How to connect with feminine energy?

[ChrisZoZo]

11 minutes ago, Brittany said:

 

I wish in the future, we can just call this, "Yin energy" haha

 

Wow that’s crazy I just thought while reading these. Dam I wish feminine energy was obvious. Like it’s something I can see and just be like that is feminine energy and I think yin is more easy to point at and say it is. 

[ChrisZoZo]

11 minutes ago, James123 said:

Have more and more sex. The body will figure it out itself. Just let go. Then synchronization is inevitable.

But I mean is that really what you need to do. 
 

[James123]

Just now, ChrisZoZo said:

But I mean is that really what you need to do. 
 

Less talking more sex for me

[Schizophonia]

What does that mean ?

[ChrisZoZo]

7 minutes ago, James123 said:

Less talking more sex for me

Yes, what does that mean. Do you follow what rsd Tyler says but pretend to only speak Italian so then you don’t actually have to speak to pick up chicks. 
 

Also I have one nightstands sometimes it’s got a dread about it sometimes.

Edited Friday at 09:46 PM by ChrisZoZo

[WritingHands]

become a tranny

[James123]

6 hours ago, ChrisZoZo said:

Yes, what does that mean. Do you follow what rsd Tyler says but pretend to only speak Italian so then you don’t actually have to speak to pick up chicks. 
 

Also I have one nightstands sometimes it’s got a dread about it sometimes.

Make Love brother even if it is for one night. Kiss, touch, feel the girl.

Don't talk too much, be funny, kind and ready for sex. 

[theleelajoker]

I agree that sex is one way to connect. But depends in my experience very much on the how.

• What are my feelings towards this girl?
• What is our connection?
• How much is she in touch with herself? How much able to let go?
• Am I able to be gentle? Am I emotionally open? What's my current level of aggression?
• Etc. etc.

In my experience, you have sex with a girl and not really connect too much with her energy but stay in my masculine traits.

One instance where I really connected with female energy was by doing the opposite - excluding all sexual intentions.

I once visited a festival and really connected with my neighbors around my camping spot. Among my neighbors, two very nice and funny girls that were also quite attractive. At the time, I was very happy with my GF (still am) and had no intentions re any hook-up or sex. And I told them directly "hey, I have a GF, very happy with her, non-open relationship but I really like you, you want to hang out during the festival?

They agreed and the following things happened:

• 99% of the sexual tensions you (can) have between men and women disappeared. With clear intentions, interactions and communication was super easy and comfortable
• We had an incredible fun weekend. We were hanging around a lot and I could really dig into female energy. Being with them as you would be as brother and sister nobody was trying to make an impression to appear cool, attractive or similar. Everybody was very authentic
• I LEARNED A LOT about girls and their energy. What they talked about, how they talked, how they expressed themselves, behavior towards other women and men, etc. etc.
• I really learned to feel and then admire the feminine. I took mushrooms at one day, and the following hours I was just an observer in their interactions. Female energy at display - dancing, talking, laughing, caring. Desires, strengths and intention. Of course, also the moody side. The insecurities, the indecision - can't have the one without the other : )
• Simply watching and being with them was extremely enriching my personal experience back then. At the same time, I benefit from it today still when interacting with other women (GF, sister, friends, etc.)

Edited yesterday at 09:33 AM by theleelajoker

[TheSomeBody]

you have drag and ballroom and stuff like that to be connected with your feminine side and i works pretty well for me.

also getting a boyfriend hahaha , girlfriend wont help you with it, pretty much the opposite