How is it to be an average person?

[UnbornTao]

@Sugarcoat Maybe that sense is not what you think it is. Consider you might be generating or at the very least contributing to it. Sit in a room for an hour and observe your mind activity. 

What do you presume has to be connected, and to what? What do you mean by space in your sentence above? These expectations sound artificial.

[Sugarcoat]

8 hours ago, UnbornTao said:

@Sugarcoat Maybe that sense is not what you think it is. Consider you might be generating or at the very least contributing to it. Sit in a room for an hour and observe your mind activity. 

What do you presume has to be connected, and to what? What do you mean by space in your sentence above? These expectations sound artificial.

I tend to sometimes close my eyes and observe my mental activity. I can see how you’d suggest doing that for longer. I wouldn’t say I’m contributing to it but I’d have to write much more to explain that so I’ll leave it for now. Have already written about it don’t wanna spam the forum with it. 

Connected vs disconnected might not be the best terms to describe this. But what I mean is that I feel disconnected from my mental processes (this is also the how depersonalization is described on Wikipedia) so it’s like my thoughts are somewhat quiet, there is quite a bit of space between them as in time between each thought, and my thoughts aren’t coherent so they’re more random “bursts” rather than following a line of thought. As if they’re “far away” from me. A “connected” “normal” state id assume is with louder more clear thoughts, that follow a line of thought rather than mostly being just random “bursts”. As if the thoughts are “closer” to the person. Don’t know if I’m making sense

[Kksd74628]

@Sugarcoat

Don't think average is a "middle" rank, but think it as unexceptional sheep who follows. You either are it or not. People who cope being losers with an argument of having mental illnesses are stupid. That mindset doesn't build anything so get rid of it.

If with broken knee David Goggins can run millions of miles how with "broken" mind you couldn't reach extraordinary life.

[Sugarcoat]

6 minutes ago, Kksd74628 said:

@Sugarcoat

Don't think average is a "middle" rank, but think it as unexceptional sheep who follows. You either are it or not. People who cope being losers with an argument of having mental illnesses are stupid. That mindset doesn't build anything so get rid of it.

If with broken knee David Goggins can run millions of miles how with "broken" mind you couldn't reach extraordinary life.

So much easier said than done. 

[Ash55]

On 10/26/2024 at 7:23 PM, Keryo Koffa said:

Thread Summary:

I get whatcha sayin':                  

Nobody is Normal:                  + 

What is Normal?:                       + 

Average=Ordinary=Sucks:        +   

Normal is Government Propaganda:    
                                |                                         
                                |                                         
                               "I wonder what it's like to be normal"                                      
                             /       \    
                           /            \
    "Gotcha"                  "This doesn't make sense"
                   /   |    \              |                                    
                /      |       \           |                                     
          -- Same --    There is no Aver-age
           |          |                 |                               
I t's Relative    \                -----------------  --------  --------   -- It's about Genius --

          -------|----        "Rotten Non-spirituals"  ----|---  "Think you're special, huh?"

 "What do | you mean by normal?"                         Normal's a government conspiracy

@Keryo Koffa LOOL How do you do these ?
 

[Ash55]

@Sugarcoat Am curious to know does society see you weird ? do you feel up normal, are you the creative type ? 
do you preserve reality totally different than people around you, i really thought when i was child that people are like me and then realized that my mind is radically different to anyone i met basically and how people lived in radically different reality then me

am really curious to know how your personal experience is like epically you are in a very developed country, in your family in your  school, in your work life

[Kksd74628]

@Sugarcoat

What you think you win by that comment. Do you think you somehow get extra credit by preaching your life being hard. Every one of us existence is hard, but some play the best they can and some complain 'bout the square they are in. Nothing worth pursuing in life anyways isn't easy, I'm not saying that. I am just completely disgusted and can't stand people inhaling copium all day long. Or do you think I am completely wrong or what?

[Sugarcoat]

54 minutes ago, Ash55 said:

@Sugarcoat Am curious to know does society see you weird ? do you feel up normal, are you the creative type ? 
do you preserve reality totally different than people around you, i really thought when i was child that people are like me and then realized that my mind is radically different to anyone i met basically and how people lived in radically different reality then me

am really curious to know how your personal experience is like epically you are in a very developed country, in your family in your  school, in your work life

My family who knows me thinks I’m weird yes. But I act normal outwardly to strangers and acquaintances. I’m not normal but not the creative type. 
 

