Popular Dating Coach Alexander Grace turns to Black Pill

[AION]

Although I´m not black pill, I kind of understand it. I never got girls laugh at me, ridicule me, or do nasty stuff. But probably if I was a weaker looking man or more ugly, I would get the same treatment. I know a lot of below average guys just giving it up. Too many guys. And nobody is talking about it, especially women not caring about this group of men while they care about everything else and especially caring about their own interests.

I have fair share of success because I, kind of, go for 6´s and 7´s because those are easy to wrap up. But if I would aim for my own league I kind of agree that dating is more difficult than ever. I have an American friend in Europe and he says it is more difficult in EU than in the US. I´m not going into the specifics but he was very clear about it.

Personally I just do dating for myself, not for the girl. Because I think most women are not worth it. Too entitled for more than they give and too big of a body count to make sacrifices for. And if you have this attitude of doing things for yourself from a POV of already being complete, and her just being a NPC, it actually works out.

It is important to not have resentment for female nature and accept them as they are. And from that acceptance, muster some love you are willing to give. Just having huge resentment and expecting women to behave and think like men is just a recipe for unhappiness. Just look at the sadness of Alexander´s face. It is a pity.

[NoSelfSelf]

[Oeaohoo]

The YouTube algorithm recommended me some of his videos recently. I think they were old videos but he seemed quite jaded even in those.

29 minutes ago, AION said:

Although I´m not black pill, I kind of understand it.

Yes... Though, in my opinion, one of the weakest Black Pill points is female hypergamy. Although it is true that women have hypergamous desires, I see a lot of cute girls with extremely mediocre chump guys nowadays. Most people just settle for mediocrity, whatever they might desire…

They also overplay the importance of looks — I am relatively handsome but I am socially retarded and despise women. Thus, I am alone!

34 minutes ago, AION said:

Personally I just do dating for myself, not for the girl. Because I think most women are not worth it. Too entitled for more than they give and too big of a body count to make sacrifices for. And if you have this attitude of doing things for yourself from a POV of already being complete, and her just being a NPC, it actually works out.

It’s like the less girls have to offer, the more entitled they are becoming… Very strange. By the way, It works out because most women are NPCs!

43 minutes ago, AION said:

It is important to not have resentment for female nature and accept them as they are. And from that acceptance, muster some love you are willing to give. Just having huge resentment and expecting women to behave and think like men is just a recipe for unhappiness. Just look at the sadness of Alexander´s face. It is a pity.

Absolutely, though it’s easier said than done…

It seems like you have quite a healthy attitude to this whole business — a good balance of cynicism and acceptance.

[AION]

51 minutes ago, Oeaohoo said:

The YouTube algorithm recommended me some of his videos recently. I think they were old videos but he seemed quite jaded even in those.

Yes... Though, in my opinion, one of the weakest Black Pill points is female hypergamy. Although it is true that women have hypergamous desires, I see a lot of cute girls with extremely mediocre chump guys nowadays. Most people just settle for mediocrity, whatever they might desire…

Female nature is more than hypergamy. They act emotional, flakey, selfish and flow is their God. You need to make peace with female nature in your own mind. Because your resentment against women is actually a resentment against female nature within your own mind. A self actualized person has owned both is masculine as his feminine nature. Otherwise they will become a very unbalanced and unpleasant person.

From what I see is that a lot of women have resentment against masculine nature.
And a lot of men have resentment against female nature.

It is actually a wonderful thing that women are so different than us. We only have resentment because we don´t understand it and not know how to use it. If you understand how to polarize and get what you want effortlessly, you will appreciate female nature, because it fits like yin and yang. And on top of that, the last thing I want as a guy, is a masculine girl.

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They also overplay the importance of looks — I am relatively handsome but I am socially retarded and despise women. Thus, I am alone!

Probably it is your resentment. They can feel your energy and just leave you alone. If you fix your vibe/energy, they will come to you. Women have this six sense and they can just sense if you have a vibe with whom they want to fuck with.

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It seems like you have quite a healthy attitude to this whole business — a good balance of cynicism and acceptance.

