The painful reality of beautiful women 😔

[ricachica]

5 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Not fascinated.

Emotional stimulation. That's where charisma, passion, fun, humor, adventure, drama, dancing, music, drugs comes in.

Yes, hanging out with the banned door-dash guy I was into involved lots of drinking…occasional drug use, going to concerts and dancing…very humorous and adventurous. We were exploring all over LA basically.

I wouldn’t agree with vampire/criminal thing Kairos mentioned though…I wouldn’t be into him if he felt the need to be manipulative and harmful towards others. He was generally kind.

[Leo Gura]

4 minutes ago, Majed said:

@Leo Gura I was once in a taxis, and there was a girl behind us in the taxis, and i was telling the taxi driver how i want to have chemsex with a girl. Do you think the girl found it hot ? I remember when i went out of the taxis, she was staring at me.

I don't know what that is.

Talking about sex is creepy and wrong. Just have fun with her. Do not mention sex. And if she brings up sex, you tell her "We aren't having sex. I barely know you. You are probably a rapist."

[Majed]

@Leo Gura Why is talking about sex creepy and wrong ? I disagree people should be comfortable talking about whatever they want. 

[Leo Gura]

8 minutes ago, Majed said:

@Leo Gura Why is talking about sex creepy and wrong ? I disagree people should be comfortable talking about whatever they want. 

Women will not have sex with you if you make it explicit. Because this makes them look like sluts and like you are just using them for sex.

Women have been used many times and they don't want a repeat of that.

Edited December 30, 2024 by Leo Gura

[Majed]

@Leo Gura But isn't this dishonesty ? If your goal is to have fun with a girl, wouldn't it be more honest to own it, and if you feel like it make it explicit, rather than being dishonest in trying not to talk about sex to manipulate a girl to have sex with you ? 

[Basman]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

Not at all.

Martial arts is for the male ego to feel better about itself. The male equivalent of a boob job.

There's plenty of reasons to practice martial arts besides ego gratification. So dismissive.

[Leo Gura]

37 minutes ago, Majed said:

@Leo Gura But isn't this dishonesty ? If your goal is to have fun with a girl, wouldn't it be more honest to own it, and if you feel like it make it explicit, rather than being dishonest in trying not to talk about sex to manipulate a girl to have sex with you ? 

What you will eventually discover is that your need to talk about sex with girls you just met stems from desperation and neediness, and eventually you will realize how cringe and unattractive that is and drop it.

You tell yourself you're being authentic but this authenticity is coming from weakness and neediness.

If you were really having fun you won't be thinking about sex.

15 minutes ago, Basman said:

There's plenty of reasons to practice martial arts besides ego gratification. So dismissive.

I didn't preclude those reasons. The context of this thread was martial arts and masculinity and attraction.

Martial arts can be done in a healthy way as a sport or hobby. But that's besides the point.

Edited December 30, 2024 by Leo Gura

[Majed]

@Leo Gura I see. 

[Davino]

2 hours ago, Kairos said:

Do you think learning Martial Arts is necessary for a man to be considered masculine ? As physical strength is a part of traditional masculinity too

Not at all, it's more about the software than the hardware for attracting women. The opposite is the case for attracting men.

Moreover, martial arts don't make you look bulked. They strenghten the muscles within and not in the volume sense. 

Sure there's correlation between martial arts and confidence/masculinity. But if you want to get success with women go directly to that which is learning how to flirt and massive experience in the field.

 

As a fun story. In my first MMA sparring I got beaten up by a sixteen year old, which was almost half my height. On the streets nobody would say he can do that to anyone and he's quite shy. Most people that train don't look like alpha males at all, just regular guys which like to fight. Of course you always have the alpha dick head, but he gets humbled too. When you give you also receive.

[kray]

2 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

What women look for is leadership, not MMA skills.

Women are also attracted to masculine physical appearance. If you look more masculine more women will sleep with you.

So like not being a fat with man boobs I guess? Or a guys with muscle and not a guy with skinny fat?

[AION]

3 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Not at all.

Martial arts is for the male ego to feel better about itself. The male equivalent of a boob job.

If you ever tasted the joys of winning a battle you would throw away your DMT pipe and become a MMA fighter. Nothing more spiritual than being God’s truth and kicking butts. 😝

Edited December 30, 2024 by AION

[Leo Gura]

6 minutes ago, AION said:

joys of winning a battle

A very shallow joy.

You might as well savor the joys of winning a professional pissing match.

Edited December 30, 2024 by Leo Gura

[AION]

36 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

A very shallow joy.

You might as well savor the joys of winning a professional pissing match.

We all fight a battle. Some with depression. Some with addiction. Some with difficulties of life. And some wrestle with god. 

