How can I become socially stronger?

[LifeEnjoyer]

3 hours ago, Aaron p said:

Taking up the path is highly effective for social strength. If your looking for confidence just go into a few other dimensions and you'll automatically get very strong in all areas of life

No self is the greatest social anxiety hack.

[1337]

edit after months:

i realized that i dont belong where i am. this is the problem. i dont share same values with people i met irl. we dont consume same materials. we laugh different things.

i always blamed myself for being asocial but this is all about conditions.

it is a dead end.

i need to go abroad asap

i mean when i finish my university i will use my passport to get a touristic visa. when i enter an european country i will make a aslyum request and i will burn my return plane ticket.

this can be include some limiting beliefs but i cant see any way to fix this shit. when i look my around i feel that i dont belong here.

i think i need do be more mature. you know in a good way.

 

Edited February 2 by 1337

[1337]

@LifeEnjoyer 

what did you mean by "no self"

is it a teaching of buddhism or did you mean another thing?

Edited February 2 by 1337
grammar fix

[Yimpa]

Paradoxically, you become socially stronger by having a strong sense of self. 

Characteristics, include (but are not limited by):

• Having clear personal boundaries
   
• Understanding one's values and principles
   
• Being able to maintain one's identity in relationships
   
• Having emotional stability and resilience
  

Edited February 2 by Yimpa

[LifeEnjoyer]

1 hour ago, Yimpa said:

Paradoxically, you become socially stronger by having a strong sense of self. 

Characteristics, include (but are not limited by):

• Having clear personal boundaries
   
• Understanding one's values and principles
   
• Being able to maintain one's identity in relationships
   
• Having emotional stability and resilience

@1337