Thanks

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[Oeaohoo]

4 minutes ago, AION said:

You need to make peace with female nature in your own mind. Because your resentment against women is actually a resentment against female nature within yourself.

Probably it is your resentment. They can feel your energy and just leave you alone. If you fix your vibe/energy, they will come to you. Women have this six sense and they can just sense if you have a vibe with whom they want to fuck with.

Yes, of course.

”You should not go to them, let them come to you… Just like I do!”

9 minutes ago, AION said:

It is actually a wonderful thing that women are so different than us. We only have resentment because we don´t understand it and not know how to use it.

It is also because modern society is very emasculating.

[AION]

To see the contrast compare Alexander's vibe to Owen's vibe.
 

Alexander has huge resentments against female nature: get's bogged down and negative.

Owen understands and accepts female nature: and just plays with it like yin and yang

Women only give back what you give, what you have in your subconscious as beliefs.

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[Oeaohoo]

18 minutes ago, AION said:

Women have this six sense and they can just sense if you have a vibe with whom they want to fuck with.

One other point: I have always disagreed with this stupid idea that women have some magical intuition about things.

It is not a sixth sense — if anything, it is a zeroth sense. Pure instinct with no higher cognition.

Women are natural, men are supernatural. This is the key!

5 minutes ago, AION said:

Women only give back what you give, what you have in your subconscious as beliefs.

That’s a good way to put it.

[Schizophonia]

He doesn't seem like a pleasant person to be around.

[Kid A]

On 5.12.2024 at 0:39 PM, AION said:

Although I´m not black pill, I kind of understand it. I never got girls laugh at me, ridicule me, or do nasty stuff. But probably if I was a weaker looking man or more ugly, I would get the same treatment. I know a lot of below average guys just giving it up. Too many guys. And nobody is talking about it, especially women not caring about this group of men while they care about everything else and especially caring about their own interests.

I have fair share of success because I, kind of, go for 6´s and 7´s because those are easy to wrap up. But if I would aim for my own league I kind of agree that dating is more difficult than ever. I have an American friend in Europe and he says it is more difficult in EU than in the US. I´m not going into the specifics but he was very clear about it.

Gotta say I feel for northern European men who can't get results with online dating. There’s no culture for daygame here, work and studies are pretty risky, and social circle is ineffective. Nightgame is also really ineffective, especially if you’re introverted and don’t like partying. Most women seem to be out just to dance and have fun with their friends, and since most people drink and go out less than before, nightgame is increasingly becoming a thing for a certain type of person: The party-loving extrovert. It also doesn’t help that men’s social skills are so bad these days that women know that a man will most likely be a little creepy if he approaches. 

[Oeaohoo]

On 06/12/2024 at 4:50 PM, Kid A said:

Gotta say I feel for northern European men who can't get results with online dating. There’s no culture for daygame here, work and studies are pretty risky, and social circle is ineffective. Nightgame is also really ineffective, especially if you’re introverted and don’t like partying. Most women seem to be out just to dance and have fun with their friends

It’s all so sterile and sclerotic nowadays. I don’t know how anybody clings to the idea that we have been “sexually liberated”… Medieval peasants were having more sex than most people today!

On 06/12/2024 at 4:50 PM, Kid A said:

It also doesn’t help that men’s social skills are so bad these days that women know that a man will most likely be a little creepy if he approaches. 

Yes, although it’s not just social skills… There is something about modern social environments - perhaps their overstimulating, heavily surveilled and gynocentric nature - which exacerbates my autistic tendencies.

[Nilsi]

On 5.12.2024 at 1:27 PM, Oeaohoo said:

Yes... Though, in my opinion, one of the weakest Black Pill points is female hypergamy. Although it is true that women have hypergamous desires, I see a lot of cute girls with extremely mediocre chump guys nowadays. Most people just settle for mediocrity, whatever they might desire…

You’re better off reading Lacan than wasting your time on this low-IQ manosphere bullshit.

Chances are the so-called “cute girls” you mention have indeed had their encounters with the “Chad,” yet it is precisely the elusive nature of desire - forever encircling a constitutive lack - that leads them to move on, chasing men they believe will at last fill that emptiness first confronted in their experience with him. Naturally, this endeavor spirals into a perpetual merry-go-round of dating and fleeting liaisons, draining everyone involved until, in the end, they settle with a partner almost by sheer contingency rather than any true resolution of their desire.

