Today my phone called a dead friend

[James123]

12 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Nothing need be said. My post was a bit of an exaggeration, but still, life is amazing, but weird.

Definetely, and tough too. But, we will all so called die anway. Therefore, I just do not give a fuck. Just dance and smile, just fucking dance and smile  Thats all. 

[Buck Edwards]

Strange coincidence friend. 

[Princess Arabia]

4 hours ago, James123 said:

Therefore, I just do not give a fuck

I guess you read the book "The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A Fuck", by Mark Manson. I didn't, but I've heard about it.

[James123]

11 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

I guess you read the book "The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A Fuck", by Mark Manson. I didn't, but I've heard about it.

No I haven't. I just listen music.  LoL.

[Princess Arabia]

20 minutes ago, James123 said:

No I haven't. I just listen music.  LoL.

You didn't need the book to realize not giving a fuck is the way to go because you wrote it. Hehe.

[PurpleTree]

32 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

I guess you read the book "The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A Fuck", by Mark Manson. I didn't, but I've heard about it.

I read it but it didn’t really help.

What seems to help abit more is "seeing through the egoic structure” and seeing that there is actually nobody to give an f about.

[Princess Arabia]

2 minutes ago, PurpleTree said:

I read it but it didn’t really help.

What seems to help abit more is "seeing through the egoic structure” and seeing that there is actually nobody to give an f about.

Nice. Not much out there that hits to the core and most self help books just keeps you trapped into the illusion and the egoic mind identity. 

[PurpleTree]

3 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Nice. Not much out there that hits to the core and most self help books just keeps you trapped into the illusion and the egoic mind identity. 

I wonder though. Because there seemingly are many things tied to this separate self and story. Like some childhood trauma, anxious attachment, maybe bpd etc whatever it’s just a story but i wonder how many of that may or may not drop away.

[Princess Arabia]

1 minute ago, PurpleTree said:

I wonder though. Because there seemingly are many things tied to this separate self and story. Like some childhood trauma, anxious attachment, maybe bpd etc whatever it’s just a story but i wonder how many of that may or may not drop away.

The separate self sees other. The separate self sees itself in relation to other. Everything is about me, me, me. It can't help it. It claims everything to be his. It's automatic. Until it realizes it never existed. So trauma and bpd etc is being remembered and claimed but it's a separate kind of energy belonging to no one but the individual doesn't realize this. I don't want to offend anyone so I won't say much on that but that's why and the reason why I'm explaining it to you like this in the open is because I'm aware you have been exposed to some things where you can understand what I'm saying without getting offended that I'm minimizing people's apparent traumas.

[Princess Arabia]

9 minutes ago, PurpleTree said:

I wonder though. Because there seemingly are many things tied to this separate self and story. Like some childhood trauma, anxious attachment, maybe bpd etc whatever it’s just a story but i wonder how many of that may or may not drop away.

My life, my story, my trauma, my experience, my sadness etc...it's a felt experience and seems real and what's actually happening to the individual. It's not really happening to anyone but the feeling sense is so strong and the sense that I am that is believed in that it's hard to not see it as yours. That's the illusory nature of existence and what makes for a world to be possible. 

[PurpleTree]

10 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

My life, my story, my trauma, my experience, my sadness etc...it's a felt experience and seems real and what's actually happening to the individual. It's not really happening to anyone but the feeling sense is so strong and the sense that I am that is believed in that it's hard to not see it as yours. That's the illusory nature of existence and what makes for a world to be possible. 

Yea also seemingly the idea of this has to drop away or that aspect has to heal or this part i want to keep is also part of the egoic structure.  In the end there’s nobody who could really let go of anything or heal anything because there’s seemingly nobody already. 

[ChrisZoZo]

12 hours ago, PurpleTree said:

I know nothing. Here i admitted it. Thanks for showing me the light.

But you have a metaphysical belief that being sceptical is being material. When it could be the other way around. 
 

You see it relies on the physical scientific paradigm. You don’t know if that paradigm is any more true than the spirit world paradigm.

So don’t say you know nothing right after proving that you claim to know something. Granted, I get this is a very difficult trap to avoid. But now I’ve shown you light on this maybe you can change. 😁