My experience is quite dull. I barely feel I exist most of the time

[Sugarcoat]

41 minutes ago, Kksd74628 said:

@Sugarcoat

What you think you win by that comment. Do you think you somehow get extra credit by preaching your life being hard. Every one of us existence is hard, but some play the best they can and some complain 'bout the square they are in. Nothing worth pursuing in life anyways isn't easy, I'm not saying that. I am just completely disgusted and can't stand people inhaling copium all day long. Or do you think I am completely wrong or what?

you have a point. I can be a bit negative sometimes though which I think is okay too. 

[Ash55]

27 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

My family who knows me thinks I’m weird

My family doesn't know me problem solved lol

 

28 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

I’m not normal but not the creative type. 
 

What exactly makes you think you are not normal i think am normal but differently uniquely me

 

 

31 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

My experience is quite dull. I barely feel I exist most of the time

can you elaborate, ever been drunk is it similar ?  do you feel pain some people dont feel a lots of pain

[Ash55]

43 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

My experience is quite dull. I barely feel I exist most of the time

You dont experience highs and lows ?
do you feel a lots of emotions or no emotions ?

[Sugarcoat]

16 minutes ago, Ash55 said:

What exactly makes you think you are not normal i think am normal but differently uniquely me

I have written why before I won’t do it here again

[Sugarcoat]

18 minutes ago, Ash55 said:

can you elaborate, ever been drunk is it similar ?  do you feel pain some people dont feel a lots of pain

Being drunk doesn’t do much difference to me. Not I’m not in pain luckily 

[Sugarcoat]

9 minutes ago, Ash55 said:

You dont experience highs and lows ?
do you feel a lots of emotions or no emotions ?

Not really highs and lows I’m the same pretty much all the time. No emotions

[Ash55]

1 hour ago, Sugarcoat said:

Not I’m not in pain luckily 

Glad to hear that, you seem kinda normal tbh
 

1 hour ago, Sugarcoat said:

Not really highs and lows I’m the same pretty much all the time. No emotions

That sounds amazing, i always try not to be in both extreme, that makes me more in control of my life, But i struggle a lot with emotional roller caster
sometime on top of the world other time in deep pain, being not very emotional is very good for productivity too lol, sometime having things like that is a superpower

 

 

1 hour ago, Sugarcoat said:

I have written why before I won’t do it here again

oki doki,
i probably only have very partial perspective but there is nothing weird about you

 

[numbersinarow]

Slowly I realize I'm above normies, so I don't care to wonder.

[Sugarcoat]

36 minutes ago, Ash55 said:

Glad to hear that, you seem kinda normal tbh

Thanks

[Kksd74628]

@Sugarcoat

Also "I think (fill the blank) is okay too" is a thought that makes you stay at your place. When you only start to accept the best behaviour and the most proud version of yourself you start to change your life radically. Of course you can keep doing what you've done in the past, but don't expect any crazy results in character growth and in life. Have a little curiosity that what I say here. It might be the missing piece in your life and you've been searching for.

I give you example of my personal life. I've been grinding to get an awesome body and me stopping the grind is not okay. Why would I accept nothing, but things I'd be radically proud of. I know what my potentiality can reach at least now and I'll keep unboxing that potentiality the more I keep it up so why would it be okay to be that exact "average" that we've been discussing here on the thread. 

Now you start to see it finally that I am not here trying to make people mad or anything, but my message is so powerful and it comes from my soul and from things that I stand behind that it can sound harsh and that's what it also is. I know I can reach far in life and I am not exception to the rule, but my mindset is exceptional, because I've designed it like that. I see how easily we can bend mind to be the shape needed so that's why it makes me feel bad hearing people keeping themselves stuck when that is not necessary.

Ask me more of this attitude shift, I'd love to elaborate.

[Sugarcoat]

36 minutes ago, Ash55 said:

That sounds amazing, i always try not to be in both extreme, that makes me more in control of my life, But i struggle a lot with emotional roller caster
sometime on top of the world other time in deep pain, being not very emotional is very good for productivity too lol, sometime having things like that is a superpower

I would like to have more highs and lows instead of being pretty much the same all the time. What you have sounds more normal. 

[Sugarcoat]

38 minutes ago, Ash55 said:

oki doki,
i probably only have very partial perspective but there is nothing weird about you

Thanks once again. You too