This is also why very young women initially gravitate toward the “Chad”: they have not yet tasted the inevitable disappointment that would force them to recognize that no object can fully satisfy. Consequently, as their fantasies undergo a kind of refinement - or perversion, depending on how you frame it - they begin searching for qualities in men that stray from the simple conventional markers of desirability.

[Oeaohoo]

24 minutes ago, Nilsi said:

You’re better off reading Lacan than wasting your time on this low-IQ manosphere bullshit.

Yes, I generally avoid it, I just thought I’d see what this guy had to say…

24 minutes ago, Nilsi said:

Chances are the so-called “cute girls” you mention have indeed had their encounters with the “Chad,” yet it is precisely the elusive nature of desire - forever encircling a constitutive lack - that leads them to move on, chasing men they believe will at last fill that emptiness first confronted in their experience with him. Naturally, this endeavor spirals into a perpetual merry-go-round of dating and fleeting liaisons, draining everyone involved until, in the end, they settle with a partner almost by sheer contingency rather than any true resolution of their desire.

This is also why very young women initially gravitate toward the “Chad”: they have not yet tasted the inevitable disappointment that would force them to recognize that no object can fully satisfy. Consequently, as their fantasies undergo a kind of refinement - or perversion, depending on how you frame it - they begin searching for qualities in men that stray from the simple conventional markers of desirability.

Very interesting. I would have explained this through the Jungian frame as the girl’s Animus becoming more developed, but I prefer your explanation.

[AION]

As society develops, dating develops too. It becomes a more advanced game. In the past you only had to own a farm or some cattle and you would get you a wife that is loyal, cooks you meals and gives you some steady lewinsky. Now to get that bare minimum treatment you have to be that guy in her mind. It is Darwinism 101. You either develop or your genes end with you. I know a lot of guys that don't want to develop their game because they have this pride of being a good guy and not involving themselves in games. It is women that  create these games, if you want to reproduce you have to play the games of mating and dating. And my stance is if she is too dumb and she choses chads, you shouldn't be too concerned playing her because most don't know what is best for them and they just make choices from one emotion to another emotion.

Edited December 8 by AION

[Leo Gura]

1 hour ago, AION said:

In the past you only had to own a farm or some cattle and you would get you a wife that is loyal, cooks you meals

A fascist fantasy.

[Oeaohoo]

31 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

A fascist fantasy.

[EternalForest]

It's because, without exaggeration, men don't know the first thing about women. Women know a lot more about men than the other way around, because they're exposed to the male perspective 24/7 growing up, although that's changing a bit now. Men, on the other hand, are almost COMPLETELY ignorant to the female perspective. Until you talk to them for literally hundreds of hours in a multitude of settings (romantic, friendly, professional, etc.), their behavior will seem incomprehensible to the average man.

Anyone who tells you men and women are mostly the same is completely full of shit.

[Raze]

Alexander Grace was never a pickup coach, all his videos were always just rage bait about women 

[AION]

12 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

A fascist fantasy.

Arranged marriages are still a thing. Actually casual dating is a relatively new thing in mankind. It only became a thing after the condom and the pill. 

Edited December 9 by AION

[Oeaohoo]

5 hours ago, AION said:

Arranged marriages are still a thing. Actually casual dating is a relatively new thing in mankind. It only became a thing after the condom and the pill. 

Why don’t you just stop this disingenuous dog-whistling? Why don’t you stop gaslighting us all and admit it? We all know you’re a fascist!

Spare us your toxic and bigoted delusions. Go and spread your hateful misinformation somewhere else.

[AION]

5 minutes ago, Oeaohoo said:

Why don’t you just stop this disingenuous dog-whistling? Why don’t you stop gaslighting us all and admit it? We all know you’re a fascist!

Spare us your toxic and bigoted delusions. Go and spread your hateful misinformation somewhere else.

@Oeaohoo

calm your tits. This is just a topic on dating man. Take it easy.