There is a blue ocean for helping young men become more conscious

[Lyubov]

Think about it! There is huge untapped potential for teaching spirituality and healthy inner work models to young men ages 16-30. There is a huge blue ocean for potential. There are very few communities like Actualized, which from my POV is a spirituality and self improvement group largely for young men, and I believe there is more potential now than ever to help young men in the english speaking world widen their perspective. In a way young men have really been let down in the west when it comes to dealing with their mental health challenges. We have sky rocketing rates of porn addiction, incels, guys who have no clue how to talk to women, guys with no friends, just a huge portion of the male population that believes they are hopeless or living entirely dead end existences. There have been voices in this space which are deeply corrupt and idealogical and go to extremes, pick up artistry, dead end gym grinding, this sort of hyper masculine try hard shit. Not many people have really taken this side of stuff and brought it together with spirituality, "trauma healing" and balance. I believe it is possible to find my audience and niche down and actually win many of these guys back with truth, honesty and integrity. I think basically what you have to do is become a personality and face on the internet but then actually specialize and hone down your skills to actually offer perspectives that help young men resolve inner issues. We see a lot of guys solely focusing on money as the solution, and they rage bait guys by then shitting on women. This space could use a more balanced male perspective and it's untapped because so many people are like sheep, just looking at the guy shitting on women or the guy grinding in the gym that validates the world view of the person who wants to feel bad about life being hard. 


I've included this video down bellow as an example of how one may build a young men's wellness brand. 

 

 

Edited October 18 by Lyubov

[LordFall]

Totally agree, there is a big gap in the market for a more holistic version of Andrew Tate. Humanity and young men in general need a new mission or purpose to rally toward.

I think generally we are going towards world alignment in the coming decade so that is an inspiring mission to get behind; literally world peace. 

[Lyubov]

1 hour ago, LordFall said:

Totally agree, there is a big gap in the market for a more holistic version of Andrew Tate. Humanity and young men in general need a new mission or purpose to rally toward.

I think generally we are going towards world alignment in the coming decade so that is an inspiring mission to get behind; literally world peace. 

It is indeed bro, I can see it slowly forming and coming together, surprises in store. I think there’s definitely leg work to do in the meantime and it’s painfully obvious how little attention this market has gotten. It really is true when people say “we gave up on young men.” I think there’s definitely room for more holistic and integrity based approaches that bring spirituality in, bring in money and fitness, relationships with women and all that, but don’t have this political ideology and hyper capitalist, hyper try hard gymcel wolf of wall street vibe to it. It’s way out of balance. Young men are some of the lowest demographic to actually seek help with solving deeper issues that need resolution through love and wisdom. Actualized and Leo’s work is one of the few communities that brings it all together. I know Leo has said he is more interested in explore the edges of reality and cognition, pushing his perspective and perceptions into radical unknowns, he’s not really looking to create a sort of “healing” model or system that encompasses day to day living. He’s laid the groundwork in many ways by bringing spirituality into manosphere / self improvement. But we need more people from this community now who are interested in day to day life and getting fulfillment from helping people to now create their own models that can appeal to the wider audience of men. It’s largely dominated by scammers, hyper capitalists and culture war shit. I don’t think genuine holistic self improvement is some niche most men won’t touch except the long haired hippies or soft guys, it needs to be explored but this demographic is definitely underserved and change can happen here. 

[LordFall]

Yeah tbh I don't have a massive interest in dedicating myself to helping young men either but I do have a soft spot for them. When guys message me or I see them struggling in a way I can easily fix I tend to try to connect them through the big social circle I have but it's definitely an issue of moving on to different problems.

Some of them suffer from an entitlement issue and lack of growth mindset and I'm also not sure how to fix that. 

[Lyubov]

59 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Some of them suffer from an entitlement issue and lack of growth mindset and I'm also not sure how to fix that. 

yes, these are some of the exact problems I'm looking to help solve for some people, since I know I can't help all of them. What would you call an entitlement issue? in my model I use the word the "inner child" for the word "ego" and the inner child by nature usually acts very entitled, it's about integrating and balancing it with the higher spiritual self. 

[LordFall]

I would call it people fighting me on things that I have authority in and they seem to want. Clearly I have some ego around it as well since it triggers me but when I try to help someone and they argue with me over the very thing I'm trying to help them with, even when I try to empathize and see it from their perspective, it totally turns me off from trying to help them. 

Idk what it says about my ability as a teacher but idk if I really like helping people or I just have a calling and responsability towards it. Something I gotta explore further. I'm an INTP so I mostly like teaching people new ways to think that I believe will lead them to great rewards but I don't like actually being in there with the doing the thing. 

[Lyubov]

37 minutes ago, LordFall said:

I would call it people fighting me on things that I have authority in and they seem to want. Clearly I have some ego around it as well since it triggers me but when I try to help someone and they argue with me over the very thing I'm trying to help them with, even when I try to empathize and see it from their perspective, it totally turns me off from trying to help them. 

Idk what it says about my ability as a teacher but idk if I really like helping people or I just have a calling and responsability towards it. Something I gotta explore further. I'm an INTP so I mostly like teaching people new ways to think that I believe will lead them to great rewards but I don't like actually being in there with the doing the thing. 

Oh, yeah dude. In that case I would write such students off. I don't think it's really productive this dynamic. It's one thing to encourage students to wake up, and take responsiblity for what they believe and why they believe it. And if they find what I have to say isn't for them, go their own way, but if someone comes looking for help and my perspective and then they just want to argue with what I say, yeah pass.