If a girl sits on the opposite couch ?

[Lyubov]

4 hours ago, Javfly33 said:

Nothing like that has ever happened to me. When Girls have been really into me is clear and noticiable. Everything is offensively "easy".

The other ones...well, maybe you can "fight It" and try to seduce them/Win them over. But...is usually a Lost Battle. 

When a girl is attracted to a Guy/feels comfortable with, is very easy for the man to escalate. Is not even escalation is walking the stairs and she is waiting for you 

My experience as well. Women will only create these boundaries if they don’t really like you or want to sleep with you and it’s uncommon for her to flip on them once they are there. It even comes down to the date. A dinner date for example, one that a girl insists on, it is a sign she ain’t that horny. Horny girls will meet you on the street at night if they like you. Just screen for that. And from my experience if you ain’t finding girls like this in your screen it means you need to work on things that make you attractive. The raw “game” skills are actually quality limited and not complicated at all if you 1) know how to screen 2) are relatively attractive in an area with women you are attracted to 3) know how to just shut up and get out of your own way and not fuck it up or overthink it. I don’t even bother with restaurant dates anymore if I haven’t slept with a woman. Just take them to the beach or a bar and you will know your answer in the first 30 minutes if she wants to sleep with you. 

[MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI]

Todd Valentine is the cure.

[Basman]

5 hours ago, Lyubov said:

I agree sex isn’t as a big of deal for women as it’s understood by most men, but I do think on average they take it a bit more seriously and take on more physical risks which they are aware of, the dynamic which most women have sex also makes it so that they also tend to get a little more quickly attached and fall in love quicker than the man. I’m not sure I entirely agree with this but generally women will go after men they see as above their pay grade on the dating chart in their mind while men date women at their pay grade or down in their mind. So it sets it up so the woman has more invested in it in her expectations than the man, at first. So you see a lot of women this make a big deal after sex when it doesn’t work out, cause to them they lost an opportunity. 

There are way more risks and costs for women than men sexually and they depend more on social resources on average. Its then natural to gravitate towards commitment and social value.

[Lyubov]

3 hours ago, Basman said:

There are way more risks and costs for women than men sexually and they depend more on social resources on average. Its then natural to gravitate towards commitment and social value.

yes, i agree, but it's not a drastic difference at least in more metropolitan, sexually liberal cities. Safety is maybe the first thing and then it is not wanting to see themselves as a slut / easy as second. Apart from those two hang ups sex isn't that big of a deal for women and used often as a bargaining chip / leverage initially and throughout the relationship. In privacy many girls will act like major hoes and you'll never know, just even by looking at them or even by their lifestyle. I've met totally introverted girls who don't party who are hooking up with several new guys a week for periods of time. Found out from other girls spilling the tea on their friends. Girls in general are no angles on this topic and they hide it out of fear. 

Edited October 20 by Lyubov

[Leo Gura]

19 hours ago, gettoefl said:

High risk, scant reward, poor mental health

I say that casual sex leave women feeling shitty, unfulfilled and jaded

All true. But since women sleep based on nothing other than mood, what you say makes no difference.

[TheEnigma]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

All true. But since women sleep based on nothing other than mood, what you say makes no difference.

Ohhhh I respectfully disagree. yes it does matter and how a man says it too

Edited October 20 by TheEnigma

[NoSelfSelf]

17 minutes ago, TheEnigma said:

Ohhhh I respectfully disagree. yes it does matter and how a man says it too

Power of words is soo important, the way a man stimulates whats between the ears is 1000 more powerful than whats between her legs excuse my profanity but when those 2 combined its next level you know it.

Also whos saying it is important.

Edited October 20 by NoSelfSelf

[mmKay]

Throw pillows at her until she moves

Then get rid of that extra couch  --  sell it and get yourself a shaggy rug. The fluffiest rug money can buy you

No shoes in the house rule. Sit her down on that cloud and enjoy a more playful vibe. She will actually throw herself on it willingly without you saying anything

Or get one of those huge  XXL Lazy bean bags filled with styrofoam balls. 

Anything of that playful / fun nature is good. Fill your house with that kind of stuff. Play with her as if she was a little girl ( don't stretch this too far guys )


Let me know how it goes 

 

Edited October 20 by mmKay

[NoSelfSelf]

11 minutes ago, mmKay said:

Get rid of that extra couch

Sell it and get yourself a shaggy rug. The fluffiest rug money can buy you

No shoes in the house rule. Sit her down on that cloud and enjoy a more playful vibe. She will actually throw herself on it willingly without you saying anything

Or get one of those huge  XXL Lazy bean bags filled with styrofoam balls. 

Anything of that playful / fun nature is good. Fill your house with that kind of stuff. Play with her as if she was a little girl ( don't stretch this too far guys )


Let me know how it goes 

Idea could be good if its your style,but why is one making her sit by removing stuff etc. Let her sit where she wants to sit, if she doesnt like your advances she can leave i dont see why forcing shit on women 😅...

[mmKay]

On 16/10/2024 at 11:30 PM, AION said:

So I invited this girl at my place and she sat on the one person couch instead of the three person couch. 

Get up, sit on top of her and say that that's actually your place  -- then tell her that she's actually the most unconfortable girl you've ever sat on, stand up, grab her by her wrist, walk her to the other one, and when y'all sit on the three person couch place numerous pillo's between you and her and say that it's your protection against her -- or tell her to place her purse in the middle so that ( you ) feel safer

 

 

and tell her to make you some popcorn

 

Two step forwards one step back

Edited October 20 by mmKay

[AION]

I'm not rearranging my house to get some strange. 😂