Toxic dating works better and it's killing me - how to stay authentic?

[Tenebroso]

It's very clear from everything I have seen and experienced that being a good man means absolutely nothing to women. If women care about the qualities they say do, they have a funny way of showing it. 

[Buck Edwards]

3 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

I'm not talking about relationships. It is a different game. The majority of men these days could not even get laid. Imagine having a relationship  

Women are relationship centered. Not fuck centered. 

[CARDOZZO]

The harsh truth is: the majority of man these days are just invisible to woman in general. Period. 

They hate this fact with all their hearts. 

Solution 1: blackpill/learned helplessness.

Solution 2: learn game, gym, make money.

Solution 3: monk mode.

Solution 4 is not allowed to say because of forum guidelines.

[whh2222]

 

Edited Friday at 03:26 AM by whh2222

[Tenebroso]

3 minutes ago, Emerald said:

 

But they were already exuding red flag vibes that scare women away. They just weren't aware of it. But it comes through in the vibe.

And then, they think, "I guess women just like assholes. I need to become an asshole to get women to like me." But they were unconscious to the fact that they already were giving off asshole vibes.

 

So they are rejected for exuding red flags that scare women away but actually abusive, narcissistic men attract women with no problems. So why do these red flags not show up with one set of men but show up clearly with another? It comes across to me as vilifying unattractive men, so women don't feel guilt for not being attracted to them.

It's nothing to do with actual red flags or vibes. The deciding factor in whether or not a man does well romantically is not how much of an asshole he is or his vibe. 

[Tenebroso]

4 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

Women are relationship centered. Not fuck centered. 

Women are just as fuck centered for a small minority of men. Women love sex but only a very small percentage of men can really bring that raw, carnal side out.

[CARDOZZO]

18 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

You meant to say you want to rape women? 

What??? S&ic%d#

[CARDOZZO]

22 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

Women are relationship centered. Not fuck centered. 

Ok. Do you really believe this?

Women are out there on parties twerking on guys to become their wives?

I do not buy this narrative.

[Buck Edwards]

Just now, CARDOZZO said:

Ok. Do you really believe this?

Women are out there on parties twerking on guys to become their wives?

I do not buy this narrative.

I mean most women want relationships if that isn't clear or loud enough. Most high quality women. I am not talking about trashy women who just sleep around with every tom, *ick, harry in vegas clubs. If you mean those women, aren't they easy to sleep with given that they fuck anyone who offers them a drink? 

[CARDOZZO]

I know. It is harsh to hear that. Man in general are not doing good in life. 

[whh2222]

13 minutes ago, Tenebroso said:

It's very clear from everything I have seen and experienced that being a good man means absolutely nothing to women. If women care about the qualities they say do, they have a funny way of showing it. 

They definitely dont when it comes to attraction. Or the goodness has to blend with some other attractive quality. But pure character nahhh

One of my friends is one of the nicest genuine guys I know with a beautiful fiance. but hes also 6'2, blonde, smart, and comes from a rich family. 

Edited Friday at 03:36 AM by whh2222

[Raze]

10 minutes ago, Emerald said:

But they were already exuding red flag vibes that scare women away. They just weren't aware of it. But it comes through in the vibe.

And then, they think, "I guess women just like assholes. I need to become an asshole to get women to like me." But they were unconscious to the fact that they already were giving off asshole vibes.

Then what about this?
 

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Females that desired marriage were more attracted to the narcissistic personality than their counterparts who did not desire marriage. This finding is problematic from a female perspective as the narcissistic male is primarily short-term mating goal orientated and does not provide a suitable long-term partner.

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S019188691500210X?via%3Dihub
 

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Results suggest that delinquency serves to increase romantic involvement

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/248967485_Do_bad_boys_really_get_the_girls_Delinquency_as_a_cause_and_consequence_of_dating_behavior_among_adolescents

 

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Results show psychopathy was related to sociosexuality, specific factors of social intelligence, and generating higher desirability ratings from women after controlling for men’s physical attractiveness. Analyses involving comparisons of two men showed women’s ratings increased in favor of the more psychopathic man.

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s40806-019-00213-0

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Responsiveness may signal to a potential partner that one is concerned with her or his welfare, and may therefore increase sexual interest in this person. Research shows, however, that this proposition holds true for men, but not for women

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25062930/
 

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Adolescents who are willing to exploit others for personal gain are more likely to bully and have sex than those who score higher on a measure of honesty and humility.

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2017/12/171214140807.htm

[CARDOZZO]

20 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

aren't they easy to sleep with given that they fuck anyone who offers them a drink? 

Of course not. They work. They can buy a drink. The game is not easy for man. That's it. 

Stay hard guys.

Edited Friday at 03:40 AM by CARDOZZO

[CARDOZZO]

It is hard to explain what it is to be a man these days. It is like you (women) trying to describe what it is like to have a baby.

[Buck Edwards]

7 minutes ago, Tenebroso said:

Women are just as fuck centered for a small minority of men. Women love sex but only a very small percentage of men can really bring that raw, carnal side out.

Women love sex within the context of a relationship. They want hot passionate sex with someone they develop an emotional connect with. 

If a woman wants to fuck a random dude, that's usually if he is way too out of out her league and extremely handsome and hot and someone she is irresistibly attracted to, she wouldn't care about his character or money at that point, she wants to be his muse even if it's for  one night. Such dudes are extremely extremely rare though, they are hearthrobs and they don't need any game, they are just extremely charming and the woman cannot resist but be sexually attracted to him. 

However most men aren't this "rare." 

[Buck Edwards]

6 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

Of course not. They work. They can buy a drink. The game is not easy for man. That's it. 

Stay hard guys.

Maybe they come to the club to enjoy themselves. Or else they sleep with men who got game. I don't know the solution to your problem. Maybe date more. Maybe socialize more. 

Don't be blackpilled. 

And romance isn't the end of the road in life. There's way more fun in life than romance, family etc. 

[CARDOZZO]

https://www.youtube.com/@psychacks 

Woman - just see this channel. You will get good views on how man are operating these days.

Orion is giving great advice in general.

[CARDOZZO]

17 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

Maybe they come to the club to enjoy themselves. Or else they sleep with men who got game. I don't know the solution to your problem. Maybe date more. Maybe socialize more. 

Don't be blackpilled. 

And romance isn't the end of the road in life. There's way more fun in life than romance, family etc. 

I was just exposing what I see. I am dating a lot. I just can't accept biology rules. But it is what it is.

If you see me on the streets you would call me a chad (6'1, beard, athletic, brazillian bad boy )

[Buck Edwards]

3 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

(6'1, beard, athletic, brazillian bad boy )

Mysterious girl somewhere twerks for you 

[CARDOZZO]

20 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

Mysterious girl somewhere twerks for you 

 

They do. 

Not wife material