Posted October 15 (edited) Women are attracted to the less attractive guy so that they can appear attractive. And nobody can detect the irony in this. You already admitted he is less attractive. Thank god I'm normal and attracted to a normal masculine guy. I'm not afraid to be attracted to the guy I find attractive. I don't have to pretend to be a saint or angel. And if guys can't handle it, sorry harsh truth. Obviously those women don't even realize they are lying. Edited October 15 by Buck Edwards My name is Victoria. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 10 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said: You have to understand women want to feel attractive. Emerald talked about this. So they might sometimes be drawn to less attractive men in order for them to feel attractive in comparison. Here the only other choice is a top model guy, if the choice was between a maybe 7/10 guy vs the first one I bet they would’ve chosen the 7/10 guy . Dating a top model isn’t quite appealing to many women who aren’t models themselves. Just because someone is more conventionally attractive doesn’t mean women will be more attracted to him, by this thing of feeling desirable themselves as I mentioned . And just biologically too, we tend to be attracted to people around our own level of attractiveness. Plus a last point women aren’t as looks oriented when being attracted to men as men are Here, another female's perspective. These guys will call us liars before they try to understand the females perspective. A much older man especially if he's very attractive and has had a lot of rejections in his life would be able to understand this better. He thought his looks would get him the ladies until he had a deep awakening to the truth. Now he understand women better and that's one reason some women prefer older men. They are a little more in tune to what women like and understand them more. Let these guys keep talking while the men that understands how we think keep on raking in the doe. Shows how they really don't care about who we really are but more about what we can do for them. Generalizing here, guys so not all shoes fit. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 Just now, Princess Arabia said: Here, another female's perspective. These guys will call us liars before they try to understand the females perspective. A much older man especially if he's very attractive and has had a lot of rejections in his life would be able to understand this better. He thought his looks would get him the ladies until he had a deep awakening to the truth. Now he understand women better and that's one reason some women prefer older men. They are a little more in tune to what women like and understand them more. Let these guys keep talking while the men that understands how we think keep on raking in the doe. Shows how they really don't care about who we really are but more about what we can do for them. Generalizing here, guys so not all shoes fit. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 Also another point the first guy looks more masculine so might give impression of being more masculine subconsciously, this connects to what NoSelfSelf said about women connecting looks to behavior Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 1 minute ago, Princess Arabia said: Here, another female's perspective. These guys will call us liars before they try to understand the females perspective. A much older man especially if he's very attractive and has had a lot of rejections in his life would be able to understand this better. He thought his looks would get him the ladies until he had a deep awakening to the truth. Now he understand women better and that's one reason some women prefer older men. They are a little more in tune to what women like and understand them more. Let these guys keep talking while the men that understands how we think keep on raking in the doe. Shows how they really don't care about who we really are but more about what we can do for them. Generalizing here, guys so not all shoes fit. I get that some women prefer older men. But a lot of women prefer handsome men. Hollywood wouldn't be full of handsome hunks. And what about boy bands and all the girls throwing their shirts and bras at them. Like Leo said don't go for clickbait Instagram content Women on the street will prefer the second guy. I myself would prefer the second guy too. He looks handsome. Just a bit feminine because he has no beard, but that's okay. He looks fine and cute and girls like cute guys, at least I do. My name is Victoria. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 3 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said: That is so fucking true. All the bla bla bla goes out of the window until they recognize who you are ,but one must know who one is to himself to present himself(knowledge of self>knowledge of women),so the woman can get a feel for you to come to you. There is nothing safe with playing it safe. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 1 minute ago, Buck Edwards said: Women are attracted to the less attractive guy so that they can appear attractive. And nobody can detect the irony in this. You already admitted he is less attractive. Thank god I'm normal and attracted to a normal masculine guy. I'm not afraid to be attracted to the guy I find attractive. I don't have to pretend to be a saint or angel. And if guys can't handle it, sorry harsh truth. I respect your opinion and you're entitled, and i love your takes on a lot of things; but I think you're missing the fact that a lot of this has to do with what stage that female is at in her life, her age, life experiences and personality. It's not about being normal, but a matter of taste and survival. Which one of those guys do you think looks like he would be able to provide and protect. Which one looks like he could tackle a bear if it came charging at us. Which one looks like he could make very difficult decisions and be more responsible if needed. Depending on a woman's survival needs the first one fits all those categories the best just from his looks. Not saying he will, but just from his looks. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 3 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said: All the bla bla bla goes out of the window until they recognize who you are ,but one must know who one is to himself to present himself(knowledge of self>knowledge of women),so the woman can get a feel for you to come to you. Absolutely🌟 The end of separation is the end of desire. It’s life, it’s death, it’s unity; it is the absolute. In this profound realization, we find perfection eternal, a state of everlasting harmony. