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Are these woman lying? (Is this Dogma in Dating Culture?)

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43 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

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That's why

10 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

 

That's right. There are two sides to a coin. People hate what they don't understand and people also hate what they do understand. That's why they hate it because they understand it perfectly well, and in this case, that men are about looks and that they are competing in that category. Men love beautiful women and women hate other beautiful women.

Just responding to your meme here to explain why it has some validity and doesn't apply to all women and not necessarily how i view things, it's just the way it is and where some of the women disliking other women come in amongst other reasons but this is one of them. I know because I've been exposed to that.


 

 

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13 minutes ago, Nemra said:

@Princess Arabia, would you say that you like men with a masculine core, but femininity on top of it can make them much more attractive?

Bingo. But not feminine looking, and depends on the feminine trait. 


 

 

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9 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

The reason you’re not choosing the guy on the bottom is because he’s too young for you, which makes him less attractive to you. But what I was saying is that if someone had to choose, it would be the one on the bottom, and there’s nothing wrong with saying that. It’s just how our nature works.

How you go tell someone, especially like Emerald whose in this space and coaches people on relationships/sexuality, why she wouldn't choose what she wouldn't choose. I tell you, you guys are something else. Just the mere fact that you said what you said shows you're just projecting your beliefs and your ideas about women. You don't have a clue and I'm saying this based on the fact that you're telling an experienced woman about herself without even knowing her.


 

 

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9 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

That's why

That's right. There are two sides to a coin. People hate what they don't understand and people also hate what they do understand. That's why they hate it because they understand it perfectly well, and in this case, that men are about looks and that they are competing in that category. Men love beautiful women and women hate other beautiful women.

Just responding to your meme here to explain why it has some validity and doesn't apply to all women and not necessarily how i view things, it's just the way it is and where some of the women disliking other women come in amongst other reasons but this is one of them. I know because I've been exposed to that.

It’s like a reality show, always a new twist.


The end of separation is the end of desire. It’s life, it’s death, it’s unity; it is the absolute. In this profound realization, we find perfection eternal, a state of everlasting harmony.

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59 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

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I have noticed this about men that the ones who try to over analyze women are the ones who tend to dislike women. They come up with a variety of assumptions. Their fundamental motivation is not understanding women, but something else they try to cover up. It's mostly confirmation bias kind of a thing. The men who tend to like women don't need any understanding of women, they simply surrender to them. 


My name is Victoria. 

 

 

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1 minute ago, Princess Arabia said:

How you go tell someone, especially like Emerald whose in this space and coaches people on relationships/sexuality, why she wouldn't choose what she wouldn't choose. I tell you, you guys are something else. Just the mere fact that you said what you said shows you're just projecting your beliefs and your ideas about women. You don't have a clue and I'm saying this based on the fact that you're telling an experienced woman about herself without even knowing her.

I don’t need to know Emerald to understand what she would choose in certain scenarios. You can’t change your nature when it comes to attraction, trying to do so will only lead to disappointment. She also mentioned that she wants someone who is attractive like her, which excludes the first man because the one on the bottom is more attractive.


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4 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

I have noticed this about men that the ones who try to over analyze women are the ones who tend to dislike women. They come up with a variety of assumptions. Their fundamental motivation is not understanding women, but something else they try to cover up. It's mostly confirmation bias kind of a thing. The men who tend to like women don't need any understanding of women, they simply surrender to them. 

Not just that, they've embraced their feminine side and are attracted to that in a woman. They're not fighting it and they're lovng that side of them in the women they chose to love. It's all psychological. That's why the more in tune one is with themselves and embrace all parts the easier it is to love others and others will find them easier to love as well.

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3 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

I have noticed this about men that the ones who try to over analyze women are the ones who tend to dislike women. They come up with a variety of assumptions. Their fundamental motivation is not understanding women, but something else they try to cover up. It's mostly confirmation bias kind of a thing. The men who tend to like women don't need any understanding of women, they simply surrender to them. 

In my personal experience, it’s the opposite when it comes to surrendering.


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8 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

But not feminine looking, and depends on the feminine trait. 

I kinda get you. 😏

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I was trying to understand what this thread is about for 15mins but it's impossible


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5 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

In my personal experience, it’s the opposite when it comes to surrendering.

