Leo and people of actualized.org what can be considered success with women.

[Tenebroso]

8 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

You can only put your penis into one vagina at a time. Can only have one orgasm at a time and feel one emotion at a time. Where is the level of abundance in sleeping with 400 women. That's not confidence that's the lack of it. True abundance doesn't come in numbers. It's a mindset. Only someone with a lack mindset sees the need to sleep with multiple women at a time. (Not a judgement, not saying it's wrong or right) merely showing you what true abundance is. 

It's because he feels a sense of lack that drives this energy to desire these things. When it's done, he will feel even more lacking, trust me. It's only appealing to you because it satisfies your feelings of lack. Someone who feels abundant with women doesn't have these cravings because they are confident enough to know they can get one at any time.

So he sleeps with that many women because of a sense of lack but why do so many women want to sleep with that one guy? He must have something that women want? If what you say is true, shouldn't women be less attracted to him, men are told that women can sense their desperation and insecurity.

Imagine that you are probably right and he will say one day....."I did all these things because of lack and insecurity" or whatever. At least he is speaking from the perspective of experience not theory. It's like a billionaire telling everyone that money is not important, were they saying that when they were young and broke? The average person can't honestly believe that.

How can you truly have a mature perspective on abundance and lack if you have never actually managed to experience your desire.

[Princess Arabia]

34 minutes ago, Tenebroso said:

So he sleeps with that many women because of a sense of lack but why do so many women want to sleep with that one guy? He must have something that women want? If what you say is true, shouldn't women be less attracted to him, men are told that women can sense their desperation and insecurity.

Imagine that you are probably right and he will say one day....."I did all these things because of lack and insecurity" or whatever. At least he is speaking from the perspective of experience not theory. It's like a billionaire telling everyone that money is not important, were they saying that when they were young and broke? The average person can't honestly believe that.

How can you truly have a mature perspective on abundance and lack if you have never actually managed to experience your desire.

This is exactly what is happening in the "unconscious" "unawakened" mind. It believes what it's telling itself. You brought up some interesting points here. Notice I didn't use the words desperate and insecure. They are descriptive words that describe another way of being. Those traits doesn't attract they repel. One can attract while still in a lack mindset. They can attract more situations and circumstances that will make them feel more lack. There is really only abundance in the Universe e.g an abundance of lack, or an abundance of scarcity mindset etc. 

I'm not saying he recognizes this yet or ever will. He might stay miserable inside for the rest of his life. The billionaire might not have known when he was poor that he would still be miserable and unhappy being rich. You're right, we don't know until we experience these contrasts. 

You said something in essence to how what it feels like to have this level of confidence and abundance and I was responding and telling how that deep down this is not really the case only appears to be. Then us as onlookers develop a sense of lack ourselves when we see these things and do the comparison thing while being ignorant to what abundance really is and now feelings of depression and sadness kicks in. This is how we create our own demise.

Those women are just props in his world to reflect back to him what's really going on but he's not conscious enough to read between the lines and neither are you. You see it as abundance and confidence when it's really only his reflection reflecting back his sense of lack. Lacking in love and attention and self worth. This is why I say pay no attention to the outside world, see it as a mirage and just go with the flow. Pay attention to your own thoughts and feelings and put your awareness on things you'd like to experience but not on the lack of it. He's feeling good in the moment but when itls all done he feels worse than he did before it started. That's polarity at play and how the body responds to outside stimuli. That's why there's gambling addiction or any addiction. Hit the jackpot feel good, that feels good till it wears off and now you want some more and the cycle begins and spirals into depression and feelings of suicide. It's the same high/low kind of polarity at play. Nothing stable within. The ocean keeps stirring up. No peace.

 

Edited November 10 by Princess Arabia

[Tenebroso]

30 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

This is exactly what is happening in the "unconscious" "unawakened" mind. It believes what it's telling itself. You brought up some interesting points here. Notice I didn't use the words desperate and insecure. They are descriptive words that describe another way of being. Those traits doesn't attract they repel. One can attract while still in a lack mindset. They can attract more situations and circumstances that will make them feel more lack. There is really only abundance in the Universe e.g an abundance of lack, or an abundance of scarcity mindset etc. 

I'm not saying he recognizes this yet or ever will. He might stay miserable inside for the rest of his life. The billionaire might not have known when he was poor that he would still be miserable and unhappy being rich. You're right, we don't know until we experience these contrasts. 

You said something in essence to how what it feels like to have this level of confidence and abundance and I was responding and telling how that deep down this is not really the case only appears to be. Then us as onlookers develop a sense of lack ourselves when we see these things and do the comparison thing while being ignorant to what abundance really is and now feelings of depression and sadness kicks in. This is how we create our own demise.

Those women are just props in his world to reflect back to him what's really going on but he's not conscious enough to read between the lines and neither are you. You see it as abundance and confidence when it's really only his reflection reflecting back his sense of lack. Lacking in love and attention and self worth. This is why I say pay no attention to the outside world, see it as a mirage and just go with the flow. Pay attention to your own thoughts and feelings and put your awareness on things you'd like to experience but not on the lack of it. 

 

Well the universe works in mysterious ways. My own personal sense of lack results in zero women and this politician's lack results in a wife, six children and 400 mistresses. If the 400 women and a wife are just props reflecting back to him what is going on inside, what is having zero women reflecting inside of me?

[Princess Arabia]

2 minutes ago, Tenebroso said:

Well the universe works in mysterious ways. My own personal sense of lack results in zero women and this politician's lack results in a wife, six children and 400 mistresses. If the 400 women and a wife are just props reflecting back to him what is going on inside, what is having zero women reflecting inside of me?

Can you share that video with me please. Would really love to see it.

[Tenebroso]

11 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Can you share that video with me please. Would really love to see it.

Are we allowed to share that kind of content here?

[Princess Arabia]

3 minutes ago, Tenebroso said:

Are we allowed to share that kind of content here?

I'm not sure what it is, is it porn, no. I don't want to see any porn. Is it just a regular documentary type video with no nudity, then yes. Share it in my pm if you're not sure. It's not that important so don't even worry about it.

Edited November 10 by Princess Arabia

[Tenebroso]

7 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

I'm not sure what it is, is it porn, no. I don't want to see any porn. Is it just a regular documentary type video with no nudity, then yes. Share it in my pm if you're not sure. It's not that important so don't even worry about it.

I can't post it. It's literally files of explicit clips of this one politician having sex with 400+ women being shared around the internet. It's made it's way to mainstream news, who knows maybe a documentary will be made. Google the name Baltasar Ebang Engonga.

[Princess Arabia]

10 minutes ago, Tenebroso said:

I can't post it. It's literally files of explicit clips of this one politician having sex with 400+ women being shared around the internet. It's made it's way to mainstream news, who knows maybe a documentary will be made. Google the name Baltasar Ebang Engonga.

Ok

[Princess Arabia]

31 minutes ago, Tenebroso said:

I can't post it. It's literally files of explicit clips of this one politician having sex with 400+ women being shared around the internet. It's made it's way to mainstream news, who knows maybe a documentary will be made. Google the name Baltasar Ebang Engonga.

The reports say 400 videos not 400 mistresses. That solved my curiousity. Was wondering how can someone have 400 mistresses.

This is what you're comparing yourself to. No wonder you don't have any women in your life, you're too busy watching cartoons. 😅😅Go out in the real world and experience real-life women and put yourself out there. This is a joke. It's a scandal. Who cares.

Edited November 10 by Princess Arabia