I Need Urgent Help

[A Fellow Lighter]

My .. the girl I'm with is hinting at committing suicide if I leave her. What do I do?

[Hojo]

Make then say it then screen shot it.

[Raze]

Tell her to get ifs therapy 

[Leo Gura]

I've had that. It's tough but in the end you can't stay with her just because of that.

Try to comfort her. Usually it's an empty threat that will pass.

You have to assess how serious the threat is. 

Edited Monday at 10:58 PM by Leo Gura

[A Fellow Lighter]

7 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

It's tough but in the end you can't stay with her just because of that.

No I cannot.

7 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

You have to assess how serious the threat is. 

How do I do that exactly? How did you do it? And how were you certain of your assessment?

[A Fellow Lighter]

I'm angry that she's playing the suicide card with me. She's so selfish. Her selfishness is the reason I want to leave her in the first place. 

[Buck Edwards]

She is playing the suicide card. I had my ex do that to me that caused me to be with him twice. It caused me a lot of suffering. 

Don't fall for it. It's a huge red flag. 

When it's time to leave make it final. 

 

[shree]

8 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

 

10 hours ago, A Fellow Lighter said:

My .. the girl I'm with is hinting at committing suicide if I leave her. What do I do?

It's likely a trauma response caused by a fear of being abandoned. It might just be an empty threat, but it's still important to handle this carefully.