If my dancing is cringy at clubs, should I continue dancing?

[Never_give_up]

At 12/31/24 night I am going to a club cause it's a modern tradition to have fun the day that the year changes.

I have grabed the attention in a bad way from my cringe dancing in the past.

I absolutely love dancing but I look very strange when I do it. It even makes some people smile almost laughing but I am afraid it may make people confused, like they can't even comprehend why my dancing is so strange to the point they don't know if something is seriously wrong with me.

I have like 5 years to go to a club but when I did and did dance some people were laughing. I suspect half of them were laughing because they were jealous of me having too much fun moving, while they were like statues and half of them were laughing because I was indeed dancing in a cringe way.

 

The only positive thing is that I am really short, and if the popular opinion is true, there is a tendency that short people are less clumsy than average/tall people when dancing. 

I feel like that I will humiliate myself if I dance freely.

 

Should someone dance even if he looks cringy and people laugh at him or should he stop cause it's humiliating? 

Or perhaps a middle solution like: be free to dance how you want but not too free that it becomes too weird. If you do that then it's ok if people laugh , you are within the safe limits of unusal behaviour.

 

I dance almost exclusively for myself, but since there is a component of wanting to have fun with the opposite sex in dancing, I put this in dating topic. 

[NoSelfSelf]

Its all in your head.

[Sugarcoat]

If you look like you’re having fun, as if you’re making fun of yourself, idk how to explain it really but like you show you’re aware of your weird dancing and are having fun with it, you are careless about it, maybe it takes some of the seeming cringe out of it and makes it just seem fun. 
 

Edited December 27, 2024 by Sugarcoat

[Buck Edwards]

It's awesome that you love to dance! It's a fantastic way to express yourself and have fun.  Everyone's there to have fun (mostly). Most people at a club are there to enjoy the music and let loose. While some might be more skilled dancers, many are simply there to move and have a good time.Focus on how dancing makes you feel. Don't worry too much about looking "perfect" or impressing others. Dance with freedom and joy, and let your personality shine through. Experiment with different dance styles. What music makes you want to move? Explore genres like hip-hop, salsa, or even just freestyle. You might discover a style that feels more natural to you.

If I were in a club I would try zumba. 

If you're feeling self-conscious, start by dancing near the edge of the dance floor or in a less crowded area. Gradually work your way towards the center as you feel more comfortable.

 If people laugh, try not to take it personally. Sometimes, laughter can be contagious and good-natured. If you're having a blast, that energy will likely be infectious. Spend some time observing how other people are dancing. Get a feel for the energy of the club.

 Begin with some simple moves, like swaying to the music or tapping your feet. Gradually increase the intensity as you feel more comfortable. Listen to your body. If you feel yourself getting too carried away and feeling self-conscious, tone it down a bit.
Ultimately, the most important thing is to have fun! If you're enjoying yourself, that will shine through and make you more attractive to others.Confidence is key. Even if you're not the most graceful dancer, owning your moves will make a big difference. Focus on the music and the feeling it gives you. Let the rhythm guide your movements. Don't let the fear of judgment hold you back from enjoying yourself. 
 

[Michael569]

If its bothering you too much, pop into a nearest dance studio and buy a few lessons with one of the coaches to teach you some casual moves. 

Or practice at home with YouTube videos (that's what I used to do in my teens) 

But from the sound of that, its sounds more like you need to let go of what others think. Most people aren't professional dancers. 

Edited December 27, 2024 by Michael569