Posted October 15 2 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said: Haha, you really want to play the queen! I’m not saying you’re ugly because you’re not. I find it interesting that you say if a guy were super good-looking, it would bother you. Do you feel it would make you less attractive, or just that he doesn’t realize how attractive you really are? But you also have to consider that your kids would look like models if both of you were very attractive, so you get a little bonus! Even if it’s not about you personally, it would still make your genes happy! I don't think I'm ugly. But I value feeling beautiful, especially in romantic contexts. And I would not feel beautiful with a guy who's prettier than me. Like I mentioned before, it would feel like the Feminine version of emasculation. My husband (who I have children with) is an attractive guy and was very classically handsome when we met 14 years ago. And our kids are a couple of cutie pies. But he's also about a decade older than me. So, I could still access the feeling of being desired as youth is widely considered more attractive than age. So, it still set up that dynamic of me as the more attractive person in the relationship despite being with an attractive guy. Are you struggling with self-sabotage and CONSTANTLY standing in the way of your own success? If so, and if you're looking for an experienced coach to help you discover and resolve the root of the issue, you can click this link to schedule a free discovery call with me to see if my program is a good fit for you. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 10 minutes ago, Emerald said: That's difficult to choose for me. I'm really not attracted to Luis Guzman, though I can recognize how some women would be. But I would feel uncomfortable and ugly engaging romantically with Chico. And I would feel really gross. So, honestly neither as both would feel very uncomfortable to engage physically with for different reasons. If I had to choose I'd probably end up picking Luis Guzman because I think I'd be able to feel less self-conscious in that situation. But it still wouldn't be pleasant because I'm not attracted to him. yeah, I was asking if you had to choose as in the case of life or death - figuratively speaking. Not which one you'd be more attracted to personally. Personally, I'm not attracted to either one physically. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 1 minute ago, bambi said: But what game are you playing here, she told you directly several times, and you cotinue with some naive nonsense I just asked why she felt that way in a bit more detail. And you get upset about it? Don’t you realize this is a forum? People ask questions and listen to each other. You shouldn’t have to be here if you want to get upset about everything. The end of separation is the end of desire. It’s life, it’s death, it’s unity; it is the absolute. In this profound realization, we find perfection eternal, a state of everlasting harmony. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 9 minutes ago, Emerald said: That's difficult to choose for me. I'm really not attracted to Luis Guzman, though I can recognize how some women would be. But I would feel uncomfortable and ugly engaging romantically with Chico. And I would feel really gross. So, honestly neither as both would feel very uncomfortable to engage physically with for different reasons. If I had to choose I'd probably end up picking Luis Guzman because I think I'd be able to feel less self-conscious in that situation. But it still wouldn't be pleasant because I'm not attracted to him. You’re obsessive neurotic. You literally tacitly explain that you’re think you’re a shit and therefore that your main strategy to feel loved (have power) is to suppose that « he is desperate enough. It’s terrible. Nothing will prevent Wily. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 Just now, Spiritual Warfare said: I just asked why she felt that way in a bit more detail. And you get upset about it? Don’t you realize this is a forum? People ask questions and listen to each other. You shouldn’t have to be here if you want to get upset about everything. Im participating in the forum in my way, you value naive childish bullshit, and I value honest intellectual discourse, and now we meet Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 1 minute ago, Schizophonia said: You’re obsessive neurotic. You literally tacitly explain that you’re think you’re a shit and therefore that your main strategy to feel loved (have power) is to suppose that « he is desperate enough. It’s terrible. Wow, you misinterpreted her. I understood, so I'll leave it at that. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 3 minutes ago, Emerald said: I don't think I'm ugly. But I value feeling beautiful, especially in romantic contexts. And I would not feel beautiful with a guy who's prettier than me. Like I mentioned before, it would feel like the Feminine version of emasculation. My husband (who I have children with) is an attractive guy and was very classically handsome when we met 14 years ago. And our kids are a couple of cutie pies. But he's also about a decade older than me. So, I could still access the feeling of being desired as youth is widely considered more attractive than age. So, it still set up that dynamic of me as the more attractive person in the relationship despite being with an attractive guy. That’s great, but I wasn’t talking about whether he was better looking than you. I meant, if you were equally attractive, would it bother you? The end of separation is the end of desire. It’s life, it’s death, it’s unity; it is the absolute. In this profound realization, we find perfection eternal, a state of everlasting harmony. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 Just now, Princess Arabia said: Wow, you misinterpreted her. I understood, so I'll leave it at that. No I’ve perfectly understood her mechanisms, even if my words are brutales. Nothing will prevent Wily. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 @NoSelfSelf @Leo Gura Can you please give @bambi a warning? He has done this before with others, getting upset for no reason and calling me things that aren’t true. I would appreciate it if you could talk to him or give him a warning. Thank you very much! The end of separation is the end of desire. It’s life, it’s death, it’s unity; it is the absolute. In this profound realization, we find perfection eternal, a state of everlasting harmony. