Over feminism ♀️

[Candle]

I don't like : 

Overly feminist people. Too much of gender equality related content. Too many of shorts in which people are saving girls. Too many of sex and periods related talks using the excuse, "we are progressives", "we are liberals", "we are a cool generation ". 

Inserting "feminism" and "misogyny" into everything and every topic. Inserting feminist arguments in every topic.. I can see some  members doing this on this forum too. 

Overthinking every "touch" and every "action" by a male done with a female. For example, when a male hugs a female don't make it an issue. Yes, her breasts press up against him while hugging. But no need to overthink every time. (Unless the intentions are actually wrong). 

Don't doubt someone's intentions every time. 

See both males and females as HUMANS. Not as "man" or "woman". Women are normal humans. 

Fight for real causes, when human rights are actually violated. Fight against ACTUAL misogyny.

I'm also a feminist. But I'm sick of over feminism and chivalry (showing respect/care to females more than needed). 

Female sexuality is as NORMAL as male sexuality. Females take their breasts and vagina for granted. Like males do with their penis. Nothing special. 

 

Edited yesterday at 07:21 AM by Candle

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

You must be watching Tiktok or something cause there's mostly right wing content on Youtube shorts. Either one of those will slowly rot your brain if you let them so be carefull

As for feminism, my opinion is that it's the most successfull hate movement of all time (hate of men if it wasn't obvious). Just simply unprecendented in history. Very manipulative, very sneaky. And it's very much mainstream

[Candle]

6 hours ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

there's mostly right wing content on Youtube shorts.

It's your illusion. YouTube only suggests the type of content you watch. I have tuned my feeds according to my interests, I don't see right wing stuff ever. Bcz algorithm knows very well I'll not tolerate for a second. 

Start seeing left wing content and blocking all bs creators. Then you'll see. 

6 hours ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

my opinion is that it's the most successfull hate movement of all time (hate of men if it wasn't obvious

It's not a hate movement or a conspiracy. Feminism started bcz it was needed. I am criticizing only the "excess" part and the "misuse" of it. 

Female rapes are more common than male rapes. Bcz women are seen as easier targets in settings where power dynamics are abused, such as in relationships, workplaces, or warzones.

So women empowerment and feminism is a real need. 

In prisons, females are raped much more than males. (Especially in third world countries). 

Edited yesterday at 03:06 PM by Candle

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

@Candle Yes exactly, that's why it's been so successfull. The devil tends to be burried in details and good intentions. Obviously no well adjusted human would be pro legitimate rape and other forms of legitimate violence against women, but by feminism basically hijacking these issues, they can pass various anti male sentiments, rhetoric and narratives. Arguably you could pass these laws that protect women against these occurences without feminism. Ultimately it's men who passed these laws anyway, so.

I'd like to think I am actually leaning slightly left generally, but only ever so slightly, I don't really like either side. Individually I am kinda apolitical, and I'm generslly trying to stay out of it cause it doesn't affect my life much. My assumption is that right wing content tends to do well on Youtube cause they tend to have more entertaining content (which is by no means good ofc)

[Buck Edwards]

I don't think a woman needs a man's permission or approval to be how she wants to be. 

[Candle]

2 hours ago, Buck Edwards said:

I don't think a woman needs a man's permission or approval to be how she wants to be. 

Of course. Who's saying the opposite? 

Vice versa is also true. 

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

5 hours ago, Buck Edwards said:

I don't think a woman needs a man's permission or approval to be how she wants to be. 

Realistically, yes she does, and the opposite is the same as well

[Buck Edwards]

Just now, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

Realistically, yes she does, and the opposite is the same as well

Really? 

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

18 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

Really? 

Yes of course we all need each other's permissions and validation, this day and age it's a bit unbalanced and unnatural and it just seems men need it more from women, and because of that + female natural narcisism it seems like they need it much less from men. But even narcisists need validation