Why you cannot fail at life

[Princess Arabia]

2 hours ago, Breakingthewall said:

Being human only one thing is success: giving your best, absolutely without reservation every moment. Anything else is fail. 

So, the person who is there to help with your success and who did their part to make that possible e.g. cleaned the toilet you shitted in in the hotel you stayed at while traveling to pursue your success,(not you, but anybody) is a failure. Just one example out of thousands. Also the person that didn't do their best that you learnt from to not make that mistake is also a failure. Think the bigger picture before you come to these absolute conclusions.

[Breakingthewall]

3 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

So, the person who is there to help with your success and who did their part to make that possible e.g. cleaned the toilet you shitted in in the hotel you stayed at while traveling to pursue your success,(not you, but anybody) is a failure. Just one example out of thousands. Also the person that didn't do their best that you learnt from to not make that mistake is also a failure. Think the bigger picture before you come to these absolute conclusions.

 I never would judge that person for cleaning toilets, my respect for him is total, but I would judge him if he fucks his 4 years old daughter, what to do?

[Princess Arabia]

Just now, Breakingthewall said:

 I never would judge that person for cleaning toilets, my respect for him is total, but I would judge him if he fucks his 4 years old daughter, what to do?

So that success for you that is mentioned above is relative and depends on how one defines it. Maybe fucking his 4yr old daughter was a goal of his and he succeeded.

[Breakingthewall]

1 minute ago, Princess Arabia said:

So that success for you that is mentioned above is relative and depends on how one defines it. Maybe fucking his 4yr old daughter was a goal of his and he succeeded.

I don't think so, it's a weakness that creates horrible karma to him and to his daughter. From an absolute perspective it's what it has to be , but from a relative perspective you want to ascend, not drown in a pit of shit that will take you thousands of lives to get out of, and drag the people around you into it. From an absolute perspective, it is exactly the same, if you extend it to infinity it is the same Buddha as Manson, but right now I am looking for the best, it is the nature of this dimension of existence

[Kuba Powiertowski]

@Princess Arabia Human intellect easily confuses concepts, turns the cat's tail around. Fortunately, we have the Heart - the sacred compass always points in the right direction. Sometimes the intellect does everything to drown out this voice of the heart. And it never succeeds in doing so permanently.

[Princess Arabia]

38 minutes ago, Kuba Powiertowski said:

@Princess Arabia Human intellect easily confuses concepts, turns the cat's tail around. Fortunately, we have the Heart - the sacred compass always points in the right direction. Sometimes the intellect does everything to drown out this voice of the heart. And it never succeeds in doing so permanently.

That's right!

[Hojo]

 

11 hours ago, AION said:

It is truly terrifying that consciousness can’t die. It was kind of a relief for me that everything would be over when it is over but when it is over the real madness start. 

You will die. It will be the exact same way you think it will be, but instead of dying its just a rest before you go again. The human mind will literally find things infinite things to be scared of.

Oh my God Im going to die

Oh my God I cant die

Oh my God im in a human im trapped in a human

Oh my God im infinite im trapped in infinity.

You cannot please the mind its built to not be pleased. Evolution is saying this is the best way to be on this planet.

In a way its good to be scared.

God made the universe the best of every world. If you are scared of dying you wont die, if you are scared of never dying you will die, if you are scared of going infinite you wont if you are scared of not going infinite you will. You get to choose its all of them. Life is you asking yourself what do you want?

Edited Sunday at 01:29 AM by Hojo

[Javfly33]

21 hours ago, AION said:

It is truly terrifying that consciousness can’t die. It was kind of a relief for me that everything would be over when it is over but when it is over the real madness start. 

That´s what enlightment is for. You exit yourself from existence...duh. You guys don´t get it yet... 😂

[integral]

And none of this realization, and none of this awakening will amount to any kind of reduction in suffering. You will suffer to the full extent regardless. 

Because it’s not all in your head, it’s all in reality and the Ego is not in control.

if this realization reduced suffering, it’s because a new perspective was enough to reduce someone’s suffering because of various life conditions that allow it to happen. A quadriplegic trapped in their body having cluster headaches 24 hours a day does not have the life condition needed to reduce suffering through thoughts. 

Edited Sunday at 12:32 PM by integral

[Razard86]

1 hour ago, integral said:

And none of this realization, and none of this awakening will amount to any kind of reduction in suffering. You will suffer to the full extent regardless. 

Because it’s not all in your head, it’s all in reality and the Ego is not in control.

if this realization reduced suffering, it’s because a new perspective was enough to reduce someone’s suffering because of various life conditions that allow it to happen. A quadriplegic trapped in their body having cluster headaches 24 hours a day does not have the life condition needed to reduce suffering through thoughts. 

If that person fully awakens to themselves as LOVE their suffering will disappear.