My sister called me trash and a narcissist

[Buck Edwards]

My sister called me a piece of trash and a narcissist during an argument. 

How to deal with it? 

Her words have been ruining my mind. 

[Raze]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FTgrvy0IvkU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l00vX5cUaCA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cOf4rIt5V14

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qsyP80BydV4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BVqANXVTLN4

http://happinessbeyondthought.blogspot.com/2012/05/surrendering-i-letting-go-of-suffering.html

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MU1Rp184IT4

Edited December 2 by Raze

[Hojo]

Ask yourself how is that true. Being trash and narcissist is GOOD. If you don't like it then change if you don't want to change then embrace it. Being trashy or narcissist is not a real thing its just a label for a pattern of thinking. People look down on thinking patterns there's nothing wrong with thinking patterns and there is no person behind the thinking pattern just an actor. There's nothing wrong with you its just a robot moving don't identify with labels people give you they don't even know what what they are saying means.

Become logical and the problem dissapears. You can get so insanely logical you can push all the problems in the world into the infinite abyss of logic.

Narcissism is thought patterns ask your sister what she thinks that means she can point to one narcissist thought pattern you have ok you can admit you are 1 percent narcissist. Maybe she can give you 3 things you are 3 percent narcissist. You agree to stop doing the one thing to not be narcissist now you are 2 percent narcissist. Now you don't have to admit you are narcissist because you aren't narcissist, its a thought pattern not a human, and improve yourself. Now your sister did you a favour and you can still be a bit narcissist.

Edited December 2 by Hojo

[Buck Edwards]

@Hojo I think everyone is to a certain extent. However to be labeled a narcissist doesn't feel good because I know enough about narcissism and I never saw myself as one. 

 

[PenguinPablo]

Call her a psychopath back <3

Edited December 3 by PenguinPablo

[Javfly33]

On 12/2/2024 at 7:36 AM, Buck Edwards said:

My sister called me a piece of trash and a narcissist during an argument. 

How to deal with it? 

Realize is all his projection. She is unable to handle their own feelings/thoughts so she projects their own frustration to you.

On 12/2/2024 at 7:36 AM, Buck Edwards said:

Her words have been ruining my mind. 

Let me correct you @Buck Edwards Your reaction to her words have been ruining your mind.

[josemar]

41 minutes ago, Javfly33 said:

Realize is all his projection. She is unable to handle their own feelings/thoughts so she projects their own frustration to you.

Let me correct you @Buck Edwards Your reaction to her words have been ruining your mind.

Plot twist: Buck is actually a narcissist 🤯

Edited December 6 by josemar

[Ulax]

Well you can do IFS therapy on yourself. 
 

Another way is to label your feelings and then validate them ie say to yourself “I am feeling sad and that is okay”

 

In terms of dealing with your sister I suppose it depends on the context of the conversation. Though you’re probably dealing with an immature and toxic person if they are calling you trash. Reason being that immature and toxic people will tend to shame you instead of guilt you. In that they communicate something wrong with your inherent nature, ie YOU are trash. Compared with a guilting approach which insinuates something wrong with a behaviour, ie your behaviour was trash.

[WelcometoReality]

On 2024-12-02 at 7:36 AM, Buck Edwards said:

My sister called me a piece of trash and a narcissist during an argument. 

How to deal with it? 

Her words have been ruining my mind. 

That's rough. The fact that you're considering that probably means you're not a narcissist though. 

[Buck Edwards]

1 minute ago, WelcometoReality said:

That's rough. The fact that you're considering that probably means you're not a narcissist though. 

Thanks.