What should i do when i am bored?

[jacknine119]

When i am alone at home sometimes i am very bored and i dont want to make anything, only to smoke, drink, masturbate my old bad habits. How can i stop this.?

Edited November 12 by jacknine119

[Sugarcoat]

1 minute ago, jacknine119 said:

i dont want to make anything only to remember some bad habits.

What does this mean?

[Rigel]

Do the exact same thing you would do if you weren’t bored.

[jacknine119]

@Sugarcoat i edited 

[jacknine119]

@Sugarcoat I meant backlash

[Sugarcoat]

I think it might be easier to replace old habits with new ones instead of simply stopping old habits. Start smaller and increase steadily. Sit down and think and perhaps write down what you wanna do with your life, what habits you want to install to replace the old ones. You don’t have to quit the old habits cold turkey, you could just decrease them steadily as you replace them with new habits. Meditation for example could help put you in a clearer state from which it’s easier to deal with urges

[NoSelfSelf]

How can you be bored when there is always something to conquer.

You are bored because you are boring, this is not to put you down its a hard truth that i also had to digest.

[Sugarcoat]

23 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

 

How can you be bored when there is always something to conquer.

 

I never understood boredom either. Pretty much never felt it

[Schizophonia]

59 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

How can you be bored when there is always something to conquer.

You are bored because you are boring, this is not to put you down its a hard truth that i also had to digest.

35 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

I never understood boredom either. Pretty much never felt it

I'm bored most of the time unless i have almost megalomaniac level projects.

 

Psychedelics reduce this threshold for a few hours but it comes back to normal.

My parents are even worst, my father is a workaholic business owner who works all the time and my mother is hyperactive, when we go on tours to pretend to be normal humans we are faster than everyone else, we laugh and call others "suckers" lol.

 

 

Edited November 12 by Schizophonia

[Sugarcoat]

2 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

I'm bored most of the time unless i have almost megalomaniac level projects.

 

Psychedelics reduce this threshold for a few hours but it comes back to normal.

My parents are even worst, my father is a workaholic business owner who works all the time and my mother is hyperactive, when we go on tours to pretend to be normal humans we are faster than everyone else, we laugh and call others "suckers" lol.

 

 

I cant be bored because I enjoy my own mind (when I’m more connected to myself and can even hear my thoughts). I’m guessing you and the average person is more outwardly focused so affected by outside circumstance so you derive joy from outward circumstances which is totally normal so you’re bored when something interesting isn’t happening externally that you can involve your mind in

[NoSelfSelf]

1 hour ago, Sugarcoat said:

I never understood boredom either. Pretty much never felt it

That's a sign of rich inner world,im never bored by myself only when im bored is with people, then i have to ask myself am i boring or they are boring 😁

26 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

I'm bored most of the time unless i have almost megalomaniac level projects.

 

Psychedelics reduce this threshold for a few hours but it comes back to normal.

My parents are even worst, my father is a workaholic business owner who works all the time and my mother is hyperactive, when we go on tours to pretend to be normal humans we are faster than everyone else, we laugh and call others "suckers" lol.

 

 

There is a saying if you are bored you are in bad company, become your friend, because at the end of the day you only have yourself.

Edited November 12 by NoSelfSelf

[Sugarcoat]

15 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

That's a sign of rich inner world,im never bored by myself only when im bored is with people, then i have to ask myself am i boring or they are boring 😁

41 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Yea that’s kind of what I wrote about in another reply. 
 

My guess is that they are the boring ones…

[Javfly33]

58 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

when we go on tours to pretend to be normal humans we are faster than everyone else, we laugh and call others "suckers" lol.

😂

[NoSelfSelf]

18 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Yea that’s kind of what I wrote about in another reply. 
 

My guess is that they are the boring ones…

I promise i wasnt copying the answer

Well im only stimulated by talk that will improve my passions or lead to some mindbending insights,just cant talk to talk about everday life if its not experience im going through.

[Schizophonia]

1 hour ago, Sugarcoat said:

I cant be bored because I enjoy my own mind (when I’m more connected to myself and can even hear my thoughts). I’m guessing you and the average person is more outwardly focused so affected by outside circumstance so you derive joy from outward circumstances which is totally normal so you’re bored when something interesting isn’t happening externally that you can involve your mind in

I pass a huge amount of time of thinking to random subject (otherwise i wouldn't have been insomniac and expert in everything lol) and i can daydream in general, but it's never close to what you can feel by being present and implied in a concrete stuff, in "real life".

So ok it's an escape from boredom, but in fine it maintains you in an alternative blunt world.

[LoseYourvelf]

2 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

I pass a huge amount of time of thinking to random subject (otherwise i wouldn't have been insomniac and expert in everything lol) and i can daydream in general, but it's never close to what you can feel by being present and implied in a concrete stuff, in "real life".

So ok it's an escape from boredom, but in fine it maintains you in an alternative blunt world.

Dude................ what!??!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!

[LoseYourvelf]

Boredom is the greatest trouble to mankind.

 

Do funs things or a benign hobby/talent u could develop.

 

If it's all below you, this. There are many tantric ways to indulge experience itself. Psychedelics, go out in nature, curate things, collect things, build small things into collections or big things. Etc Etc.

 

What im guessing actually tho is u have something u want to do and integrate in desire

 

Just do that in some sense per what u feel u want to and then go back to the tantric stuff

Edited November 12 by LoseYourvelf

[Schizophonia]

45 minutes ago, Javfly33 said:

😂

Supposed duration of the museum visit : 1h.

Us : Visit the museum in 10mn just for doing instagram videos and making fun of people + mom who asking me which chicks are the hottest 😂

[Schizophonia]

5 minutes ago, LoseYourvelf said:

Dude................ what!??!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!

Which part poses a problem ?

[Sugarcoat]

59 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

I promise i wasnt copying the answer

Well im only stimulated by talk that will improve my passions or lead to some mindbending insights,just cant talk to talk about everday life if its not experience im going through.

I didn’t mean you were

 

I like it too when I can talk filter less so that includes being able to talk about deeper things 

Edited November 12 by Sugarcoat