How is it to be an average person?

[Sugarcoat]

9 minutes ago, Kksd74628 said:

@Sugarcoat

Also "I think (fill the blank) is okay too" is a thought that makes you stay at your place. When you only start to accept the best behaviour and the most proud version of yourself you start to change your life radically. Of course you can keep doing what you've done in the past, but don't expect any crazy results in character growth and in life. Have a little curiosity that what I say here. It might be the missing piece in your life and you've been searching for.

I give you example of my personal life. I've been grinding to get an awesome body and me stopping the grind is not okay. Why would I accept nothing, but things I'd be radically proud of. I know what my potentiality can reach at least now and I'll keep unboxing that potentiality the more I keep it up so why would it be okay to be that exact "average" that we've been discussing here on the thread. 

Now you start to see it finally that I am not here trying to make people mad or anything, but my message is so powerful and it comes from my soul and from things that I stand behind that it can sound harsh and that's what it also is. I know I can reach far in life and I am not exception to the rule, but my mindset is exceptional, because I've designed it like that. I see how easily we can bend mind to be the shape needed so that's why it makes me feel bad hearing people keeping themselves stuck when that is not necessary.

Ask me more of this attitude shift, I'd love to elaborate.

That’s great you seem to be doing good. I see what you’re saying and you have a point. Regardless of how I feel I try to keep doing normal things. For example ive also been working on my body recently and I take care of my nutrition. I try to have a positive mindset despite what I’m going through. But I can be very negative too and have suicidal thoughts.

Edited October 29 by Sugarcoat

[UnbornTao]

@Sugarcoat Might be made up.

[Sugarcoat]

1 hour ago, UnbornTao said:

@Sugarcoat Might be made up.

I’m familiar with people thinking along those lines at this point and it’s fine to me. I just don’t wanna go through this anymore that’s my only concern

Edited October 30 by Sugarcoat

[UnbornTao]

2 hours ago, Sugarcoat said:

I’m familiar with people thinking along those lines at this point and it’s fine to me. I just don’t wanna go through this anymore that’s my only concern

Well, consider that your role in this situation might be more significant than you realize.

[Sugarcoat]

38 minutes ago, UnbornTao said:

Well, consider that your role in this situation might be more significant than you realize.

you have made thoughtful responses. I still stand by my claim though that I don’t have a role in it, despite how crazy or close minded it might sound . But I still try my best to deal with it regardless. 

Edited October 30 by Sugarcoat

[Lyubov]

Everyone thinks they are special or at least wishes to protect themselves from judgement and criticism. I would look towards embracing your own uniqueness and also recognizing every person is unique as well. Inherent spiritual value, everyone has. Labeling people as average flattens everything unique about them into one word and limits you from having an open mind and potentially learning something from them in conversation or observation. I would take a wider perspective. Average in what? We all share many of the same qualities. I wouldn’t put myself or other people on a value scale and call them average. It removes me from god consciousness by creating separation. 

[Sugarcoat]

45 minutes ago, Lyubov said:

Everyone thinks they are special or at least wishes to protect themselves from judgement and criticism. I would look towards embracing your own uniqueness and also recognizing every person is unique as well. Inherent spiritual value, everyone has. Labeling people as average flattens everything unique about them into one word and limits you from having an open mind and potentially learning something from them in conversation or observation. I would take a wider perspective. Average in what? We all share many of the same qualities. I wouldn’t put myself or other people on a value scale and call them average. It removes me from god consciousness by creating separation. 

i can see your point. I still think there is such a thing as the average person, somehow. I think we can get the impression of someone being average while at the same time remaining open to change that upon knowing the person better. I haven’t written about all of my experiences here but if I did you’d understand that I’m not average (not in a good way), so you’d see where I’m coming from with this post. Once again it’s not important for me to know this, but it’s something that is sometimes on my mind, how the average experience is. I used the term average as a general thing. 

[Fountainbleu]

On 10/25/2024 at 0:11 PM, Keryo Koffa said:

They act as if on impulse, feeling instinctively what to say, where to go, without a second thought

what's the difference with that and acting on your intuition, following your highest excitement moment to moment? That's what it sounds like you're describing, to me. 

Edited October 30 by Fountainbleu

[Buck Edwards]

@Sugarcoat I don't know what you exactly mean by average. It might help If you enlist some traits of what you would consider normal. Of course normal is very subjective. One person's normal is another person's disorder. 

[Sugarcoat]

7 hours ago, Buck Edwards said:

@Sugarcoat I don't know what you exactly mean by average. It might help If you enlist some traits of what you would consider normal. Of course normal is very subjective. One person's normal is another person's disorder. 

I see your point