Getting too close too fast?

[Sugarcoat]

3 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Maybe he needs to start interacting with different women.

Maybe

[Schizophonia]

1 minute ago, Princess Arabia said:

Maybe he needs to start interacting with different women.

He has a hostile energy but he's not so wrong. Unless you're particularly effeminate like some gay men we'd rather stay among men most of the time than be with women.

 

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

21 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

The poor blind. No attraction for them. They got left out. Such a limited response.

Keep your fake empathy to yourself

[Princess Arabia]

2 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

He has a hostile energy but he's not so wrong. Unless you're particularly effeminate like some gay men we'd rather stay among men most of the time than be with women.

 

That's fine but most of my friends used to be platonic males. I was the "hung out with the boys" type girl. Not that I watched sports or competed or did manly stuff, but I am very down-to-earth and fit right in with them. I had gfs too, but they were mostly going out peers. The guys I hung out with and drank with and partied with - all platonic. Been that way from teenage years. Neighborhood buddies and just all around. I'm very cool like that. I actually prefer to hang with guys than girls normally. Girls are too uggh...gossipy and some get jealous of you around their man. I ain't got time for that. The few female friends I had, though, we were very close. Still are even though we don't see each other often.

[Princess Arabia]

2 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

Keep your fake empathy to yourself

Sorry, can't comment on a forum to myself. BTW, that was sarcasm.

[Basman]

Are you still interested in her?

Just ask her out and see if she's available. Take it from there. You are not going to find a girlfriend in the past.

[Jannes]

45 minutes ago, Basman said:

Are you still interested in her?

Just ask her out and see if she's available. Take it from there. You are not going to find a girlfriend in the past.

I have mixed feelings I thought I could clarify in this thread. 

I dont know I am still confused. I am pretty certain that I dont have deep feelings its just when you open yourself pretty deeply to someone even if its just an evening that stays a little with you. I might visit her again, she made very clear that I am welcomed if I want to visit again.  

[Basman]

40 minutes ago, Jannes said:

I have mixed feelings I thought I could clarify in this thread. 

I dont know I am still confused. I am pretty certain that I dont have deep feelings its just when you open yourself pretty deeply to someone even if its just an evening that stays a little with you. I might visit her again, she made very clear that I am welcomed if I want to visit again.  

Is this a problem?

[Hojo]

@Princess ArabiaYou dont understand men. Look what happened he did what he didn't want to do now he's confused. Stop the confusion, stop the mind games. Stop playing mind games with women period. Men can't play mind games when they start they get confused because they are lying to themselves.

Its a very easy fix its not sexist its how God made men. Men don't care about random women's problems if they don't know them they shouldn't get involved with pretending to want to care for a woman to have sex with them.

This guy just did that and now he has no idea what is happening if he simply said I do not care about your problems I want to have sex he wouldnt be confused.

If you were in bed with a man that just started whining about life and you just wanted to fuck and then they didn't you would be upset too.

Personally I say if you dont care about them stop pretending to care say I don't care. Thats what a man should do.

I talk to women on the forum because I'm not sexist and there are women on the forum. Stop projecting your hate onto me I am being totally rational.

If they don't have a boyfriend and want to talk to a man find a gay guy or a therapist.

Mind games with men has and is currently ruining society.

Edited December 29, 2024 by Hojo

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, Hojo said:

Stop projecting your hate onto me I am being totally rational.

Don't know where and how I did that. Please explain.

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, Hojo said:

if he simply said I do not care about your problems I want to have sex he wouldnt be confused.

If you said that to a woman with any self-esteem, class or of any caliber, she would dump you like how the trash collector dumps his trash.

[Hojo]

@Princess Arabia lol

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, Hojo said:

You dont understand men.

Your opinion, based on nothing. I do understand men as it's my job to, thank you. It's all I've dealt with in the last 10plus years on a specific level. I can even confidently say I probably understand them more than you do.

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, Hojo said:

@Princess ArabiaYou dont understand men. Look what happened he did what he didn't want to do now he's confused. Stop the confusion, stop the mind games. Stop playing mind games with women period. Men can't play mind games when they start they get confused because they are lying to themselves.

Its a very easy fix its not sexist its how God made men. Men don't care about random women's problems if they don't know them they shouldn't get involved with pretending to want to care for a woman to have sex with them.

This guy just did that and now he has no idea what is happening if he simply said I do not care about your problems I want to have sex he wouldnt be confused.

If you were in bed with a man that just started whining about life and you just wanted to fuck and then they didn't you would be upset too.

Personally I say if you dont care about them stop pretending to care say I don't care. Thats what a man should do.

I talk to women on the forum because I'm not sexist and there are women on the forum. Stop projecting your hate onto me I am being totally rational.

If they don't have a boyfriend and want to talk to a man find a gay guy or a therapist.

Mind games with men has and is currently ruining society.

This whole comment is so young, inexperienced and immature, I won't even bother.

[Hojo]

@Princess Arabia No you have no idea, men want to think about God, philosophy, dinosaurs, mechs, video games, sports, aliens, politics. We dont care about things that happened in someones day society is making us fake like we do.

Edited December 29, 2024 by Hojo

[Princess Arabia]

Just now, Princess Arabia said:

If you were in bed with a man that just started whining about life and you just wanted to fuck and then they didn't you would be upset too.

Well, thank God i'll never have this problem to deal with.

[Princess Arabia]

Just now, Hojo said:

@Princess Arabia No you have no idea, men want to think about God, philosophy, dinosaurs, mechs, video games, sports, aliens. We dont care about things that happened in someones day.

You're wrong, totally wrong. Change that to boys please.

[Princess Arabia]

@HojoPlease stop thinking all males are the same please, because they are not.

Edited December 29, 2024 by Princess Arabia

[Hojo]

@Princess Arabia Woman are programmed to care about social mind games men arent. This woman came over an took a massive trauma dump on his fresh sheets and left.

[Princess Arabia]

Most people, male and female don't really care about anything but themselves and what matters to them. If the woman matters to a man, even if it's for the sex, he'll care then how her day went. Men who understands women and are men, not boys, will put in the effort, whatever that takes. He can genuinely care about her day and would love to engage in intimate close conversations about her, her likes and dislikes etc if it even just means getting close to her. I won't bother as I'm mainly referring to a more adult type man and a man who is relationship worthy or husband material but not subjected to. It's all in stages and these statements don't apply to any man at any stage.

Edited December 29, 2024 by Princess Arabia