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18 minutes ago, AerisVahnEphelia said:

Redflag if I have to pay for them. (Answering last quote)

I try to even makes them pay things for me to see if they are green flag. 

If they won't share I won't. 

I m not your provider, only looking to be an equal partner.

I don't play over with the conservatives mindset pigs and value.

Love is love and money is just a certain thing, good if there is, less good if there is not.

And that has to be proven things can be awesome with less, forces you to be creative.

In fact money might limit you in your creative expressions.

It's very paradoxal. 

 

 

18 minutes ago, AerisVahnEphelia said:

Redflag if I have to pay for them. 

I try to even makes them pay things for me to see if they are green flag. 

If they won't share I won't. 

I m not your provider, only looking to be an equal partner.

I don't play over with the conservatives mindset pigs and value.

Love is love and money is just a certain thing, good if there is, less good if there is not.

And that has to be proven things can be awesome with less, forces you to be creative.

 

Sounds like an ego trip. You don't say that regarding the poisons you put in your body when you support those million dollar company's or anything you buy for your pleasure.

Nobody said anything about paying for anybody. Shit I can pick up a tab for anybody anytime no problem, without weighing out the pros and cons, if it's appropriate. If a guy asks me out he has to pick up the tab. I don't ask guys out. Enough said there.

No such thing as an equal partner in this respect. Feminine and masculine are not equal. Ask her to lift a 20lb weight and see if you're equal. Let her hormones kick in when she's pregnant and can't work and gets morning sickness and see if you're equal. Let her lead you and see if you're equal, let her wear a pants and a jacket with a tie and a tuxedo out to dinner with you and see if you're equal, let her speak with a crusty old masculine voice and see if you're equal. Only dusties, like I said have to test a woman financially to feel loved, to feel wanted. Masculine men don't need to feel wanted only appreciated. If she reciprocated and the feeling is mutual, then he's satisfied just for making her happy. 

A healthy woman will want to be with a man if he makes her feel wanted, feminine, loved and cared for, not if she has to prove to him that she likes him, that's not the feminine role. I'll stop here because it's obvious we're on a different page and a different mindset. No worries.

One more thing, no man has to provide for me if he's not sleeping with me or want to be in a relationship or marriage. I don't expect every man to be a provider or protector. He just has to have that mindset for me to even want to take the date any further as I'm not into casual sex and just for fun dating. Just for fun is not a date, to me that's a friendly outing where no intimacy is involved whatsoever. That's just me. No users allowed. Don't use me for your pleasure. I'm not into that. Atleast put in a little effort like you do for your purchasing of your video games.

 

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It all boils down to 1 self deception in dating,if one knows he is not the guy to conquer a woman he will use cheap manipulative tactics,when you are the guy then you dont need to use anything(of decieving or manipulating her mind) ,since every move one makes speaks volumes who he is and she decides if she wants to chase it.In this case you dont wait to replay 5 hours to a text ignoring her, but use every opportnuity to conquer her.Ofcourse if you are really busy , but one is never busy to reply to a text or short phone call positioning yourself to think about you.

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There is nothing safe with playing it safe.

 

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4 hours ago, AerisVahnEphelia said:

Loves attract loves, toxic attract toxic.

This is not always True. Even good caring loving persons can attract toxic people. 

 


My name is Sara. 

 

 

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Just now, Sandhu said:

@Buck Edwards your constantly changing profile pics distract me.

Your problem, not mine. 


My name is Sara. 

 

 

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Rule Number 1: Never listen to a woman about game.

Number 2: Balance is everything and there isn’t one truth. Socialize daily and you will increase your game significantly.

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This thread reminds me of this video xD

 


My name is Sara. 

 

 

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3 minutes ago, AerisVahnEphelia said:

Yes maybe but that's cause you let your mind be blind.

You shall reckon love.

I mean they say love us blind for a reason. When you fall in love, reason goes out the window, the mind stops working. 


My name is Sara. 

 

 

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10 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Obviously it's not needed, but that is how the psychology of desireability works.

It only works that way for those who fail to grasp the value of beauty-in-itself, and only value utility.

Not as to say that it isn't an incredibly human thing to devalue real beauty and engage in seeing everything as merely a ticket to another end. It is common.

But it is a failure to see the true value and beauty in a potential partner to only view them through this 'supply and demand' lens.


