Desire / Hate relationships between men and women.

[Princess Arabia]

11 hours ago, Tenebroso said:

"Or are you saying women that you don't know but desire should want you to desire them"

No, I'm not saying that. Women don't go around just wanting some strange man to desire them. 

[Princess Arabia]

11 hours ago, Tenebroso said:

However, if I find someone attractive am I meant to hide it??

How else are you going to get a woman. Hide it if its your neighbors wife, or the 13 yr old up the street or the woman locked arm in arm with her bf, or your aunt, why are you hiding it if its a regular woman you see. You just need to know how to express that attraction. Saying hi, is a start. Asking her name is another. Not, I desire you what do you think about that. I feel like these things are standard behavior, not sure why there's even a discussion about it to grown people. You see, you like, you say hi if its appropriate. 

Edited October 22 by Princess Arabia

[Tenebroso]

@Princess Arabia Your right, maybe I am overthinking and confusing myself, I sense your impatience with me.

[Princess Arabia]

17 minutes ago, Tenebroso said:

@Princess Arabia Your right, maybe I am overthinking and confusing myself, I sense your impatience with me.

Lol. Javfly's video is just his stance on things. Learn to trust your own, minus all the mind's judgements and what you see on social media. I don't think his is a healthy approach. It sounds good and all to the naked ears, but there are circumstances and experiences that call for different approaches. Can't just label everything into a box and say this is how it should be done in the dating and relationship category. Certain things are sometimes standard, yes, but that's where discernment and common sense comes in. You don't need to be told how to see a woman. That comes automatically by the seer. Sounds good to say don't treat her like an object, but what does that even mean. Of course she's already a person, why do we need to see people how they already are, that's redundant. So you see, it all sounds good and all, but the human psyche is very complex and a lot of things are in relation to and depends. It's not really complicated, what's complicated is after all the initial stages have been accomplished and the quest to keep it going starts. 

[Schizophonia]

19 hours ago, Tenebroso said:

So our desires as males are wrong and unwanted. It feels like women regard male desire as a burden.

You maintain your persona with, as a prove, what says a random on a forum.

In my world women love "male desire", and this desire comes with love, that's why i've suggested what op has said makes no sense.

Edited October 22 by Schizophonia