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 (edited) A warning for what lol? Im not allowed to speak to you directly? Do you feel emasculated when I call you naive and childish infront of the girlies Edited October 15 by bambi Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 3 hours ago, Buck Edwards said: Women are attracted to the less attractive guy so that they can appear attractive. And nobody can detect the irony in this. You already admitted he is less attractive. Thank god I'm normal and attracted to a normal masculine guy. I'm not afraid to be attracted to the guy I find attractive. I don't have to pretend to be a saint or angel. And if guys can't handle it, sorry harsh truth. Obviously those women don't even realize they are lying. Most women are like you by the way. The female mafia of Emerald and Princess operaitng as though they represent all females, or have absolute female knowledge is bizarre. Both of them are atypical, and neither of them understand female sexuality, ones a sex worker and the other is celibate in a sexless marriage. How are these two seen as an authority of normal female sexuality lol! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 4 minutes ago, bambi said: A warning for what lol? Im not allowed to speak to you directly? Do you feel emasculated when I call you naive and childish infront of the girlies I’m just letting the girlies see what real charm looks like while you keep reminding them why they should never date someone serious. The end of separation is the end of desire. It’s life, it’s death, it’s unity; it is the absolute. In this profound realization, we find perfection eternal, a state of everlasting harmony. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 (edited) 22 minutes ago, Schizophonia said: You’re obsessive neurotic. You literally tacitly explain that you’re think you’re a shit and therefore that your main strategy to feel loved (have power) is to suppose that « he is desperate enough. It’s terrible. Status Seeking Neurotypical human beings care intensely about what other people think of them, and spend a significant amount of energy tracking their relative status compared to other members of their group. When opportunities to increase status appear, most people will seize them. Psychological Projection In its malignant forms, it is a defense mechanism in which the ego defends itself against disowned and highly negative parts of the self by denying their existence in themselves and attributing them to others Social Comparison Theory A defensive tendency that is used as a means of self-evaluation. When a person looks to another individual or group that they consider to be worse off than themselves in order to feel better about their personal situation, they are making a downward social comparison. Downward comparisons can elevate self-regard. Inferiority complex An inferiority complex may cause an individual to overcompensate. For example, a person who feels inferior may surround themselves with individuals who are even worse off than they are. If this is taken to the extreme, it becomes a neurosis. Edited October 15 by Keryo Koffa Iridescent ⠂⠕⢎ 💥 ⡱⠪⠐ Living Rent-Free in 🥳 Liminal 😁 Psychic 🥰 ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤 Synergy ☯ Your ❄ Fractal 💗 Heart Hyper-Space ! 𓂙 𓃦 𓂀 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 Just now, Spiritual Warfare said: I’m just letting the girlies see what real charm looks like while you keep reminding them why they should never date someone serious. LOL I am not on this forum for the girlies my dear friend. I came for the discourse Instead Im being subjected to your tomfoolery Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 Just now, Keryo Koffa said: Status Seeking - The Personal MBA Neurotypical human beings care intensely about what other people think of them, and spend a significant amount of energy tracking their relative status compared to other members of their group. When opportunities to increase status appear, most people will seize them. Psychological Projection In its malignant forms, it is a defense mechanism in which the ego defends itself against disowned and highly negative parts of the self by denying their existence in themselves and attributing them to others Social Comparison Theory A defensive tendency that is used as a means of self-evaluation. When a person looks to another individual or group that they consider to be worse off than themselves in order to feel better about their personal situation, they are making a downward social comparison. Downward comparisons can elevate self-regard. Narcissistic personality disorder An inferiority complex may cause an individual to overcompensate. For example, a person who feels inferior may surround themselves with individuals who are even worse off than they are. If this is taken to the extreme, it becomes a neurosis. Very accurate post 10/10, the last point explains exactly why she comes here, but what does that say about the rest of the members here Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 9 minutes ago, bambi said: A warning for what lol? Im not allowed to speak to you directly? Do you feel emasculated when I call you naive and childish infront of the girlies Oh, I get it! You came for the discourse but ended up in the circus! Don’t worry, I’ll keep the tomfoolery going, it’s clearly more entertaining than your serious debates! The end of separation is the end of desire. It’s life, it’s death, it’s unity; it is the absolute. In this profound realization, we find perfection eternal, a state of everlasting harmony. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 Just now, Spiritual Warfare said: Oh, I get it! You came for the discourse but ended up in the circus! Don’t worry, I’ll keep the tomfoolery going, it’s clearly more entertaining than your serious debates! Lets ground this back to some sensibility. Do you have any confusion at all regarding any of the content in this thread or dating in general? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 4 minutes ago, bambi said: Most women are like you by the way. The female mafia of Emerald and Princess operaitng as though they represent all females, or have absolute female knowledge is bizarre. Both of them are atypical, and neither of them understand female sexuality, ones a sex worker and the other is celibate in a sexless marriage. How are these two seen as an authority of normal female sexuality lol! You just need to go work on your need to having to always put people down when you speak. Sex worker and celebrate sexless marriage doesn't even come close to rudeness, disrespect, always criticizing and judging. A sex worker can be loving, kind and compassionate can't say the same about you. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 (edited) 3 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said: You just need to go work on your need to having to always put people down when you speak. Sex worker and celebrate sexless marriage doesn't even come close to rudeness, disrespect, always criticizing and judging. A sex worker can be loving, kind and compassionate can't say the same about you. I never doubted how loving or kind you are. Just that your sexuality is not representative of normal or average females. Edited October 15 by bambi Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 Just now, bambi said: Just that your sexuality is not representative of normal females. I don’t think there is a single normal person on this forum. I AM itching for the truth Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
