Posted October 15 26 minutes ago, bambi said: No, what Im saying is this: to engage in sex work of any kind is to have low self esteem. And this will be come cristal clear the more you evolve spirtiually. No advanced spiritual person is farting or pissing on peoples face for money for example lol, its degrading and demeaning to both participants I'd rather be of low-self esteem and fart and piss on people who don't mind than to be a forum bully and show's no regard for people's feelings and who constantly belittles people to feel better about themselves and try to defame people's characters. Pissing on someone that asks for that doesn't even come close not even by a mile on the traits i mentioned above. Money can't make one feel better about themselves but being loving and kind can, and also pissing on someone who enjoys that because it's the mind that thinks it's degrading. Love is the essence of creation in it's pure form and the more one strays away from that they are being unloving. Pissing on someone who wants that isn't unloving but being a menace to society is and the constant bullying and showing lack of respect, judging and criticizing is. Doesn't even come close in the relative sense. Know thyself.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 (edited) "Are these women lying?" I nod to myself in the mirror gruesomely, first time I've seen my reflection in a year Edited October 15 by LoseYourvelf Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 (edited) 16 minutes ago, bambi said: Enlightenment is simply what it says, no more self deceit or unconciousness Telling someone, no matter what they do for a living that they are far from enlightenment is in of itself unconscious behavior. You have shown more unconscious behavior on this forum than I have and if you were even remotely somewhat enlightened you would have come to the realization that the person's true nature is not what they do for a living BUT IS BEING WITNESSED. You have identified with a body/mind and in inturn you can't see pass other's. I'm aware that what I'm witnessing here on this forum from you is not who you truly are but just a false identity you have created and in that case I'm also aware that your bullying and defamations are also coming from a place of ignorance. This is why I won't block you unless it gets really really bad, which I doubt; and will still continue to engage unless it gets really, really bad, because for me it's not personal. In fact, this is very good practice for me to stay and rest as the witness. Edited October 15 by Princess Arabia Know thyself.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 6 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said: I'd rather be of low-self esteem and fart and piss on people who don't mind than to be a forum bully and show's no regard for people's feelings and who constantly belittles people to feel better about themselves and try to defame people's characters. Pissing on someone that asks for that doesn't even come close not even by a mile on the traits i mentioned above. Money can't make one feel better about themselves but being loving and kind can, and also pissing on someone who enjoys that because it's the mind that thinks it's degrading. Love is the essence of creation in it's pure form and the more one strays away from that they are being unloving. Pissing on someone who wants that isn't unloving but being a menace to society is and the constant bullying and showing lack of respect, judging and criticizing is. Doesn't even come close in the relative sense. You think Im a bully as I call you out on your bullshit. This is a spiritual forum, and spirituality and self-honesty are synonyms. I dislike your liking for pretense I merely mirror you in a purposeful way so you can clearly see the bullshit Again, piss and fart on whoever you want, whenever you want. But don't kid yourself about this dynamic, its absurd to even isninuate this is healthy behaviour. Its demeaning and degrading, irregardless of the consent, and at some level this whole category of behaviour will cease if you pursue spirituality properly Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 (edited) 2 minutes ago, bambi said: You think Im a bully as I call you out on your bullshit. This is a spiritual forum, and spirituality and self-honesty are synonyms. I dislike your liking for pretense I merely mirror you in a purposeful way so you can clearly see the bullshit Again, piss and fart on whoever you want, whenever you want. But don't kid yourself about this dynamic, its absurd to even isninuate this is healthy behaviour. Its demeaning and degrading, irregardless of the consent, and at some level this whole category of behaviour will cease if you pursue spirituality properly Ok ma'am. I guess the same goes for all the others you're a menace to. Seems to be one person in common here. Edited October 15 by Princess Arabia Know thyself.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 @bambi Stop inflamming these threads. You keep doing it. You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 16 When you have so many issues that you are too weak and dysfunctional to handle the fact that there are a few women on a forum, there’s probably no hope of ever having a good life. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 16 2 minutes ago, Kid A said: When you have so many issues that you are too weak and dysfunctional to handle the fact that there are a few women on a forum, there’s probably no hope of ever having a good life. I need a shirt that says "Probably no hope of ever having a good life" Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 16 10 hours ago, Schizophonia said: Off not. I use XNXX What’s that Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 16 8 hours ago, Princess Arabia said: Believe it or not most working girls of all kinds are not like the character they play in their jobs. Thats why it can work for them. Imagine a real slutty woman in real life being a slut on camera and playing both roles for most of her entire life. Most women who are slutty on the streets or in real life could not play those parts because they would take it too personal and also, and you might not understand this, the guys would be able to sense it and not like her as much. Like I always say, people misjudge those in the adult industry, porn is a little bit different because it takes a little different mindset to do that but OF girls are not sleeping with their clients and a lot of working girls aren't having sex. So the misconception is huge. Look where I am in my spare time. I'm not out partying or galavanting and engaged in nonsense, I'm on a forum talking about spiritual stuff and reading books and making recipes. Most other working girls I know are just taking care of their kids and having family time. We are very misunderstood. Not to say anything bad about them but it's the clubbing girls, neighborhood girls and conservative women like nurses, librarians, secretaries etc who are really sleeping around. Of course not all, just saying. I can prove it to you. Go and see the types of people that go to swingers clubs, nude beaches and are online looking for hook up and casual sex. Do a survey and you'll see it's the girl next door type. When I'm not working I don't want to be bothered with that type stuff and most guys who patronize are way worse and are very sexually loose. Lots of people in the business world are very promiscuous and engage in lewd sexual activity. The working girl is mostly just doing a job and can turn that off when she gets home. So don't think OF girls are any different they just have a more open mind, see an opportunity to make money and do. Okay I see. Hopefully you didn’t take offence from my comment Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 16 I think in 2024, Chico the model is considered by far the most attractive He has almost become the standard for young men to aspire to. Women, including older women seem to be looking for more feminine, pretty looking men. I am the exact same age as Chico, born the same year and I observe guys with his look always doing well with women. One thing I have noticed however is that the prettiest most feminine women are the ones more attracted to the more masculine looking men, with hard features. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 16 1 hour ago, Sugarcoat said: What’s that A not very catholic website lol Ofc I’m joking. Nothing will prevent Wily. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 16 9 hours ago, Emerald said: What is it about me tending to be attracted to more average looking guys over very attractive guys that's disappointing to you? I'm not quite understanding why that would be a problem from your perspective. I've said it before, and I'm just paraphrasing you: because you feel like you need leverage to really feel desired. After that I'm not going to continue on this because I'm lazy lol, and it's up to you anyway, but there you go. 9 hours ago, LoseYourvelf said: Hey more for me and you, right @Schizophonia Ahahah Nothing will prevent Wily. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 16 40 minutes ago, Tenebroso said: I think in 2024, Chico the model is considered by far the most attractive He has almost become the standard for young men to aspire to. Women, including older women seem to be looking for more feminine, pretty looking men. I am the exact same age as Chico, born the same year and I observe guys with his look always doing well with women. One thing I have noticed however is that the prettiest most feminine women are the ones more attracted to the more masculine looking men, with hard features. I honestly find this guy million times more attractive than Chico. I'm not kidding. Look at his sauve features. My name is Reena Gerlach and I'm a woman of few words. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 16 54 minutes ago, Schizophonia said: A not very catholic website lol Ofc I’m joking. Lol Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 16 9 hours ago, Leo Gura said: @bambi Stop inflamming these threads. You keep doing it. What to do though? The amount of bullshit posted in them is sickening. Theres a subset of women whos voice is over represented in these threads as though they are the source of truth when it comes to sexuality and dating. Its dangerous for younger men, or men who want to learn how to actually attract women Emerald wont even acknowledge any post that doesnt re-inforce her ego. She has never once responded to any of my points, no matter how logical, concise and clear they are, as they undermine her ego posturing - not once. This in and of itself is a form of disrespect and condecension, which goes totally unchecked by moderation, yet not by any of the latest AI models (do we have female qoutas to fill?). The only difference between me Princess and Emerald is that I make my disrespect explicit and purposeful, they play games and pretense. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 16 23 minutes ago, bambi said: Theres a subset of women whos voice is over represented in these threads as though they are the source of truth when it comes to sexuality and dating. Its dangerous for younger men, or men who want to learn how to actually attract women A smart man will go out and test for himself what women are attracted to. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 16 6 hours ago, LoseYourvelf said: I need a shirt that says "Probably no hope of ever having a good life" When I went to secondary school, I had an «All Hope Is Gone» shirt, after the Slipknot album. This was at a time when the worst thing you could be was an emo. I would say it worked out surprisingly well. I don’t even have to use the handicap toilet today. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 16 3 hours ago, Sugarcoat said: Lol "Croatian POV" 👀 Mhh ok i stop. Nothing will prevent Wily. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 16 1 minute ago, Kid A said: When I went to secondary school, I had an «All Hope Is Gone» shirt, after the Slipknot album. This was at a time when the worst thing you could be was an emo. I would say it worked out surprisingly well. I don’t even have to use the handicap toilet today. What do you have ? Nothing will prevent Wily. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites