know let some time pass don't be too quick to judge if it's a really traumatic event let a couple months pass let a couple years pass and see what happened to you maybe you can analyze your past and see you probably have a couple of traumatic events you can already analyze what you're gonna see is that actually you're probably gonna be very grateful for the fact that you have that experience and now that is a foundation on which you can build your life you can build your grand castle right all right so that's it that's just what I have to say about whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger ultimately I think it's a very very true statement maybe I would make an exception for very extreme circumstances like if you were kidnapped and tortured or raped but I think that there's even a case to be made that even in those situations there is a there's still a several silver lining and that you can actually use those situations to to create a very powerful kind of life so don't get discouraged if you're going through something like that I just went through a traumatic event just the other day with my courtroom trial but now I'm feeling feeling alright not too worried right now even though I still don't know the result of it so we'll see but here I'm gonna go right now and check out the CN Tower if they'll let me up there and get a whole view of the City of Toronto that would be cool cuz I'm flying out of here tomorrow morning alright this is Leo I'm signing off go ahead post me your comments down below please like this please share it and of course come check out actualise alright sign up to our newsletter I'm releasing new videos new articles other goodies for you every single week about how to self actualize how to master your own psychology so that you can create an extraordinary kind of life a lot of tips a lot of tricks a lot of strategies the big picture understanding of how to do that all right you don't want to miss that stuff out sign up follow along because I'm releasing new material all the time and I find that it takes it takes a while for your brain to catch on to this stuff so one video is nice you can use it right off the bat I hope you can 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[Candle]

Indexing all my posts for quick reference. 

 

 

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[Candle]

Funny mood. 

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[Yimpa]

Lmfao, I love talking to AI when I’m tripping!

[Candle]

56 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

Lmfao, I love talking to AI when I’m tripping!

Comment short little things here sometimes.

You cute little worm !! Your name is cute. 

Edited Sunday at 07:05 AM by Candle

[Beans]

22 minutes ago, Candle said:

Follow my journal and comment short little things here sometimes.

You cute little worm !! Your name is cute. 

What about my name ?

[Candle]

8 hours ago, Beans said:

What about my name ?

That's cute too. Love you ❤️. I'll read your journal when I get time. 

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On 1/18/2025 at 5:16 PM, Candle said:

Make a list of all the real problems and matters of your life. 

Then figure out what to do about them. 

Current burning problems. 

Edited Sunday at 02:46 PM by Candle