So some battles are Inner and some outer. Sometimes a victory in the inner will reflect to the outside. And sometimes an outer victory will reflect to the inner. 
 

In my opinion we can’t choose to not fight like explained in the War of Art. If you are alive you have to fight. You can only choose to be a good fighter or bad fighter.
 

I have talked with a lot of people and I came to this conclusion. We all fight. And that is why I decided to be the best fighter I can be. If you can develop this fighter mindset you can apply it to everything. It is an abomination you compare martial arts to a boob job. 

Edited December 30, 2024 by AION

[Davino]

1 hour ago, AION said:

If you ever tasted the joys of winning a battle you would throw away your DMT pipe and become a MMA fighter. Nothing more spiritual than being God’s truth and kicking butts. 😝

LMAO

I would fight you for saying that

On the other hand, there is a profound connection between consciousness work, self development and martial arts. They really synergize

[Princess Arabia]

4 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Men sleep with the most beautiful women. Which is why women are obsessed with beauty.

This isn't rocket science.

Don't kid yourself. Women aren't going around obsessed with beauty for men to sleep with them. The most beautiful women aren't the sex-crazed ones. It's the fat ugly ones who aren't getting much attention usually, but not always. We're obsessed with beauty because we like to look good. We feel attractive and it makes for a more confident woman overall and it does have it's perks. Men are sleeping with any woman willing. Men love to sleep with the beautiful women, but not all men have access to beautiful women. Some men are fine with an average looking woman too. A beautiful woman is very valuable in society. It is what it is. But don't get it twisted they're not enhancing their beauty thinking to themselves I want to sleep with more men. Matter of fact they're not even thinking about sex that much sex just happens. I'm not talking about women in relationships, just in general.

[Sugarcoat]

3 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Don't kid yourself. Women aren't going around obsessed with beauty for men to sleep with them. The most beautiful women aren't the sex-crazed ones. It's the fat ugly ones who aren't getting much attention usually, but not always. We're obsessed with beauty because we like to look good. We feel attractive and it makes for a more confident woman overall and it does have it's perks. Men are sleeping with any woman willing. Men love to sleep with the beautiful women, but not all men have access to beautiful women. Some men are fine with an average looking woman too. A beautiful woman is very valuable in society. It is what it is. But don't get it twisted they're not enhancing their beauty thinking to themselves I want to sleep with more men. Matter of fact they're not even thinking about sex that much sex just happens. I'm not talking about women in relationships, just in general.

I was also thinking of  commenting on that but I think you said enough. Women like to look good in general it’s so deeply engrained in us and our self image it goes beyond men and sex

Edited December 30, 2024 by Sugarcoat

[Princess Arabia]

12 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

I was also thinking of  commenting on that but I think you said enough. Women like to look good in general it’s so deeply engrained in us and our self image it goes beyond men and sex

Some men just can't get that beauty for a woman can be a commodity. It can get her far in more ways than one. Sex ain't even in the picture just for sex's sake. She might use it or her sex appeal, but it's not for the purpose of having more sex or so more men will want to sleep with them. Women aren't going around putting on make-up for more sex. It's so ridiculous sounding even when I'm saying it. Even if a woman wants men attention, doesn't mean sex, it might just be to make her feel beautiful. That's why so many men will say women are a tease because in their minds their thinking sex and in her mind she's thinking attention or to feel feminine or whatever else other than just having sex.  

Also, which is the main reason, it's just a feminine thing. This is why old women will do it, married women and lesbians. None of these groups are putting on make up to try and allure men its just a female thing to do.

Edited December 31, 2024 by Princess Arabia

[Sugarcoat]

9 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Some men just can't get that beauty for a woman can be a commodity. It can get her far in more ways than one. Sex ain't even in the picture just for sex's sake. She might use it or her sex appeal, but it's not for the purpose of having more sex or so more men will want to sleep with them. Women aren't going around putting on make-up for more sex. It's so ridiculous sounding even when I'm saying it. Even if a woman wants men attention, doesn't mean sex, it might just be to make her feel beautiful. That's why so many men will say women are a tease because in their minds they’re thinking sex and in her mind she's thinking attention or to feel feminine or whatever else other than just having sex.  

Yea

Edited December 31, 2024 by Sugarcoat

[Leo Gura]

20 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Women aren't going around obsessed with beauty for men to sleep with them.

Don't kid yourself. Women are obessed with beauty to make themselves feel secure. Which is all about getting the best men. This isn't some cutesy game. This is pure survival.

Edited December 31, 2024 by Leo Gura

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

@Leo Gura But part of what they're saying really is true, in a certain way, they really don't care at all what men think about it. Paradoxically they also do care about it. But they're really not making this up, women are simply narcisists. Like, they genuinely don't care especially what unnatractive men have to say about them