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 Just now, Princess Arabia said: I respect your opinion and you're entitled, and i love your takes on a lot of things; but I think you're missing the fact that a lot of this has to do with what stage that female is at in her life, her age, life experiences and personality. It's not about being normal, but a matter of taste and survival. Which one of those guys do you think looks like he would be able to provide and protect. Which one looks like he could tackle a bear if it came charging at us. Which one looks like he could make very difficult decisions and be more responsible if needed. Depending on a woman's survival needs the first one fits all those categories the best just from his looks. Not saying he will, but just from his looks. Lmao I just focus on looks if the discussion is about looks. You can say I'm a bit look biased. My name is Victoria. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 1 minute ago, Princess Arabia said: I respect your opinion and you're entitled, and i love your takes on a lot of things; but I think you're missing the fact that a lot of this has to do with what stage that female is at in her life, her age, life experiences and personality. It's not about being normal, but a matter of taste and survival. Which one of those guys do you think looks like he would be able to provide and protect. Which one looks like he could tackle a bear if it came charging at us. Which one looks like he could make very difficult decisions and be more responsible if needed. Depending on a woman's survival needs the first one fits all those categories the best just from his looks. Not saying he will, but just from his looks. I thought similarly too Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 19 minutes ago, Schizophonia said: Yea women prefer "to beat around the bush". That's why they bore us so much lmao. Haha, true! It’s like they’re writing a novel instead of just getting to the point. The end of separation is the end of desire. It’s life, it’s death, it’s unity; it is the absolute. In this profound realization, we find perfection eternal, a state of everlasting harmony. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 22 minutes ago, Schizophonia said: Yea women prefer "to beat around the bush". That's why they bore us so much lmao. So you want a women to take a lead ? There is nothing safe with playing it safe. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 4 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said: I get that some women prefer older men. But a lot of women prefer handsome men. Hollywood wouldn't be full of handsome hunks. And what about boy bands and all the girls throwing their shirts and bras at them. Hollywood needs the looks. Ordinary women aren't being protected and provided for and lead by looks. They will admire from afar because that's feeding the visionary sense. When it comes down to it Hollywood men doesn't matter when it comes down to a woman's survival mechanisms and agenda. Like I said it also depends on age. All those teenie boppers screaming at those Hollywood performers are just being teenagers and are young and inexperienced. Those guys are cute and makes them feel a certain way at that stage. You won't find mature women doing that stuff. Hollywood is not real life. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 @Princess Arabia I mean just trying to be honest. My problem is that I am not attracted to the less attractive men because I won't enjoy sex with them. He might pay my bills but I won't feel romantic with him so I won't feel like loving him. Just being honest about my feelings. He can't turn me on. But I get turned on by handsome men and I'm naturally drawn to them. So even if he can't pay my bills, at least I can have a baby with him and I can enjoy sex with him. That's how I look at it. I mean I want the romantic candle light dinners and I want to feel romantic around him but I won't feel turned on if he is ugly, sorry. My name is Victoria. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 8 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said: Also another point the first guy looks more masculine so might give impression of being more masculine subconsciously, this connects to what NoSelfSelf said about women connecting looks to behavior Yeah because those women are at the point to be taken care of, but those choosing a model is the one who looks for adventure, since its about sexual attraction.That's how i see it.You cant ever know thats why its pointless debate. There is nothing safe with playing it safe. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 Just now, NoSelfSelf said: Yeah because those women are at the point to be taken care of, but those choosing a model is the one who looks for adventure, since its about sexual attraction.That's how i see it.You cant ever know thats why its pointless debate. My exact point. My name is Victoria. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 (edited) 19 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said: I’m not There is no difference in the way i would lovingly treat a woman of varying degrees of attractiveness. I say this because it sounds like "If he's too attractive, I don't have the power to let myself go (for fear of being ridiculed or something)." Unless it's an even more twisted software ahah. Edited October 15 by Schizophonia Nothing will prevent Wily. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 2 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said: So you want a women to take a lead ? Good question. Certain things will only come out of feminine men. Certain men can only see certain things when they themselves aren't mature to see them and certain attractive looking men don't want to accept that women aren't just in for the looks. They actually get offended when women say it's not just all about the looks or chose a less attractive guy over them. That's feminine behavior. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 The end of separation is the end of desire. It’s life, it’s death, it’s unity; it is the absolute. In this profound realization, we find perfection eternal, a state of everlasting harmony. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15 3 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said: Yeah because those women are at the point to be taken care of, but those choosing a model is the one who looks for adventure, since its about sexual attraction.That's how i see it.You cant ever know thats why its pointless debate. I’d say similarly I think, but some might genuinely be into a more “bear” look sexually. But now we getting into details, as you say can’t know for sure Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
