Guys , give your perspective on this.

[Rishabh R]

Situation - I was angry due to girls rejecting me and dating other guys. Mindset--These rejections were meant to be persisted through which I did. They were the natural part of the process of becoming an attractive man. Action step- Keep moving forward no matter how hard it gets.

I asked claude regarding this prompt for inner game and outer game. Now it's turn for you all.

And @Leo Gura how to improve your inner game if you feel resentment against girls due to past rejections without psychedelics ?

[NoSelfSelf]

There is no rejection, she helped you by saying no ,you didnt have to waste time on her.

Its all pushing you towards where you need to be,every "rejection" is redirection.

Mindset is its redirection not rejection..

Edited yesterday at 06:42 PM by NoSelfSelf

[Rishabh R]

@NoSelfSelf  But claude tells me a different story . Even though I would agree to you about redirection.

[NoSelfSelf]

2 minutes ago, Rishabh R said:

@NoSelfSelf  But claude tells me a different story . Even though I would agree to you about redirection.

Point of the game is to find what works for you and understanding why behind what you do.

Your mind is messing you over to believe claude has the answers or me no.Your truth tailored to you, not taking someone elses thoughts and putting it in your mind.Its like you looking to put text format into pdf program.

When you are student of the game you have ability to craft the mindset for yourself.

 

[Rishabh R]

@NoSelfSelf But what about persistence ? Is it bullshit or has some value? I generated this mindset via a self mastery worksheet .

[NoSelfSelf]

1 minute ago, Rishabh R said:

@NoSelfSelf But what about persistence ? Is it bullshit or has some value? I generated this mindset via a self mastery worksheet .

Persistence in what context?

[Rishabh R]

8 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

Persistence in what context?

Persistent in talking to different girls.

[Raze]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1IqVDvnDEJU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jVvLQ7EVwyA

https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-be-resilient-and-bounce-back-rejection

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2owjJLUh0rs

[NoSelfSelf]

1 minute ago, Rishabh R said:

Persistent in talking to different girls.

Ofcourse but with each interaction you should learn and evolve.

[Rishabh R]

3 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

Ofcourse but with each interaction you should learn and evolve.

@NoSelfSelf Ok thanks. So you mean to say that persistence is important as it is part of The growth mindset ?

9 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

 

[NoSelfSelf]

4 minutes ago, Rishabh R said:

@NoSelfSelf Ok thanks. So you mean to say that persistence is important as it is part of The growth mindset ?

Yes persistence againts all odds, just working on yourself every day,no women should stop you from doing what you need to do for yourself,since its not about them, its about breaking through barriers of your former self, its so much better than scoring a woman imo.

[AION]

Read the book inner game of tennis. The book is not really about tennis. It can be applied to everything. That is the only book that really understands what inner game means. 

[Rishabh R]

3 minutes ago, AION said:

Read the book inner game of tennis. The book is not really about tennis. It can be applied to everything. That is the only book that really understands what inner game means. 

I have red Models by Mark Manson.

Edited 23 hours ago by Rishabh R

[The Renaissance Man]

The frustration is natural and understandable.

But anger towards the women can be overcome by understanding you're not entitled to them. They don't owe you anything, and they have all the rights to reject you. Even if it's 100 in a row, and it fucking sucks, you still can't be angry at them, it would be illogical and false.

You already got the answer: persist (in a smart way, analyzing your mistakes & getting better though, not in the same way that lead you to the failure).

Edited 23 hours ago by The Renaissance Man

[Princess Arabia]

You said in another thread that you didn't even like the girls that rejected you. Don't make me go look it up. This is why I keep saying life doesn't make any sense. Chaos, utterly chaos. Smh.

Same shit different day. Same ole stories.

Here it is. How you go have resentment towards girls that rejected you and say you never really liked them to begin with.

Be careful, I'm the forum lawyer and will hold you to every word you say. I have ears of steel and a perception that never misses. Lol. I'll appoint the judge and jury in my next case. Hehe 

Edited 19 hours ago by Princess Arabia

[Princess Arabia]

I think one thread said you don't feel resentment anymore, said you went through therapy or something, now the resentment is back. Then you write a book about living the good life or something of the sort. I will go mad in this Universe if it doesn't start to make sense. 

[nhoktinvt]

i had an interaction 2 days ago with two girls it was a night game approach at the park,one girl was mostly friendly and another one was silent, i talk and talk and the silent girl started saying i'm annoying them TWICE and she was vocal, i don't want to ruin my reputation more so i leave the set, there are two things i get from this one is gaining clarity on why i'm doing this, i do this because i think it's beautiful (or should i say i'm beautiful and wanted to share it with others), two is the understanding of hard times create strong men, good times create weak men ect..

[Rishabh R]

@Princess Arabia  Haha , Lawyer when I introspect that wether I liked those girls or not . The answer is no. It's liberati g for me that when I introspected in a self help worksheet realized that I didn't like them either. However , I am suffering from resentment right now which I need to embrace . Last night I was the suffering from the same resentment but I embraced it and found myself smiling twice and the suffering was gone. Maybe I need to do the same thing.

If you want to expose me then expose me 😁 .

[Princess Arabia]

7 hours ago, Rishabh R said:

If you want to expose me then expose me

It's not about that. It's all in the open here. It's not like there are hidden documents somewhere waiting to be exposed. My lawyer comment was me being silly, but I just think it's a waste of people's time and efforts to keep bringing up an issue that you yourself don't attempt to solve. You have been saying this stuff for eons and the fact that you even say you don't even like the girls that rejected you tells me that this issue with you seems psychopathic. You're suffering from resenting your own egotistical neurosis and you probably need to stop putting that blame on those women you're trying to pick up that you don't even like.

I tell you, half of you guys that have problem with women are the problem themselves and women can smell that a mile away. Then you have the nerve to say how you begun to hate women for your own neurosis and narcissism. It's a problem, yes it's a problem. How and why? The tendencies tend to ease it's way into society and the dating world and toxic pill ideologies and tends to poison the minds of other men who are just starting out and looking for advice from the more experienced and when they see how rejection can hurt or that guys are being rejected but for the right reasons, they tend to adopt the same beliefs about women you have implanted in their brains and now they see women as the enemy and who can be responsible for their hatred.

It is a problem for everyone when you say you hate or despise women you don't like when they reject you. People will tell me about my spiritual beliefs and say stuff like other people are reading and to be careful about saying there is no one, but they can't and won't see the hidden toxic poison in your sentences that can be problematic for women and men alike because spreading hate can be very contagious and other young men reading your comments can just start to hate women just because you're saying how much you have been rejected BUT ARE NOT STRESSING THE PART THAT YOU ACTUALLY DO NOT LIKE THESE WOMEN TO BEGIN WITH and women are rejecting that about you, not necessarily you perse. 

[Rishabh R]

@Princess Arabia You took my last sentence seriously , but that last sentence was just a joke. That is why I have a laughing emoji beside it. As per resentment goes yes I am guilty of this but I have not done anything awful to them by beating them or abusing them . No I have not shown resentment in my actions. Yeah I understand that your lawyer statement was you joking. If you are hurt by my posts then I am sorry.