Guys , give your perspective on this.

[Princess Arabia]

4 hours ago, Rishabh R said:

@Princess Arabia You took my last sentence seriously , but that last sentence was just a joke. That is why I have a laughing emoji beside it. As per resentment goes yes I am guilty of this but I have not done anything awful to them by beating them or abusing them . No I have not shown resentment in my actions. Yeah I understand that your lawyer statement was you joking. If you are hurt by my posts then I am sorry. 

Hurt is not the word. Own up to your own hatred and resentments and realize it's about you and the thoughts you're entertaining. That's all. I have resentments too, but I don't project them unto the world because I realize they are only thoughts. Thoughts that has nothing to do with what I resent. I work within to try and overcome them. I try to see things differently and from another perspective. It's a constant work in progress but has nothing to do with the outside world. The person inside is delusional and it is constantly being seen through when I realize it's a construction, programming and conditioning. Reality doesn't see me. I see it as revolving around me, as is the case with just about everyone. We have taken it personal and it's not about that, it's how we perceive it that's the problem. Even with you, I've done the same thing. I've made you into a problem that doesn't exist but only within the constraints of my own being and ways of thinking. You have also woken me up to realize my own delusions and how I respond to outside stimulii. Totally and utterly delusional.

[Rishabh R]

8 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

You have also woken me up to realize my own delusions and how I respond to outside stimulii.

Thanks atleast I have helped someone.

[Myagooshki]

There's nothing wrong with feeling angry at people rejecting you. You have to be careful about how openly you express that because people get pissed. A lot of dudes that get pissed a lot of the times it's because they're toxic alphas who are pretending to relate more to the women than the man because they see you as easily manipulatable meat that they can eliminate and not have to compete with. But if a girl rejects you respectfully you don't have to be enthusiastically "Oh my well that's your right and I'm not entitled to you!" you can just be like "eh, bye" or something. If she disrespectfully rejects you, you don't have to supplicate either.

Talk to more and more people, it's something I have to get better at myself, but you just walk around where there's a lot of people and act like a sociopath. Talk to people about random stuff and don't let them see how much you hate them or how much you want to cry or any of that.

[El Rizzidente]

@Rishabh R  nihilism motherfucker

life is a game, and you can choose to make the pursuit of pussy either a main quest, a side quest, or leave the quest on the job board

and think about this- you have such a limited amount of time on this earth, why sulk for even a single second , for ANYTHNG? 

You're basically outsourcing your happiness to the women you approach- why give them that control????????? 

you should either continue approaching and use their rejections as feedback/signals, OR just go cold turkey monk mode

but you should not allow yourself to be embittered by women

also, be persistent with the game, NOT with any one interaction. If she shows disinterest, move on to the next approach IMMEDIATELY (exception being is if she's not opening up due to a visible lack of trust, which you can assuage)

 

Edited December 26, 2024 by El Rizzidente
Another important pt

[Rishabh R]

@El Rizzidente Are you abusing me dude ? Also from earlier responses I got the point to be persistent in game but I don't like your response.

Kindly ignore the rest due to error made by me in submitting the response.

• 1 hour ago, El Rizzidente said:

  • nihilism motherfucker

•  

1 hour ago, El Rizzidente said:

@Rishabh R  nihilism motherfucker

life is a game, and you can choose to make the pursuit of pussy either a main quest, a side quest, or leave the quest on the job board

and think about this- you have such a limited amount of time on this earth, why sulk for even a single second , for ANYTHNG? 

You're basically outsourcing your happiness to the women you approach- why give them that control????????? 

you should either continue approaching and use their rejections as feedback/signals, OR just go cold turkey monk mode

but you should not allow yourself to be embittered by women

also, be persistent with the game, NOT with any one interaction. If she shows disinterest, move on to the next approach IMMEDIATELY (exception being is if she's not opening up due to a visible lack of trust, which you can assuage)

 

On 12/25/2024 at 2:48 AM, Princess Arabia said:

 

 

[Kairos]

@Rishabh R Can you be more specific about your situation like what actually happened and what kinda personality do you have ,age etc so that u can receive advice specific to you .

Guessing from your name you are from India ?

[Rishabh R]

@Kairos I am 24 year old student who will be completing my masters in the next 4-6 months . As per the above topic I don't like those girls either and rejection is the way of screening them away from my life.

[Recursoinominado]

I was once an incel and, obviously, very resentful toward women. Learned game, improved myself, solved the "incel" problem, had sex with close to 90 girls until now. My resentment never changed by having sex with multiple women, but by befriending them. After I started to have many female friends, I started to be more empathetic towards them so I view them more like human beings and less like some hole I like to fuck (many men see them like that).

Another thing was realizing they are choosing what is best for them, like you are looking for what you think is best for you. If you are being rejected because there are things you should be working on (career, charisma, social mastery, maxxing looks etc), then is fair. Don't take it personal, take it as a challenge to improve. 

Leo's videos on game are pretty good for inner game but consuming content will do very little for your inner game, you should contemplate, apply and review the concepts live.

[Candle]

1 hour ago, Rishabh R said:

my masters in the next 4-6 months

Which subject? @Rishabh R

[Rishabh R]

@Candle  Biotechnology engineering.

[Kairos]

2 hours ago, Rishabh R said:

@Kairos I am 24 year old student who will be completing my masters in the next 4-6 months . As per the above topic I don't like those girls either and rejection is the way of screening them away from my life.

Okay . 

You said you were rejected so I'd suggest you try to have female friends (that'll help you for not being resentful)+ you should learn to flirt like covertly don't show your attraction in a direct manner (to avoid straightforward rejections)

This worked for me . Plus become a fun person to be around .

The best inner game you can have is "Be detached from the outcome " of being accepted or rejected or else you'll get emotional and mess it up . 

 

[Princess Arabia]

7 minutes ago, Kairos said:

Okay . 

You said you were rejected so I'd suggest you try to have female friends (that'll help you for not being resentful)+ you should learn to flirt like covertly don't show your attraction in a direct manner (to avoid straightforward rejections)

This worked for me . Plus become a fun person to be around .

The best inner game you can have is "Be detached from the outcome " of being accepted or rejected or else you'll get emotional and mess it up . 

 

Great advice.

[Kairos]

@Princess Arabia Thanks

[Rishabh R]

@Kairos I have female friends and also your advice is great. I have read Models by Mark Manson again and again and it helps me for this issue .

[Kairos]

@Rishabh R Well than you seem to be doing fine .Nice 

[Rishabh R]

@Kairos Thank you.

[EternalForest]

Have you considered that you're already a valuable, attractive man, but you haven't met a girl who appreciates you yet? Or at least, one who is willing to join you on your journey of growth to become your best self?

[Rishabh R]

@EternalForest Yeah , I have thought it sometimes.

[Basman]

Your are not entitled to a woman. That is the problem when you subscribe to some kind of model of success, you start having expectations. Then you get mad when you don't get the success you think you should get when following this model to the letter.

Maybe you feel unattractive simply. Maybe that's why you cling to your model and feel entitled.

Maybe you need to hire a prostitute a couple of times so your less desperate. Pay them to compliment you even. Make them say how good your cock is. Or roleplay you punishing them. Make your resentment something sexy. Or spend time with your mom, have her call you handsome by saying you feel ugly.

[Sugarcoat]

Just now, Basman said:

Make them say how good your cock is. Or roleplay you punishing them.

😹😹😹😹

I’m generally against buying sex because i consider it exploitation but this was still funny