I agree with what she said because a lot of men who get along with women, it's not so much that they understand them but they just love the femininity she exudes and are willing to surrender to that and are willing to learn and understand her in the process - afterwards. They're not trying to change her, and will usually choose women of high calibre where they know they don't have to worry about surrendering their own masculinity and maintain an air of security and not feel emasculated or challenged.

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Just now, Salvijus said:

I was trying to understand what this thread is about for 15mins but it's impossible

Lmao. Don't try. In fact, you just demonstrated an air of masculinity here. Perfect example of a man who would make a good husband. Lol


 

 

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Just now, Princess Arabia said:

I agree with what she said because a lot of men who get along with women, it's not so much that they understand them but they just love the femininity she exudes and are willing to surrender to that and are willing to learn and understand her in the process - afterwards. They're not trying to change her, and will usually choose women of high calubre where they know they don't have to worry about surrendering their own masculinity and maintain an air of security and not feel emasculated or challenged.

Of course, you agree with her because you’re both girls. You probably dream about girl power and all that nonsense. I’m not biased, there’s a difference between you and me.


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3 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

I was trying to understand what this thread is about for 15mins but it's impossible

It’s not worth it if you don’t want to have a stroke.


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15 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

I have noticed this about men that the ones who try to over analyze women are the ones who tend to dislike women. They come up with a variety of assumptions. Their fundamental motivation is not understanding women, but something else they try to cover up. It's mostly confirmation bias kind of a thing. The men who tend to like women don't need any understanding of women, they simply surrender to them. 

This is a gaslight on men, men don't like the women because they over analyze women were given 2 separate images one of a conventionally unattractive man and then a conventionally attractive man. Then women over analyzed the fuck out of the two pictures to create a disagreement.

They start making up stories about how they want to feel more attractive than their partner and how we don't understand women. We don't because they are making up stories about two images when one is objectively more attractive. Anything else about the images is made up by the women then the woman gaslight the men claiming they don't understand them, when they are just making up fictitious stories about these two images.

The question is do you want someone that looks like a goblin or one that looks like a romantic vampire and they are saying they want the goblin through an egoic narrative of their partner not cheating on them if they are more attractive than them. We cant understand them because we can't understand insanity.

I dont remeber women throwing their panties at one of these guys comedy shows but Edward the vampire had millions.

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3 minutes ago, Hojo said:

The question is do you want someone that looks like a goblin or one that looks like a romantic vampire.

 

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4 minutes ago, Nemra said:

I kinda get you. 😏

A man who looks physically like a man, quite masculine, but with an air of kindness, compassion and vulnerability in that he's willing to open up and not be afraid of how he will be perceived, That's the same as courage which I believe is a masculine trait but also has feminine qualities to it. Not someone who can't make decisions, who is whiny and needs for me to make him feel secure and who leans on me for important decision-making. He knows when to let go of his leadership role to allow and accommodate for my wishes, desires, and likings without being submissive but as a showing that he cares about how I feel. Things like that.


 

 

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4 minutes ago, Hojo said:

This is a gaslight on men, men don't like the women because they over analyze women were given 2 separate images one of a conventionally unattractive man and then a conventionally attractive man. Then women over analyzed the fuck out of the two pictures to create a disagreement.

They start making up stories about how they want to feel more attractive than their partner and how we don't understand women. We don't because they are making up stories about two images when one is objectively more attractive. Anything else about the images is made up by the women then the woman gaslight the men claiming they don't understand them, when they are just making up fictitious stories about these two images.

The question is do you want someone that looks like a goblin or one that looks like a romantic vampire and they are saying they want the goblin through an egoic narrative of their partner not cheating on them if they are more attractive than them.

You might think it's gaslighting but I observed it in real life. Men of the marrying kind are simple honest men and they just try to connect with a girl of their liking and settle down with her. They don't feel so threatened by women and get along with women just fine and immediately surrender their masculinity to her, flow with her and understand her in the process. Whereas men who are too much up their asses, don't surrender easily and keep overanalyzing women because they feel so insecure that they constantly worry too much about surrendering to a wrong woman. So eventually they get so picky that no woman can ever satisfy them because they have to find a fault in every woman. 


My name is Victoria. 

 

 

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23 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

It’s not worth it if you don’t want to have a stroke.

24 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Lmao. Don't try. In fact, you just demonstrated an air of masculinity here. Perfect example of a man who would make a good husband. Lol

It's something about how amazing women are and how men are able to understand that so well, I reckon. 

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