The painful reality of beautiful women 😔

[Etherial Cat]

  On 12/31/2024 at 2:28 PM, integral said:

The number one thing a woman wants to hear during sex is that she’s beautiful.

Na.

I love you. 

But that's kinda the same thing.

[integral]

  On 12/31/2024 at 2:37 PM, Etherial Cat said:

Na.

I love you. 

But that's kinda the same thing.

Oh, that’s true. I forgot about that one. 😂 I think the reason I was having a mindset of when you’re with someone short term versus long-term. You can’t tell them that you’re in love with them like the first time you have sex with them, but you could definitely tell them how beautiful they are and stimulate them in many other ways mentally.

So in this way, I think the beauty aspect might be more primitive and primal than the love aspect?

[Whitney Edwards]

  On 12/31/2024 at 2:53 PM, integral said:

Oh, that’s true. I forgot about that one. 😂 I think the reason I was having a mindset of when you’re with someone short term versus long-term. You can’t tell them that you’re in love with them like the first time you have sex with them, but you could definitely tell them how beautiful they are and stimulate them in many other ways mentally.

So in this way, I think the beauty aspect might be more primitive and primal than the love aspect?

You don't have to pretend that someone is beautiful. 

[integral]

  On 12/31/2024 at 2:57 PM, Buck Edwards said:

You don't have to pretend that someone is beautiful. 

?? at no point did I say to pretend? If you’re having sex as a man and you say these things you don’t mean during sex then you don’t know how to have sex. Because in that scenario, you’re psychologically completely disconnected and out of the game and are functioning at a low state of sexual development.

The right way to have sex is to be 100% invested into the moment to lose yourself in that moment in a very intense almost animalistic way (for a lack of a better word). And as a man from the male perspective, you should be looking at her like she’s the most beautiful thing you’ve ever seen in a kind of mesmerized state. And this produces the most passionate highest quality sex. But this only works if she’s also completely hundred percent diving in to it and not resisting like most women do that are stuck in their head overthinking. Hold on maybe the word resisting can be misinterpreted. I mean, you know when women overthink and are not invested in the moment.

When the man is fully invested and mesmerized into it, he intuitively behaves and acts in the most passionate way that women are stimulated by to the highest level.

But I’m not talking about doing this on a first date… lol this is something that takes time and trust to build up. 

Edited December 31, 2024 by integral

[Sugarcoat]

  On 12/31/2024 at 0:48 PM, Javfly33 said:

I think it depends, there might be out there men that don´t care so much about beauty, for others it is the number #1 factor. 

Personally for me looks has always been #1, and is not because of society, but because of deeper reasons in the memory of my software. 

The only women I desire is the ones that usually are above my league physically. You could say for being a man I'm pretty "hypergamous" 😂

I was never influenced by being attracted to certain type of women (society influence). Is completely internal/karmic.

Just to give you an idea how profound karma goes, I can just look at a person hands and without exchanging a single word with him, I already can know on a 80-90% correct possibility If I will match psychologically with that person or not. I don´t even need to see his face to know it. Just a look at his hands. 

At least you know what you like. I think for many men looks is number one factor. 

[Whitney Edwards]

  On 12/31/2024 at 3:06 PM, integral said:

And as a man from the male perspective, you should be looking at her like she’s the most beautiful thing you’ve ever seen in a kind of mesmerized state.

I mean if she is not beautiful in your eyes, why are you having sex with her? It doesn't make sense. 

[integral]

  On 12/31/2024 at 3:13 PM, Buck Edwards said:

I mean if she is not beautiful in your eyes, why are you having sex with her? It doesn't make sense. 

That’s actually a really great question and it happens a lot.

The sex is enjoyable regardless if you think she’s genuinely beautiful or not, or if you were mostly lying. Because if for example, if she ask you if she looks fat in these clothes, the right answer is to lie because you love her, or your socially intelligent, and understand that a question purpose is to communicate an emotion and not autisticly communicating truth.

Also You could love her and not think she’s beautiful. And so if you’re having sex with her, it’s because you’re in love with her. Normally when you’re in love with her and you enjoy having sex with her then you generally think she’s beautiful even if a different part of your brain think she she’s not. There’s many types of beauty.

Or you don’t think she’s beautiful and your not in love with her and you’re just telling her she’s beautiful so you can have sex with her because men will enjoy sex regardless.

Some men emotionally manipulate for good intentions and some do it for personal gain. And it’s always some mix of both and always some mix of selfishness and love. lol

you could have sex with a man and not think he’s hot. 

Edited December 31, 2024 by integral

[something_else]

  On 12/31/2024 at 3:13 PM, Buck Edwards said:

I mean if she is not beautiful in your eyes, why are you having sex with her? It doesn't make sense. 

Because a lot of men are extremely horny and not very picky because of that. Many will have sex with women who they aren't attracted to, they just want to have sex.

Edited December 31, 2024 by something_else

[Whitney Edwards]

  On 12/31/2024 at 3:37 PM, something_else said:

Because a lot of men are extremely horny and not very picky because of that. Many will have sex with women who they aren't attracted to just to nut.

Thats sad because she doesn't deserve that. 

[integral]

  On 12/31/2024 at 3:38 PM, Buck Edwards said:

Thats sad because she doesn't deserve that. 

You gotta be smart enough to avoid these men. It’s a skill.

But you’re not gonna get it right all the time like you’re gonna be wrong before you figure it out. And there’s gonna be luck involved.

Edited December 31, 2024 by integral

[something_else]

  On 12/31/2024 at 3:38 PM, Buck Edwards said:

Thats sad because she doesn't deserve that. 

Well of course not, but the world is full of people using others like this. For example women stringing along men for their money.

You gotta learn to avoid this kind of shit for yourself, but it's going to happen regardless.

Edited December 31, 2024 by something_else

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

  On 12/31/2024 at 3:38 PM, Buck Edwards said:

Thats sad because she doesn't deserve that. 

At least one's seed is being spread over variety of women, which is completely natural, seeing as it's man's natural imperative which he can choose not to do (or can't do rather). While woman's natural imperative is the opposite of being a hoe but she can still choose to go that path

[Leo Gura]

Tell a woman, "You're very handsome" and see how she reacts.

Make that your pickup line for a week.

[Whitney Edwards]

  On 12/31/2024 at 3:59 PM, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

At least one's seed is being spread over variety of women, which is completely natural, seeing as it's man's natural imperative which he can choose not to do (or can't do rather). While woman's natural imperative is the opposite of being a hoe but she can still choose to go that path

Yea understandable.

Edited December 31, 2024 by Leo Gura

[PurpleTree]