Authentic Gradual Growth In Life And Self-actualization Work

[jakub_friso]

Leo, I know you stressed multiple of times this concept of gradual growth in self-development/actualization (from low consciousness to higher, from shallow and lies ultimately to Truth), but I think it deserves a separate video since I discovered I had to drive to this crucial insight and concept by glueing together information from multiple videos + my deep study of Spiral Dynamics (not only from your content).

I think this should be an opening concept for everybody about to enter realms of self-development and even life, that first and foremost you need to be VERY honest (or rather congruent) with yourself...

Because where I seen myself hugely fail, where I see other people fail and where I see sometimes people who have no idea about self-development and still have a fulfilling life excel (like successful people - maybe on a shallow, first sight level, maybe only in certain areas of life) - is not necessarily an honesty, but huge CONGRUENCY to what they do in and with their lives. And that later applies to their motivation, their productivity (results) and so on...

In life and in this work - there exist a reality where you went too deep down the rabbit hole and you suddenly may know too much for your own good. That's why real master would let a young schmuck who he took under his wing - let rather experience and live through all the sometimes stupid, shallow and dead-end stuff and guide him JUST when he truly needed and wanted, give him JUST the information for his situation to move on. And at the end, slowly but certainly move him towards wanting the Truth, the enlightenment, the detachment, the purpose and so on...                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            To not went too far and to drive my point to an end. I would like you to cover this concept in a separate video and mark its huge significance (I assume huge significance, it was at least for me) I would love to hear your opinion and full (deeper) coverage on this to help people like me which I assume are many of them. People who just suddenly weren't prepared to hear all the information and now - rather than living life, acting on it and so on... rather don't even move out of their lair and move a limb because they are afraid that they are doing the - egotistical, shallow, low consciousness stuff and whatever labels they may give.

And it may be that way, yes the need to have a better self-esteem, yes the need some success, yes they need some sex, yes they are young and do all that stupid stuff that goes with it... But on the other side, certain things don't have to be lived through {you don't have to reinvent the wheel) - and you can correct much behaviour and thinking just with the right mindset, idea, concept...

What are your thoughts on this concept of gradual growth where through certain stuff you just have to "live through" and get done (like for example relationships, finances, maybe some success for self-esteem)  and certain things can be corrected on the way with the right information (that later can be very contradictory)?

I hope I have explained myself at least a little bit clearly, I hope you know what I'm talking about (since you already covered it here and there) and I hope you correct, help me and many others on this issue - hope you explain it in a much better and accurate manner.

Thank you.