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4 hours ago, Buck Edwards said:

Your problem, not mine. 

Tell 'em. Love it. It's kinda cool. Makes me wonder what next. You know they're all kinds of stories they're making up in their heads as to why you do that. Don't you. When something is out the norm, it confuses the mind. Perfect example of how we create our problems. Can't see things for what it is but how they want it to be or think it should be. 


 

 

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1 hour ago, AerisVahnEphelia said:

Yes maybe but that's cause you let your mind be blind.

You shall reckon love.

You're not in control of what you attract.


 

 

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10 hours ago, AerisVahnEphelia said:

There is no gender role when you evolved. 

Soul to soul, beyond games. 

You sounds like one of those crazy conservatives 🥱

Dog eat dog world. Peak orange at best.

You're not evolved as you think, none of your value show high consciousness, just an acceptation of terrible value as truthful and lot of text to persuade yourself.

So I need Jesus too I guess. 

I wasn't talking of money you did. I just gave you a vibe. I don't really actively try to make her pay that was a crude exemple for you to get the vibe.

I've met 2 girls in my life that been highly high consciousness. On a extremely high range of meeting. But also I might have met more but couldn't see at those times.

But first you won't see them or attract them if you live in the dirt vibe consciousness.

Loves attract loves, toxic attract toxic.

It's all about self healing, it takes work that needs you to go out of your room.. even of your country.

 

 

Thanks. Your idea of me isn't that bad, I'll take it. High conscious is just a concept an idea. Let's see if your high consciousness concept and idea doesn't make the body appear to rot, and maggots and flies and ants don't consume it in the grave. Will those maggots be high conscious too. Maybe not. So you see, doesn't matter.

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Admittedly i did not watch it, but the "control any bitch" in the thumbnail has me verrry sus lol

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What I have learned is that nobody really knows anything and everyone is making it all up as they go, according to personal biases and desires, some innate and some conditioned.

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57 minutes ago, AerisVahnEphelia said:

No it's not. 

I assure you it's real. 

But let's say you're a genius at maths. It takes another one to reckon the genius of it most of the time.

If you tell me high consciousness is an idea then pedophilia is an idea. Which I assure you even if it's an 'idea' people will jail you or murder you over it. 

Social construct are real reality. The mind of human is a result of god logic possibility. 

It's not all mere hallucinations, divide between science and hallucinations.

Of course both are always mixed up by the mind that's why we can remain skeptic of everything but still. 

You'll admit god realm gives you logical thoughts that order you actions. Those actions might be on hallucinated axioms, still sometimes working with clouds leads to find real water. 

Now you can believe everyone is of the same intelligence, in a way correct everyone has something. 

But based on what I value and my own genius I can distinguish what appear beautiful or shitty to me. 

And that's the result of god creation. 

Maybe I hate vomit cause it smell bad, good that's very Nietzsche, still if I have to draw hallucinations to stay healthy I'll do them, I won't eat vomit, the very idea that I deny it because of my bios is fine. Still won't do it.

Something are just unhealthy, instead of believing people own religion for instance, maybe those ideas are just an expression of their body. The body is material, so it's nature.

To survive deny hallucination is just as dumb as to be in romance with some. 

Between a Christian and an atheist, agnostic, if we want to be clear they all retarded. 

But the one who express that must also be retarded in self constructing that vomit to bath himself in his own survival.

'i.m.above game'

Best trick. No you're still stupid, owning ideas is for monkey. 

All ideas, thoughts, concepts and constructs. The man in the woods and cave doesn't care about all this. No one said anything about not being jailed for an idea. If I have an idea about shouting "bomb" in an airport and I followed up on that idea, I'll be jailed too. It was still an idea. High conscious or not. Doesn't matter, still ending up in the grave or burnt to ashes. I don't see no God that said you have to be high-conscious. Matter of fact, I don't see no God that says you have to be anything, period. 

 


 

 

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7 hours ago, AerisVahnEphelia said:

@Princess Arabia I m god whatever I want or wish is God. 

If I say something is wrong it's wrong. If I say something is good it's good.

You're the world too but you chosed to deny god for nothing. 

Whatever will arise this isn't mine but the one of God. 

Where did you see where I denied God. Where in my statements did I imply that I was denying God. See, all ideas. Phht.


 

 

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